What problems should we pay attention to in Putian engagement dinner? The recent 10-year love run is finally over.

It's my pleasure to answer your question.

There are too many things about engagement, so I'll tell you everything I know. It's a little messy, but I hope I can help you.

1, the two sides communicate well.

Before the engagement, both parents meet to exchange local customs, which is a respect for the woman's parents (after all, her daughter is so old that she will become your family). On the day of engagement, both parents can discuss the process casually. The engagement money is wrapped in red envelopes by the man's parents on the engagement day and given to the woman's parents (most of them will be given to the bride and groom later). When engaged, the man must buy more sugar, and when the woman's parents leave, they should take it back and distribute it to relatives and friends. Then there is Sanjin (jewelry), which can be bought at the time of engagement or marriage, or directly given to the woman for her own purchase.

You can change your mind if you are engaged or married. When you change your mouth, both parents will give you red envelopes, ranging from tens to hundreds, depending on the economic situation.

The wedding date is usually set in advance.

Half a year in advance can give both parties enough time to prepare for the wedding. Notice of the engagement party should be given to the woman after the date is set. Generally, the date cannot be changed at will. The hotel must be booked one or two months before the wedding, so as not to be booked at that time. The bride price is usually given to the woman before marriage, and the money will follow the bride. The bride will use the money to buy things needed for the wedding, and then go to the bride's house to discuss the process on the wedding day when she gets married.

3. The required items are ready.

Gifts that men should prepare:

1) Engagement fees can be divided into big engagement and small engagement, which should be evenly and properly wrapped in red paper.

2) Bridal gifts Usually, the bride price of the man can be divided into six simple gifts or twelve big gifts and sent to the woman's home.

3) How much is the banquet that the woman's family is going to entertain the man's family, and it will be paid in cash in the gift bag.

4) The matchmaker gave the man a little more gifts than the woman's.

5) The number of people leaving the man's house for the woman's house is 6 or 10 or 12.

Gifts that women should prepare:

1) Pick some red envelopes to give gifts.

2) Serve.

3) The matchmaker gives some gifts.