Actor Hu Jun: There were two scandals with Carina Lau, and behind the love with Lu Fang, there were hardships and tears.

Hu Jun is a rare and powerful actor. He has starred in "Dragon", "The Founding of the People's Republic", "October Siege", "Fire Fighting Heroes", "A River of Spring Water" "Dongliu" and other works, he won the China TV Golden Eagle Award for Audience Favorite TV Drama Actor and the Hong Kong Film Golden Bauhinia Award for Best Actor...

However, before becoming famous, Hu Jun also experienced He has gone through many sad past events, but by his side, he has his wife Lu Fang who never leaves him and accompanies him silently. It's just that people didn't expect that the scandal between Hu Jun and Carina Lau made a big fuss, causing changes in his and Lu Fang's originally loving family, and their relationship was also in crisis.

Due to lack of communication, it was on the verge of divorce. However, with mutual understanding and trust, the conflict was resolved after calming down. Lu Fang also used wisdom and tolerance to let Hu Jun walk out. Overcome the confusion of middle age....

01.

Hu Jun was born in an artistic family in Beijing in 1968. His father Hu Baoshan and his uncle Hu Songhua are famous tenors in my country. Singer mother Wang Yiman is also a performing artist.

In order to make Hu Jun fall in love with art, they locked him in the bathroom when he was at work and asked him to practice piano in there. He even had to eat lunch in there. When will he be able to practice? If you are satisfied, you won't be treated like this.

In 1987, Hu Jun was successfully admitted to the Performance Department of the Central Academy of Drama, and became classmates with Jiang Shan, Xu Fan, Chen Xiaoyi and others.

Hu Jun’s time in China Opera is the place he misses most, but he lived a very hard life during that period. Even when he recalls it many years later, he can’t help but sigh: It was really hard then, but now If I were asked to go back to the Chinese Theater Academy for another four years, I would definitely quit.

Although life was very difficult, under such high pressure, a group of excellent actors were created. After graduation, Hu Jun was assigned to the Beijing People's Art Theater and became a drama actor.

Beijing People's Art Theater already has many big names, but in the first few years when he went there, Hu Jun had been playing a minor role. It was not until 1995 that Hu Jun finally got the opportunity to be the male protagonist, rehearsing the drama "Military Train". The female protagonist was Lu Fang, a beauty from the Yunnan ethnic minority.

Lu Fang also graduated from the Performance Department of the Central Academy of Drama, but she was three years younger than Hu Jun. But because she is beautiful, she did not have such a bumpy experience as Hu Jun. As soon as she came to Renyi, she appeared in 6 major dramas in a year.

While rehearsing with Lu Fang, Hu Jun was immediately attracted to this beautiful junior sister with an upright and straightforward personality, and he felt a strange feeling in his heart.

One day, after the rehearsal, Hu Jun enthusiastically invited me: I am treating you today, can you give me a favor?

Lu Fang also readily agreed to Hu Jun's invitation. Unexpectedly, as the host, Hu Jun became embarrassed at the dinner table and asked Lu Fang: I want to have a bottle of beer, okay?

Looking at the shy Hu Jun, Lu Fang pursed her lips and smiled: Just drink, are you a man shy?

When he was halfway through drinking, Lu Fang suddenly said to him: It doesn’t make much sense for you to drink alone. Go and get another bottle, and I’ll accompany you.

Faced with Lu Fang's decision, Hu Jun immediately became excited. In this way, the two of us drank a glass and became familiar with each other, and the restrained atmosphere disappeared. The more we drank, the happier we became.

Time flew by, and two hours passed. When he went to check out, Hu Jun discovered that the two of them drank 16 bottles, and one of them drank 8 bottles. And Lu Fang also had a peach blossom face, and her rosy face was even more charming.

After leaving the store, Lu Fang waved down a taxi and went home.

02.

With a dizzy head, Hu Jun also returned home. He turned around and thought, what if something happened to a girl who drank so much and went home alone?

He hurried to Lu Fang's dormitory and saw Lu Fang sitting on the edge of the sofa knitting a sweater and watching TV, which made Hu Jun's heart drop.

Seeing Hu Jun who was sweating profusely, Lu Fang was very moved. She smiled and said to Hu Jun: If you drink again in the future, don’t forget to call me.

In this way, Hu Jun and Lu Fang often eat together, and they are like "discussing heroes over wine". Even if it was a gathering of buddies, Hu Jun would drag Lu Fang along. Whenever he could no longer hold on any longer, Lu Fang would step forward and knock down his friends one by one with Hu Jun.

