What if it rains when you get married? What should I pay attention to when holding a wedding?

What if it rains when you get married?

Getting married is the most important thing in life. Of course, I hope the sun shines brightly. But the weather changes are beyond our control, so how can we say it rains when we get married?

1. What's the saying about getting married in rainy days?

Some people say that the rain on the wedding day is a symbol of good luck, because it represents that heaven cries for the bride, and the bride will never cry, so she can be happy. Some people say that it rained on the wedding day, indicating that the groom married a lovely wife (watering his wife); Others say that the rain on the wedding day means that the daughter-in-law who gets married in the door is powerful and can't get married. Others think that water is wealth, and the rain on the wedding day is a good omen and will make a fortune in the future; Of course, there are also some sayings that it is unlucky to rain on the wedding day, and there will always be some bad things happening to couples in the future.

Many traditional newlyweds and their families are struggling with whether the rain on their wedding day is good or bad. Let's see what folk experts say.

Experts pointed out that the traditional culture of the Chinese nation pays the most attention to the "harmony between man and nature", that is, the harmony between man and nature. For example, when the weather is sunny, people's mood will be good, and when the weather is gloomy, people's mood will be bad ... This concept has a psychological impact on marriage. So various opinions circulated among the people.

For example, the windy day of the wedding shows that the mother-in-law is fierce, probably from the statement of "crazy mother-in-law"; As the saying goes, "the married girl throws water", and because it was raining when she got married, everyone understood it as "this water was thrown badly", so there was the saying that "the daughter-in-law is fierce"; Also, if the sun is strong on the wedding day, there is a saying that "my father-in-law is fierce", which may be derived from the saying that "my father-in-law is the sun".

Conclusion: Experts pointed out that the above discussion about whether it is good or bad to rain on the wedding day is actually a psychological function of people and has no scientific reason. This is a natural law that no one can change, because it is windy and rainy, and the moon is full and sunny. Daughter-in-law's character is related to her nature and acquired experience; What is the future prospect of marriage? It depends on the operation of husband and wife, and has nothing to do with the weather on the wedding day. I still suggest that we treat it with a normal heart and don't let the weather affect our mood.

Second, what if it rains when you get married?

1. Have a good mood

However, marriage is a happy event, but if it rains, most couples will be unhappy and upset. Rain on the wedding day will definitely bring a lot of trouble, and it may also affect the whole wedding process.

Coping strategies: At this time, the newcomers must adjust their emotions, make psychological preparations in advance, and maintain their calm and good mood. Consider it raining. This is God's help, which adds beauty and romance. Nothing can be done at this time except to calm down. Might as well not get married. In the morning, the atmosphere should be more playful, so that everyone's mood will be more happy. Here, I wish the new people to walk through the ups and downs of life hand in hand.

2. Wedding car and safety

Because rain will affect the line of sight, and it is easy to slip, traffic jams or accidents. So be sure to remind the relevant staff (such as makeup artists, photographers and cameramen) to walk early and slowly. Especially when the groom greets the bride in the morning, he must go out early so as not to delay the auspicious time.

Many newcomers like convertible very much and intend to use it as their main means of transportation. Although the weather in 165438+ 10 will make people's faces crooked, I still hope to use my favorite convertible. But if it rains, forget it. Although some people say that the roof can be put away, I think the convertible with the roof put away is really ugly ... You should change your mind and discuss the style of the wedding car as soon as possible. The groom should be a handsome guy that day, not a driver. Moreover, considering that the weather is really cold in June 5438+065438+ 10, go directly with the convertible, and don't worry if it doesn't rain.

Yes, and pay attention to the fact that floats are best decorated with flowers, which will look good after the rain. Don't use lace with dolls, it will be ugly if you get wet. ....

You will get caught in the rain when you go out, and you can't take an umbrella.

It is estimated that going out in rainy days is the most feared thing. You can't open an umbrella on the wedding day, because the homonym is unlucky-umbrella = scattered. Personally, I don't think it's worth it, but if both elders are taboo, don't use an umbrella. Some people say that you can use a blue umbrella, which makes it difficult to break up. But personally, it is always inconvenient to open an umbrella. For example, when the bride is carried out, it is very troublesome to open an umbrella.

At this time, no matter whether anyone in the family avoids using umbrellas, it is best not to use umbrellas or blue ones. Everyone is embarrassed to say this, so forget it. I'll buy a pile of disposable raincoats for you to keep, and those who help during the day will send one out. It's better to wear this way, which is convenient and meaningful.

Firecrackers are easy to get wet and not easy to ignite.

When you go out in the morning, set off firecrackers. Some families use firecrackers to scatter one on the ground and extend to the car. It's also a very festive picture, with firecrackers ringing and newcomers following. But if it rains that day, firecrackers will get wet, and it is completely impossible to open the way with firecrackers. It can be said that the feeling of jubilation will be lacking.

There are two ways to do this. One is to continue to use firecrackers, but not put them out in advance and put them under the eaves at the entrance of residential buildings. Another way is to learn from previous years, when setting off firecrackers was the strictest, that is, stepping on balloons. But because the ground is dirty in rainy days, I'm going to tie the balloon to the gate from the entrance. There are many places to tie balloons in the alley. Then, just poke the balloon with something all the way.

5, the face is prone to water and makeup.

If the wedding day is raining heavily and the face is stained with rain, it is very likely that you will wipe the water with your hands ... It's nothing at ordinary times, and wearing such meticulous makeup on the wedding day may be ruined. I believe this is absolutely unbearable for every bride. Such an important day must be beautiful.

Countermeasures: To solve this problem, we must rely on the constant attention and reminder of bridesmaids and makeup artists. So it is best to choose waterproof cosmetics. Once water is found, it's best to dry it with a paper towel in time, and then make up your makeup quickly. I must remember not to rub my eyes with my hands. I have such a bad habit.

6. The wedding dress is easy to get dirty during the day, and you are embarrassed.

No matter how hard it is to shelter from the rain during the day, it is estimated that it is difficult to ensure the cleanliness of the land. Attend a friend's wedding, even if two people follow her to grab the skirt, the skirt is still very dirty, so dirty that the skirt is covered with mud at the end, and the bride's legs are covered with mud, and the whole person is very sloppy. This is what the bride is most worried about.

Go out in the morning and prepare to move. Convenient hanfu. In fact, it is more important to keep warm when the temperature is low in rainy days. Second, the hem of Hanfu is not so long, which is convenient to move and not afraid of the skirt hanging on the ground and getting dirty. The natural image is more dignified.

The bride and groom should greet the guests and see them off. It's raining, and the temperature will definitely drop. You can add a cute little shawl or coat to the bride's wedding dress. Lovely and dignified, the most important thing is to keep warm. No matter how busy this day is, the illness will pass. Attention should also be paid to the cleaning of wedding dresses. Most wedding dresses are rented to photo studios. If they get dirty in the rain, it will cost a lot of money to clean them. So the bride might as well be romantic and let her husband hold them in the rain. They are all married. Nobody blames you for the sweetness in Xiu Xiu.

Although we can't control the weather, getting married is a happy thing, but don't let the rain affect you. Get ready. I believe we will have a perfect wedding!