19 banned film "Men and Women"-I love you, that's all.

Asians have always been sensitive and subtle about the topic of extramarital affairs: from Paradise Lost, the hero and heroine chose to hug each other and sleep together, and went to bliss, ending this nondescript love in the ultimate way of ending their lives; In the mood for love, the graceful sentence "If there are extra tickets now, would you like to go with me?" Has been explored. South Korea's Men and Women expresses the helplessness and sadness of middle-aged love in an aesthetic form. How beautiful the bubbles in the sun are and how tragic they are when they are disillusioned.

A rich lady took her autistic son to Finland to attend a winter camp and met a foreign architect. I learned that the daughter of the male owner also suffered from depression and was treated in the same camp. They also came from Korea, and they appreciate each other because of the same language and similar family experiences. In the ice and snow in Finland, I felt the warmth from strangers for the first time. In the sauna room deep in the snow, I broke through the moral boundary and found the increasingly desolate passion and gentleness in each other's bodies.

The hostess thinks that this is just a fleeting love affair, and the two lines will never meet again after they intersect. However, after returning to China, the man's attitude was ambiguous, and he tried again and again. In fact, he deliberately waited and chatted, which finally softened the woman's heart. She was full of defense and self-criticism and decided to give up her family and the man.

However, at this time, the man who was desperate for love flinched. There are two scenes that are particularly impressive: the woman and her husband formally showdown and decide to take the man away with them after divorce and wait for him in the hotel where they usually meet privately; The man went to the hotel, but hesitated at the moment he opened the door, and finally left silently. At that moment, will it suddenly be understood that even if some people fall in love, they can only stop at the door and finally leave with tears?

In the second scene, the divorced woman finally couldn't bear it and went to Finland to find a man. When she saw the scene of the man's family of three dining harmoniously in the restaurant, she chose to leave silently and finally burst into tears in the taxi. On the other hand, the man instinctively caught up with him. When he saw his daughter's eyes through the glass window, he stopped, fought back tears and continued to drive with his family. Since then, the two have officially parted ways, and their life trajectories have no intersection.

Whether you choose to be honest with yourself like the hostess or not, you can go into battle lightly and bravely pursue true love after divorce; Or choose family responsibilities like a man and continue with his wife and daughter. This is a personal choice, and outsiders cannot criticize it. Just because of the adult world, you have to pay for your choice.

That straight, endless snowy road seems to indicate that life is an irreversible journey. No matter whether you are in tears or smiling, you can only go all the way.