Divorced female workers secretly cheated and suffered violence.

Divorced female workers secretly cheated and suffered violence.

Blog friend's message:

Li Muzi:

I met him on the construction site, when he was in charge of Party A's technical affairs, and I was a subcontractor on the construction site. After seeing his divorce agreement, I decided to create a future with him. It should be noted that my marriage is also a divorce agreement, which was only given to me by the court.

During this period, he told me that a female netizen loved him very much. Although we occasionally mention her in our daily life, it's just a joke, and neither he nor I are at ease. We go to work together every day, and we share everything in life. For half a year, we have been glued together.

Half a year later, because the female netizen sent him a message late at night, I realized that he had been in contact with the female netizen, so we had a big fight and he hit me. Later, he got scared, apologized to me and promised not to do this again. I believe it.

The next day, after he went to work, I opened his blog and saw his intimate photos with female netizens. I'm completely devastated. I can't accept what is in front of me. It's terrible. I chose to break up. Obviously, he also accepted the reality and watched me leave calmly.

His ex-wife suddenly called me. What I never expected was that his ex-wife told me a more terrible news. She was pregnant with his child and said that he had sex with her when he went to her house to fix the toilet. In order to know more about who he really is, I promised to meet his ex-wife, who is not pregnant.

He said that the 30-year-old female netizen is a virgin to him, and playing with her is only to fulfill her wish. He can't be with female netizens, because female netizens are not his type, and take photos with female netizens. He just thinks that female netizens have come all the way to find him. In order not to let the female netizen feel sad and disappointed, I trusted him with tears and vowed to forget those sad things and decided to live with him. We ...

On his birthday, we were going to take our daughter and his son out to play, but the female netizen came. I left a message for the female netizen, just letting him choose freely. As a result, female netizens began to attack me. After he learned about it, he came to my unit and stayed with me all afternoon.

I took the initiative to find the hotel where the female netizen stayed, and the female netizen had already left. Think about the online attacks on me. I called the female netizen and the phone was turned off. I call her good sister. I was scolded before I could speak. Then the call ends. I was so angry that I sent a message to scold the female netizen and scolded her sister. "Later, the female netizen told him about it, and he blamed me. He hit me again in the quarrel. Now, he and the female netizen apologize to me every day. I don't know what to do.

Reply to the blogger:

According to you, your first marriage belongs to divorce, although you don't want to accept the reality of being abandoned by your ex-husband. Seriously, I applaud your ex-husband for getting out of trouble, because not many men like to live with an dissatisfied wife all their lives.

You can be talented, you can get men's love, but don't annoy men with practical actions.

After being with you, he has nothing to hide from his past. He talked about his problems with his ex-wife and the status of female netizens.

First of all, he must be very depressed after his divorce from his ex-wife. For this reason, he met a woman from a different place on the Internet, and then started an ambiguous cross-network love. No matter whether there will be results or not, at least for him in the empty window period, it is spiritual food. For second-hand men, in the face of marriage reorganization, they will definitely consider many practical problems, so after you appear, he will know that there are too many impossibilities with female netizens.

Not married, at least friendship still exists. In order to repay this debt of gratitude, he will give female netizens a chance to meet. After all, it is true that he came all the way to see him. What is wrong is that the real distance hinders their true feelings.

Starting the next relationship is unfair to the woman and you. If you don't show your dissatisfaction with your wife in the process of quarreling with him, he won't hit you, because some women just don't like what men say, and hitting you means making you a lady.

Whether facing his ex-wife or a female netizen, he chose you without hesitation. As for his second beating, you could have avoided it. You have no skin to provoke female netizens and her sisters. The arrival of the female netizen, your message, the female netizen's leaving without saying goodbye, and his accompanying you have all made it clear that the passive withdrawal of the female netizen will help you and him, but why can't you help others? It's your fault that you called her sister because you didn't get any results.

If you don't want to change the nature of a disgruntled woman and think about things as a whole, I feel sorry for her apologizing to you every day.

A dissatisfied wife can hardly see her own shortcomings and always feels that the whole world owes you. With such feelings, you will suffer for a lifetime, and it is not others who create your bad mood, but yourself.