Is it necessary to save the feelings of the bride price collapse?

Personally, I don't think it is necessary to save it. How can two people live with such a trivial matter as bride price? There will be more trivial things to face in marriage in the future. Such feelings are really not worth saving.

The bride price is a magic mirror, and many problems can be seen, such as whether you two are suitable or not, and whether the three views of the two families are consistent. Here is a story to share with you.

This man is a university teacher and has a garage. The down payment on the house has been paid. He also suggested that the woman's name should be added when she got married after paying off the loan. At present, he is still paying off the loan. After paying off the loan every month, his salary is still 3000 yuan. Halfway through the renovation, except for the cost of hard clothes, his card was basically empty, and later there were expenses for soft clothes and parking spaces. It costs a lot, and he has a headache. His parents work in administrative institutions, and it is estimated that they can't make much money.

His girlfriend is his colleague and has a younger brother who is engaged but not married.

My girlfriend's parents sell electric cars, and my brother helps in my parents' shop.

They were going to get married this year, but they broke up while discussing the bride price. At first, he said anything. The man and mother said to give it to him 128000, and his girlfriend agreed. But I don't know why. Later, his girlfriend said that the bride price 1.88 million could not be lower. They quarreled about it.

The man thinks he is more difficult. After all, decoration will cost a lot of money, and parents are not particularly rich. It's really too difficult economically. The man thinks you have a younger brother yourself, just engaged. You can understand me no matter how much bride price you give him. The man asked again, "Is there anyone who is against money?" His girlfriend was angry and said, "If her mother doesn't keep the money, let her get it back."

The man said, "I brought back your money. I won't touch you." They discussed whether the three gold items were included, and finally they considered breaking up without a good talk. Men are also angry and feel very broken. Their affection can't compare with the bride price of188,000.

Then they quarreled, and my girlfriend said, "It's over between us. I'll give you back the 6000 yuan and the gold chain that your mother gave me for the first time. My mother gives you 3000, and I'll give you another 3000. I have told my parents to pack the cigarettes, wine and tea you brought back and send them home. Don't contact me again. "

Subsequently, his girlfriend blacked out his WeChat.

His girlfriend gave him no room to discuss, because the bride price of188,000 has already passed.

After reading what the man said, I personally feel that there is nothing to save. She didn't think of you when you were in trouble. Is it necessary to save?

To tell the truth, the bride price of188,000 is indeed a bit high, and it does not include the three gold medals. If you buy three more gold, will it cost more than 200 thousand? Do you want to have a wedding reception in the future, and so on? Have you thought about how to live in the future?

In the matter of getting married, two people should negotiate well, and they are both college classmates. How can the bride price stop them after so many years of affection? If you want to think about your future life, you must think about the long term, not the temporary bride price.