The most unforgettable thing for Hu Jun was the "Youth Festival Performance". At that time, Hu Jun was almost thirty years old and was still unknown in the entertainment industry. On the other hand, his classmates Jiang Shan, Chen Xiaoyi, Xu Fan and others had already become famous, and the pressure was even greater.

In order to leave a trace of youth, he decided to perform a stage play with his classmates without charging tickets. As a result, Hu Jun lost a total of 400,000 yuan. Lu Fang also raised a glass to encourage Hu Jun: With your courage, it would be strange if you don't succeed in becoming famous.

As they ate and drank again and again, the two became closer and closer. Several times, Hu Jun wanted to express his love over wine, but he couldn't control Lu Fang's thoughts and was afraid that the gain would outweigh the loss, so he kept holding back.

However, while Hu Jun was waiting for the opportunity, many young men began to pursue Lu Fang fiercely. Seeing them pursuing Lu Fang, Hu Jun felt very uncomfortable and wanted to make a "big move".

In early 1999, both Hu Jun and Lu Fang attended the Italian Theater Festival. They were still the same, often playing outside together. When they arrived at the world-famous Roman Forum, next to the "Girls' Fountain", Hu Jun held a rose in his left hand and a "brandy" in his right hand. He knelt down on one knee and proposed to Lu Fang: "Your house will last forever." Get drunk with me?

In fact, after getting along with each other for these years, Lu Fang had already fallen in love with Hu Jun, but she never imagined that Hu Jun would propose in such a romantic way. I saw her moved to tears and shouted: I do.

The way this couple proposed marriage made the foreigners in the square shout and send their blessings.

In May of the same year, Hu Jun and Lu Fang stepped onto the red carpet and entered the palace of marriage.

03.

After getting married, they lived in a simple apartment in Renyi and lived in poverty.

At that time, although Hu Jun won a Best Actor Award for his outstanding performance in "East Palace and West Palace", his fame and popularity had not yet increased, resulting in his very low salary.

They lived a very hard life, but instead of complaining, they lived a very sweet and happy life.

Until 2000, Hong Kong director Kwan Kam-peng approached Hu Jun and invited him to star in a work, including Lu Fang. This work also made him shortlisted for the Taiwan Golden Horse Award for Best Actor and won the Hong Kong Golden Bauhinia Award for Best Actor.

After that, Hu Jun's fortunes improved, his popularity soared, and he began to get more film appointments. He has starred in works such as "Tian Long Ba Bu" and "The Overlord of Western Chu", and has risen to the ranks of first-line stars. Almost all of the characters he plays are indomitable heroes.

However, just when he was becoming famous, Hu Jun had scandals with other actresses, and the marriage between him and Lu Fang was also facing tests.

In May 2003, a Hong Kong media took intimate photos of Hu Jun and Carina Lau having a night party and sending Carina Lau back to the hotel.

When the news came to light, it caused an uproar. Not only Hong Kong’s entertainment news, but also mainland media have reprinted it like crazy.

On the other hand, Lu Fang is specializing in building a new house. She is very tired from doing it herself. Coupled with Hu Jun's scandal, she is exhausted physically and mentally.

When Hu Jun returned home, he took out the newspaper that published the scandal about him and explained:

"At the opening ceremony of the 7th International Film Festival in Shanghai, Carina Lau and I were guests. , when we walked on the red carpet, the organizer asked us to look more intimate, and we had nothing to do in private."

Originally, the two of them spent less time together, and Lu Fang took care of everything at home alone. This made her exhausted physically and mentally, and she said to Hu Jun angrily: No matter what, you must be more careful with your words and deeds in the future, and don't leave any excuse to others.

Because of this incident, Hu Jun pays special attention to his words and deeds, fearing that he will hurt his wife again because of the scandal. He does not go to entertainment venues, nor does he spend time alone with actresses. Even in other places, he has to talk to Lu Fang for more than 45 minutes every day.

I just didn’t expect that less than a year after the scandal with Carina Lau, something unexpected happened again.

04.

In 2004, the director of the TV series "A River of Spring Flows East" found Hu Jun and invited him to play the male lead. After seeing the script, Hu Jun Very satisfied too. But when he learned that the heroine was Carina Lau, he hesitated and asked his wife if she wanted to take it.

Lu Fang didn't care, and said: If you and Carina Lau have nothing to do with each other, don't avoid it, otherwise it will leave more room for others to talk about.

Lu Fang's generosity and understanding moved Hu Jun very much and gave him the courage to walk into the crew to film with Carina Lau.

However, when the filming was about to end, a Shanghai media broke the news: Hu Jun and Carina Lau rekindled their old relationship, and Tony Leung, who was in great pain, got drunk in a bar.

