It's the first time to take a Shanwei girl home to meet her parents .. because today is my mother's birthday. ...

Don't worry too much, pay attention to your words and deeds, and don't be too deliberate about anything else. When we meet for the first time, I suggest that your parents don't ask too many questions, just talk about their families, and get to know each other more slowly in the future, so as to establish a good impression of your girlfriend on your parents, and the next contact will not be too stressful. About red envelopes, they are gifts. Isn't it because your parents have too many bags that she will be happy and don't want you if they have too few? Red envelopes are for good luck.