Shandong's vulgar marriage scandal was criticized in a notice

Shandong’s unethical weddings were criticized in a public notice

Shandong’s unscrupulous marriages were criticized in a public notice, and the groom’s friends were making fun of the groom. Witnesses said that they tied the groom to a street light pole, then sprayed him with flour and coke, and finally sprayed him with a fire extinguisher. Shandong's vulgar marriage was criticized in the notice. Shandong's vulgar marriage troubles were criticized in a notice 1

Recently, a video about "a groom making trouble at a wedding in Zaozhuang, Shandong" has been widely circulated on the Internet. The groom suffered an unforgettable wedding trouble at the door of the hotel. The picture is really jaw-dropping and cannot bear to be looked at. It has aroused the strong attention of the majority of netizens. Let us briefly review the process of the wedding.

October 15, 2021, is the tenth day of the ninth month of the lunar calendar. According to the imperial calendar, it is suitable to get married and travel, to seek wealth and open the market, to trade and make a bed, and to go to work. So today is a great day to get married, and a small group of people in Zaozhuang, Shandong Province also chose to get married today. Wedding is a happy day that will be unforgettable for a lifetime. And I think today’s experience will definitely make this guy even more unforgettable.

At the entrance of the hotel, the young man’s friends tied him directly to a telephone pole by the roadside with tape, tying up his hands and feet, and then a young man in black directly tied the young man to a telephone pole. The bag of flour was sprinkled directly on the groom's head. In an instant, the groom's head, face, and body were all covered in flour, and the groom couldn't even open his eyes. The young man who was spreading the flour smiled and said, "It's so handsome. This groom is so handsome, so handsome."

This is not over yet, the next step is The companion next to the man in black began the second round of attacks. Someone kept spraying Coke, Sprite and other drinks on the groom's head and face. These drinks were mixed with flour to form a paste, which was sticky to the groom. All over the body.

What’s even more outrageous is that immediately after these wedding friends brought several fire extinguishers, they fired at the groom’s head and face. The mixture of flour, coke and fire extinguishers was really helpless. Imagine what the groom's whole body looks like now. The scene is really eye-catching.

This video was widely circulated on the Internet and attracted the attention of netizens. Afterwards, the relevant local departments also issued a briefing, stating that they had criticized and educated the parties involved and would intensify efforts to change customs. educate. Shandong's vulgar marriage troubles were criticized in a notice 2

Recently, in front of a hotel in Zaozhuang, Shandong, the groom's friends were making trouble with the groom. Witnesses said that they tied the groom to a lamppost, then sprayed him with flour and coke, and finally sprayed him with a fire extinguisher. They felt that this behavior was not very good.

On the 16th, the People's Government of Malantun Town, Zaozhuang City reported that on October 15, 2021, a video reflecting "uncivilized marriage troubles" attracted the attention of netizens. After verification, the behavior occurred near a hotel in the jurisdiction, and the video was recorded by the groom's friend. Relevant departments have criticized and educated the parties involved. In the next step, the town will continue to increase publicity, education and rectification efforts on changing customs, and draw inferences from one example to prevent such behavior from happening again.

Can this matter be settled with a simple criticism and education? Can we make these people be kind and stop engaging in ugly marriages? The answer is no.

Ugly wedding troubles were once limited to a certain area, but with the blessing of the lack of privacy on the Internet, they have been fully exposed to the public: today they were tied to telephone poles, and yesterday they were asked to wear only one piece of clothing in winter. , Beer was thrown at me the day before yesterday, and I was asked to perform a humiliating show in public the day before yesterday.

We can’t help but ask, how many “creative” wedding ideas do you still have that you haven’t shown us yet?

Marriage has a long history in Chinese history. It was originally intended to bless the newlyweds and congratulate them on good luck, but it gradually turned ugly.

A review of news events in recent years shows that the victims of marriage troubles have expanded from the bride and groom to their parents, and even to the best man, bridesmaid, relatives and friends. In terms of geographical distribution, marriage incidents mainly occur in Shandong, Yunnan, Henan, Shaanxi, Guangdong and other places, and they are polarized: relatively few in large and medium-sized cities, and more common in small cities and towns.

Due to the relatively slow pace of cultural renewal and quality improvement in small cities, and the relatively boring cultural life, backward culture is prevalent in these areas, and the lack of distance in a society of acquaintances has led to thinking, Qualified people dare not raise their own objections because no one will consider their opinions and they are easily isolated.

Perhaps in the eyes of many people, ugly marriage customs are just a once-beautiful marriage custom that has gradually become ugly. It is a change in behavior. As long as it is stopped, criticized and educated. And ugly marriage customs are essentially a violation of the law. A series of behaviors such as tying people up are actually illegal and are suspected of restricting personal freedom. However, under the packaging of marriage customs, this seems to be reduced to a trivial matter. The criminal law stipulates that the crime of insult refers to the use of violence or other methods to openly tarnish the reputation of others and the circumstances are serious. There is this description in the crime composition: blatant use of force to force others to perform embarrassing actions. Everything seems self-evident.

Now let’s put ourselves in your shoes, how would you feel if you were tied up somewhere in front of the screen at this moment, and then were splashed with liquid by people around you? You will definitely feel embarrassed and your personal personality has been violated. Therefore, an ugly marriage is still a trampling and contempt for personal dignity.

In response to a series of problems such as ugly marriage troubles, the Ministry of Civil Affairs issued the "Guiding Opinions on Carrying out Pilot Work on the Reform of Marriage Customs" this year. The "Opinions" pointed out that unhealthy tendencies such as sky-high betrothal gifts, extravagance and waste, vulgar weddings, and comparisons with gifts should be rectified.

Putting an end to ugly marriages and other bad habits requires not only the guidance of the civil affairs department, but also the timely handling and punishment of the public security police, and the judicial department's public interest litigation that affects bad behavior. At the same time, it is urgent to improve the quality of rural areas.

Today, beautiful wedding customs are coming to us!