When this news came to light, it was obvious that public opinion and criticism arose. Lu Fang was particularly hurt. Her relatives and friends called her one after another to ask whether she would divorce Hu Jun.

Lu Fang might not care so much about the public opinions on the Internet, but the words of her relatives and friends made her feel very uncomfortable, and she could not remain calm no matter what.

After the filming, Hu Jun bought a bouquet of roses to please his wife, but Lu Fang threw it to the ground angrily and cried: Hu Jun, honestly, you and What happened to Carina Lau?

Faced with his wife’s question, Hu Jun said with a wry smile: This is all media hype. We have been married for so many years, and you still don’t understand me?

Lu Fang didn’t believe it, and said: There are so many people in the crew, not just you, but you. Why do the media always hype you?

Helpless Hu Jun responded: Those dangerous emotions are enough to be experienced in the movie. The colorful flowers around me are not a temptation for me.

Although she knew in her heart that Hu Jun and Carina Lau had nothing to do with each other, Lu Fang was overwhelmed by the public opinion and criticism from the media, so she could only have a cold war with Hu Jun.

At this critical period, Tony Leung and Carina Lau stood up and clarified in front of the media. Tony Leung even said directly: Hu Jun and I are good friends, and I believe they are innocent. Please media Stop hyping these silly things.

After seeing this report, Lu Fang felt deeply guilty. She cooked a table of delicious food and apologized to Hu Jun at the dinner table. The two even drank together to relieve their feelings. Their heart-to-heart communication made the incident completely over.

In order to reassure Lu Fang, Hu Jun would take her with him in many activities. Because of this, Lu Fang also learned from her friends that because Hu Jun was afraid of his wife, he was very nervous when he was with other women and couldn't even let go while filming.

After learning the news, Lu Fang felt very uncomfortable. She said to Hu Jun: I am not that kind of narrow-minded woman. Filming is your job. Do whatever you want, as long as it works. If it's correct, then it's nothing.

05.

Later, during the filming process, Hu Jun had constant scandals, not only with Carina Lau, but also with Michelle Reis, Liu Tao and others, but Lu Fang They all chose trust.

Because of Lu Fang’s unconditional trust, Hu Jun was not afraid of scandals, and they acted together one after another, and even ate and drank together openly.

Especially in 2007, he boldly held hands with Carina Lau on the red carpet. Although there were two scandals between the two, Hu Jun was not ashamed and said publicly: I particularly respect those who have treated me. Women who have used feelings should be respected. Even if I can't give her the same feelings, I am still willing to get along well with them and treat them kindly.

Hu Jun, who has created many classic characters, is getting higher and higher salaries, but he is filming fewer and fewer movies. The reason is that the roles are not suitable for him and he will not act no matter how much money he is given.

Because of this issue, Hu Jun even had a big quarrel with Lu Fang.

When preparing for the filming of "Seven Swords", Tsui Hark invited Hu Jun to play the male lead, but was directly rejected by Hu Jun. This made Lu Fang very confused, so she said to Hu Jun: In order to When competing for the leading role, some actresses in the entertainment industry do not hesitate to use unspoken rules, while male actors sharpen their heads to get into it. Why did you give up this opportunity?

Hu Jun said to his wife: I have always respected Director Tsui Hark, and I like his style very much, but that role is really not suitable for me, and I don’t like it either. Filmmaking requires fate, and you should never die. Begging for nothing. I neither force myself nor force others. This is also a kind of responsibility for my artistic role.

Although she rejected this work and lost hundreds of thousands in income, Lu Fang felt a little regretful, but she understood the quality of her husband Hu Jun better: a man still appreciates the role he plays. If we can be so honest with each other, do we still need to be hypocritical towards the lover in our life?

Although Hu Jun has constant scandals, he will never let down the woman Lu Fang who has been with him since he was 27 years old.

In life, Hu Jun became a good husband and father.

One day, there was a parent-teacher meeting at her daughter’s school. Originally, Hu Jun was unwilling to go, but Lu Fang directly gave the “order”: Think about it, have you never attended a meeting with your child? At the parent-teacher conference, although the child doesn't say anything, she must have thoughts in her heart. Maybe she feels that you don't pay enough attention to her, or she may think that her father is a celebrity and is trying to show off with her.

When he arrived in his daughter's class, many parents recognized Hu Jun and looked at him curiously. Although he was a little at a loss, he felt particularly happy and at ease in his heart.

Happiness is not just words, it can only be explained with practical actions, filling love into the life of your lover.............

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