The difference between a man who wants to sleep and a man who really loves you.

"In the past, the sun changed slowly, and cars, horses and postal services were slow. I have only loved one person in my life. " In the past, two people were together basically because of love, without any other factors. Nowadays, "true love" seems to be a luxury, and it is getting harder and harder to find someone who really loves himself. I don't know when love turned into "fast food" and two people together became "children's play". More and more people are hurt and tortured by love. In a relationship, under normal circumstances, women are the vulnerable side. Because, compared with men, women are more emotional and devoted. Therefore, after breaking up, women are most hurt by public opinion, such as being pregnant before marriage. Therefore, it is very important for women to learn to protect themselves in their feelings. However, most women don't have this ability and can't see a man's true view of himself clearly. Once in love, most women will become "love brains" and fall into it. On the one hand, such a woman will give her all, pour out all her love, and even become very humble. On the other hand, if the other person treats her better, such as sending a flower and saying a few sweet words, she will be moved to find true love. But in fact, the difference between love and not love is very obvious. As a woman, you should know that the difference between a man who wants to sleep with you and a man who really loves you is obvious: the frequency of contacting you. A man who really loves you will always miss you. He will want to know what you are doing, whether you have eaten or not, whether you have gone home ... So, frequent contact must be his standard. As soon as he is free, he will think of you unconsciously. And he will try to find time to accompany you. He enjoys and cherishes every moment with you. And a man who just wants to sleep with you will only contact you when his hormones rise. In normal times, he will seldom contact you. Even when you contact him, he will use various excuses to avoid it. He is not worth spending too much time on you. Just like a hot comment on the Internet some time ago, a man who really loves you will answer your phone every second even in the shower. And a man who doesn't love you is either sleeping or busy. Attitude towards you Whether a man wants to sleep with you or really loves you, his attitude can tell everything. If a man just wants to sleep with you, then his attitude towards you is bad first. When he is unsuccessful, he will try his best to coax you and be obedient to you. But once he succeeds, he will ignore your love and be impatient and perfunctory. Because you don't love, you are a burden to him. And a man really loves you, and his attitude towards you is "clear love and hate". He will be kind to you, but in moderation. When it's time to spoil you and follow you, he will do his best. But if you make a big mistake, he will definitely point it out and severely criticize you. He loves you, so he is willing to spoil you, but he doesn't want you to suffer outside because you have nothing to hide. Are you willing to disclose yourself? For a man who just wants to sleep with you, you are actually his "playmate". In this case, he didn't consider your future, and naturally he didn't want to disclose your relationship with your. You will find that you basically don't know anything about his circle of friends and life, let alone get involved. And a man who loves you deeply, making you his lawful wife, is what he has been thinking. Giving you a birthright is his promise to you and his responsibility to you. At the same time, he will also be eager to open your relations to the world and break the peach blossom around you. The difference between a man who wants to sleep with you and a man who really loves you II. How to judge whether a boy really loves you or just wants to sleep with you? First, he always talks sweet words to you but seldom uses practical actions to express "I love you". Such a boy may have multiple goals, and you are just one of them. After all, sweet words only consume his saliva and telephone bills, and he can send a "good night" message to many ambiguous girls in a few seconds. And you, after receiving his news every night, are inexplicably happy. It feels good to be remembered every day, doesn't it? It's really good, but only if he loves you. You can invite him out for a holiday or a day of special significance to you to see if his attitude is hesitant and whether he gave you a gift that day. Second, when he saw that you were wearing revealing clothes whether you went out or indoors, he not only didn't stop you, but pulled down your clothes and made some suggestive actions or words to you. This behavior clearly shows that this man is only interested in your body, and he doesn't love you very much. Generally, a girlfriend wears slightly revealing clothes when she goes out, and a slightly normal boyfriend will ask her to change into an unexposed one, or even force him to buy her clothes that he thinks are good-looking and safe. Because he loves