Facing her mother-in-law, Qu Xiaoxiao was so nervous. Why did Andy dare to be so cruel?

Every girl who is in love and about to get married has a dream and a nightmare: she dreams of becoming the happiest wife in the world, and the most fearful thing is meeting an evil mother-in-law.

In "Ode to Joy 2", even a domineering fairy like Qu Xiaoxiao didn't even dare to show off after meeting his future mother-in-law, and was so nervous that he died. Fan Shengmei, on the other hand, was humiliated by Wang Baichuan's mother at the beginning, and asked her to leave Wang immediately. She also asked Fan such questions as "What are your conditions?" This simply made Fan feel ashamed and left in tears.

But who would have thought that a girl like Andy, who claimed to have low emotional intelligence and no communication skills, would not be timid at all when faced with an evil mother-in-law like Mrs. Bao, and would even get into a fight with her. Andy's method of dealing with her mother-in-law was simply amazing. He used three tricks in total, and each one of them made her mother-in-law submissive.

That time, Andy went on a business trip to Mr. Bao’s city. Mr. Bao took Andy to dinner and happened to meet Mrs. Bao. When Mr. Bao introduced that this was her mother, Andy was not nervous at all. On the contrary, Mrs. Bao was very happy. She praised Andy's smart look and said she was beautiful. She kept holding Andy's hand and talking.

Because Andy was an orphan since he was a child, he hates physical contact with others. In the first season, he was very sensitive when hugging Brother Wei, but he was squeezed by Mrs. Bao for several minutes. He didn't even bite, but said "it's okay" and even invited Mrs. Bao to dine with the two of them.

So, Andy's beauty, temperament, and her politeness left a good impression on Mrs. Bao.

Another detail is that once Andy and Mrs. Bao were in the underground garage. They saw Mrs. Bao's husband hugging his mistress, getting in the car, and walking away. One can imagine how sad and humiliated Mrs. Bao was.

Guess what Andy's reaction was? surprise? joke? No, Andy was very calm, as if he didn't see anything and didn't say a word. She knows how to respect other people's privacy, which shows how highly educated she is.

Many girls feel nervous when they mention they are going to meet their future parents-in-law and don’t know what to say or do. In fact, there is no need at all. Just like Andy, treat others politely and respect others. Generally, as long as you don’t go out of your way Whatever the fork, the elders will like it very much.

Second move: Seek truth from facts and show your attitude

The Bao family is in business, business people are very smart, and the Bao family is still in a small city like Nantong, so in the local area She has a strong sense of superiority and always feels that any woman who wants to marry into the Bao family is attracted by their family's money.

But Andy used to be a financial executive on Wall Street and had a lot of assets overseas. Now he is the CFO of a large company in China, with an annual salary of several million, and he inherited a huge amount of property from his grandfather. Coupled with her genius IQ and independent personality, the Bao family is just an ordinary family in her eyes. She has not even decided whether to marry Bao Yifan.

So when Mrs. Bao was naturally suspicious of Andy's intentions, Andy stated her thoughts matter-of-factly.

And she knew that the Bao family guarded her as well as a thief, so fortunately she never thought about marrying Bao Yifan. Although she loved Bao Yifan in her heart, she did not place her hopes of happiness on her. On Bao Yifan.

What Andy said made Mrs. Bao stunned for a moment. She did not expect that it was such a girl. It was beyond her expectation. She said in confusion, if you marry Bao Yifan, you will get more or less property, but if you don't get married, you will get nothing.

But Andy lives an open life, because she has never thought about taking over the family's property, so she has the confidence to say not to get married. On the contrary, Bao Yifan was anxious and sad, and wanted to take Andy to the marriage registration office.

So for Andy to deal with such an evil mother-in-law, just being polite is not enough. She also has to show off her attitude, otherwise she will be looked down upon by Mrs. Bao. And Andy's confidence comes from her financial strength and work ability. Not only is she financially independent, but she is also mentally independent. This gives her no weakness and no way for the evil mother-in-law to take advantage of her.

It can be said that Andy is a nearly perfect woman. The only flaw is her origin. Her mother is a mentally ill person who was abandoned by her father when she was pregnant with Andy. Later, after Andy was born, he first lived in an orphanage and was later adopted to the United States. It was not until a few years ago that he returned to China to work in search of his long-lost brother.

Because her mother and brother are both mentally ill, Andy carries the gene for mental illness. She has always been worried that her mental illness will attack, so she is particularly worried about others discovering her life experience.

But an evil mother-in-law like Mrs. Bao will definitely dig out Andy's life experience. Finally, she found Andy's mentally ill brother Xiao Ming. If she continued digging, she would know about Andy's family history of mental illness. So, no matter how much Bao Yifan liked Andy, Mrs. Bao would never accept such a daughter-in-law.

What’s more serious is that when Mrs. Bao discovers this fact, she is likely to make the matter worse. In the end, Andy’s psychotic gene may be stimulated, and Andy may become madman.

So Andy tried his best to stop it. But Mrs. Bao is also a stubborn person, and it is useless to persuade her. At this time, Andy could only use his last resort to fight head-on and resist resolutely.

To deal with an evil mother-in-law, you must fight evil with evil, otherwise you will be treated as a soft persimmon.

In fact, this is also a last resort, but when faced with such a situation, there is no other way. Because when faced with a stubborn and evil mother-in-law, only in this way can they fully understand how to respect their daughter-in-law.

However, there is a very important premise, that is, the son of the evil mother-in-law must love himself very much, otherwise, everything will be nonsense. Assuming that this man is a baby boy, no matter how hard he works, how tough his attitude is, or how rich he is, it will not help.

The most important thing about Andy being able to control her emotions freely and not being bullied by the evil mother-in-law is that she has always been very rational. Although she loves Bao Yifan very much, she is extremely sober. She will never get married before the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is resolved, and before she subdues this evil mother-in-law.

Even when Xiaobao Zong took her hand and entered the Civil Affairs Bureau, Andy was extremely moved, but at the same time he still held back his heart. She had been alone since she was a child, and she didn't want to have a family, but she knew that instead of facing quarrels with her mother-in-law after getting married, it would be easier to simply fall in love.