Those things about PUA

Some people say that compared to PUA, you are lucky if you meet a scumbag, get sad and spend money. After all, PUA cheats money and sex, but lives.

? 1: What is PUA?

? 2: Big PUA incident On October 9, 2019, Bao Li, a talented girl from Peking University, committed suicide by taking medicine in a hotel. Treatment was ineffective and she died in April 2020. After part of the chat records between her and her boyfriend were exposed, this matter also attracted widespread attention. Being mind-controlled, being PUA, calling my boyfriend master in the chat history, having him abortion and sterilized, without any dignity, the more I think about it, the more terrifying it becomes...

? Many netizens started discussing, and some people were glad that they had escaped that place. It was a painful time; there was also a message sharing the painful process of being PUA. He committed suicide many times. He thought it was his own problem and it took him a lot of time to get over it. Looking back now, it is still a nightmare! …. Three: Stories about being PUA around me

? I used to think that PUA was far away from me, but when girls shared their “stories”, I realized that such routines are so similar.

? There is a girl, tell her to laugh. She met a boy named Lin Tao when she was traveling in poverty. This man is ugly, and Xiaoxiao is a member of the Appearance Association, and there is no love between them. However, when Xiaoxiao mentions this boy, she always says that this boy is very good. His family is super rich. He has a villa in Beijing, a private jet, a yacht and so on. It's just that he is sick now and lives in a sterile ward. He can only play with his mobile phone occasionally every day, which means that it is normal for this boy to lose contact from time to time. Then this boy said that it would cost a lot of money for him to be hospitalized. When he was discharged from the hospital, he would pay back double the money to Xiaoxiao. Xiaoxiao’s money was not much. I don’t know the specific details of their communication? I don’t know how the trust between them was established step by step, but Xiaoxiao transferred money to him every month after his salary was paid, about 4,000. For more than half a year, I lost contact with Xiaoxiao. I haven't asked specifically.

? There is also a girl friend, Junjun, who is very beautiful and is an anchor. I met a person on the Internet. That person's circle of friends was very well-established, and I felt like he was a super rich person. Then he confessed to Junjun, saying that he had connections in Beijing. Junjun was so good-looking, talented, and well-educated (graduated from 211 Institute) that he could find her a stable job in Beijing and buy her a car. At that time, he seemed to say It's better to buy a Ferrari. Anyway, she believed things that we outsiders didn’t believe. I don’t know how they established trust? Later, the man said that he was sick and was hospitalized in Beijing. He lived in the most luxurious and sterile ward. He could only play with his mobile phone occasionally and borrow money from friends. My friend had no money, so he swiped his credit card and transferred 50,000 yuan to him. Another friend discovered something was wrong and tested it. Junjun bought a ticket to Beijing, pretended that he had arrived in Beijing to find the man, and asked the man to send a friend to receive him. The man’s WeChat phone number can no longer be reached. . . Junjun was a little convinced that he had been deceived, and then he slowly realized that he had really been deceived!

? Four: PUA routines

? PUA was originally just a pick-up art, but now it is the perverted behavior of poor losers and scumbags!

? Now there are courses dedicated to teaching PUA, which cost thousands to hundreds of thousands, including speaking skills, creating a circle of friends, creating a personality, and how to get girls to "take the bait" step by step. There are several types of PUA. The main one is cheating for sex in the same city. Of course, after paying so much tuition, you have to cheat money; the main one is cheating for money in another place. There is also the most disgusting kind of cheating for money and sex, which can also lead to life. This group of people are so gregarious that they show off how many women they have slept with and how long they spent sleeping with them? How much money did those "girlfriends" transfer to them? What kind of gift did I buy? I regard it as a manifestation of male charm!

? Therefore, the recruitment targets of this kind of people are partly targeted at poor losers. This group of people cannot find beautiful girlfriends in reality, they can also be looked down upon, and they have no advantage in choosing a mate. Therefore, they learn PUA, which is very perverted and has a revengeful mentality. This group of people not only cheat money and sex, but also want to regain their self-esteem, so they want women to be obedient.

Therefore, verbally, they constantly suppress, attack, and brainwash women with "slut theory", "loyalty theory", etc., which make women deeply doubt themselves and step into their traps, like Bao Li, a girl from Peking University, In the end, they suffered a nervous breakdown and committed suicide; some students, wanting to show off their personal charm, kept sleeping with various girls, taking nude photos of others, making sex videos, etc., and posting them in their group to show off. . .

? Five, advice for girls?

This group is rotten and there is no way to save it. This group of people has extremely abnormal psychology. So girls must protect themselves!

1. Don’t be greedy; don’t believe it if a stranger asks you to borrow money and pay you back twice as much, or don’t believe it if he suddenly treats you well or promises to buy you a car or a villa! Pies in the sky will not fall. What you think is good, a rich and handsome man will not suddenly fall in love with Cinderella in the online world. When things go wrong, there will be monsters. Be careful. What you think is good may be a trap!

2. Believe in yourself and love yourself. If in a relationship, the other person keeps suppressing you to build up your self-confidence, and you become more and more inferior in the relationship, please leave decisively. Only when you meet the best version of yourself can you meet love.

3. Don’t be fascinated by a man’s sweet words. Don’t look at what he says about how much he loves you. Look at what he has done to truly care about you. Look at whether he is motivated and whether he loves you. Emotionally stable, see if he is sincere and kind.

4. If you are threatened with a special video or photo, don’t be afraid, call the police bravely and protect yourself with the law.

? There are rubbish and good people in the crowd. Don’t be afraid, but also pay attention. I wish all the girls will meet their loved ones and live a happy life.