you, he loves everything about you, but it belongs to him. He won't allow others to touch you, and even any man will feel angry when he sees you. Third, it will always be your excuse to introduce your beautiful little sister to him. This kind of man is ready to break up with you at this time, probably looking for the next good partner. Then I saw that the resources around you were not bad, so I thought about digging a corner quickly, maybe I could use it. And you, perhaps a little uncomfortable and unwilling, but his sweet words make you believe that this man in front of you will love you for life, and he will never do anything wrong to you. So, your good sister may also suffer. You give him the contact information of your sister, and he will play with your sister. Later, every time we were together, we felt that we were the redundant one. Fourth, you have introduced him to your parents and friends. Your circle knows about his existence, and you will often post about your daily dog abuse with him in your circle of friends. But he has been slow to introduce you to the people in his circle, and his circle of friends has basically no dynamics related to you. Even if there is, you still don't show your face. Do you think he was trying to protect you? No, he's just afraid that other ambiguous objects in his circle of friends will get suspicious. In Weibo, there is a poll about whether boyfriend and girlfriend love each other. More than 80% of the voters think it should be published, because it is proof of your relationship, just like two people who have been in love for a long time will want to get married, and the form of marriage will make you truly together in name. The difference between a man who wants to sleep and a man who really loves you 3. How to tell whether a boy really loves you or just wants to sleep with you 1? At the beginning of the relationship, he always praised a certain part of your body as beautiful and couldn't help but want to have close physical contact with you. When you chat, he will boast that some parts of your body are beautiful, but not the five senses, usually the buttocks, chest and legs. Always trying to hold your hand, hook your shoulder and even hug you, you can feel that he is not interested in food and play during the date, but he is interested in your body. 2. I seldom ask your topic in my chat with you, but I am very interested in the topic of "sex". In the chat, he doesn't care about your preferences, but is very interested in topics related to sex, such as praising your beautiful breasts and skin, or telling you dirty jokes. Because he doesn't want to be with you for a long time, he just wants to possess your body as soon as possible. And if a man wants to chase you, he will hide it well even if he wants to open a room with you again before determining your attitude. Because he cares about you, and he is afraid that one careless person will scare you away. When dating you, be sure to make an appointment where he is suitable for his hands and feet. For example, he insisted on sitting in the last row at the movies. For example, after dinner, you want to go home, but he drags you to the park. For example, at night, he insisted on pulling you to sing K ... because the dark atmosphere is more convenient for him to contact you: holding your hand with the plot in the cinema, pretending to be afraid of you giving you a cold hug in the park and so on. , is love rat's routine. 4. You are still getting to know each other, but you are always invited to his house on the pretext of watching movies and cooking, or invited to your house on the night of sending you home. Invite you to his house to see a movie, the excuse is to try your craft or go to your bathroom. When he makes such an invitation and you just say yes, you are one step away from losing your virginity. Remember not to let him taste your cooking in a hurry, otherwise, you may be his real meal. 5. Deliberately set the appointment at night or in rainy days, and invite you to stay in the hotel when it is very late at last. This kind of scene is also common in movies. In the evening, I'll invite you to sing K, have a midnight snack or go to a bar to drink. After that, I'll take you to a nearby hotel to check in. It's simple. I can't say it directly. I invite you to get a room. 6. I don't know you very well, but I always want to take you on a trip. Traveling is a very useful invitation, because few girls don't like it. When he invites you to travel to a place you want to go and book a romantic hotel, you must hold back if you want to go again. After all, your's relationship is not enough to travel together. To agree to go with him is, to some extent, equivalent to your acquiescence that something will happen with him. 7. After the invitation was rejected by you, the reaction was fierce and unhappy. When his invitation was rejected after you saw through it, his attitude towards you obviously took a sharp turn, and his words revealed his dissatisfaction with you. After rejection, he may be more interested in you, because men like to challenge difficult things, but his ultimate goal is to sleep with you.