Who can't get married at the wedding? What is the pressure?

Receiving the bride is very important in the wedding. Only by successfully receiving the bride can we ensure the smooth progress of the wedding. So what taboos should we pay attention to in the process of picking up the bride? Come and get to know me.

First, who can't marry?

There are many taboos in choosing relatives, so who is best not to participate in relatives' activities?

1, funeral at home

Generally speaking, weddings and funerals are best avoided, so people who have recently had funerals at home had better not take part in activities to pick up relatives, so as not to collide with the wishes of newlyweds.

2. Divorce and widowhood

In many places, people who pay attention to picking up relatives should be unmarried. If married elders are involved in picking up relatives, it is best not to divorce, remarry or be widowed.

3. Auntie

"Auntie doesn't pick it up, auntie doesn't send it" is also a custom in many places. Because "menstruation" is homophonic, "Solitude", "Koo", "menstruation" is homophonic, and "Suspicious" are all unlucky words in marriage, so it is better for the man menstruation and the woman menstruation not to attend the shuttle bus.

The specific people who can't take part in picking up relatives are still related to local customs, so when choosing to pick up relatives, you can ask your elders about local customs and taboos.

Second, the election of relatives.

The above are candidates who can't visit relatives, so who is suitable for visiting relatives?

1, the best man group

Generally speaking, it is to arrange the best man group and good brothers, because the best man will accompany the groom to "take the bride back through many hurdles", so the groom is an important part of the wedding attendants.

2. The elders in the family

In order to show solemnity, relatives also need some elders to "cushion", and it is best not to be aunts or uncles, because homophonic is unlucky.

3. Others

In some places, a pair of boys and girls will be arranged, indicating that in the future, "both children and children will be complete", and in some places, there will be wives (the groom's sister-in-law or other female elders).

Iii. Precautions and Taboos for Visiting Relatives

The details and taboos of picking up relatives are as follows.

1, number of relatives

In many places, there is a custom of "going to a single place and returning to a double place", that is, the number of people who pick up the bride should be odd, and the number of people who pick up the bride should be even, which means "more words and more mouths, pairs and pairs". Moreover, it is best for both sides to communicate well in advance, and the number of relatives on both sides should not be too different, otherwise the one with fewer people will be slightly impolite. It is recommended that each person 15 people.

2. Pickup route

Arrange the pick-up route in advance to avoid accidents on the road and delay auspicious time.

3. Others

When picking up relatives, the groom should not get off empty-handed, holding a bouquet in one hand and an apple in the other. When the groom's wedding car arrives at the bride's house, the bride's house should remember to set off firecrackers or salute.

The above is related to picking up relatives, and friends in need can refer to it.