Nanjing’s battle to capture the mistress: Don’t give anyone a chance to quarrel with the mistress

Yesterday, one of Nanjing’s most popular videos of beating up a mistress hit the Internet. The cause of the incident was that the husband had an affair during marriage. He lied to his first wife that he wanted to buy a house in the school district and wanted to divorce after transferring the property. The first wife had been kept in the dark. , until the mistress sent a text message to provoke. The first wife found them. The husband and his mistress were in the car. The first wife asked him to stop the car, but the husband completely ignored her.

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Through the video, we can see that the original wife is still on the roof of the car, and the husband continues to drive without caring about the original wife. safety. Finally had to stop. The first wife and her husband continued to fight, and the mistress sat calmly in the car. Some onlookers opened the car door and insulted the mistress, and asked her to get out of the car. The mistress was domineering and yelled at passers-by. This mistress is so arrogant and unreasonable!

After the mistress got out of the car, the first wife grabbed her hair and held on to her. The husband still protected the mistress. In the final video, the first wife collapsed and cried on the ground, while the police comforted him.

The first wife and her husband were college classmates. After graduation, they started a business together. They worked hard for many years to achieve what they are today. Unexpectedly, the husband cheated on her just as her career was on the right track.

In the comment area of ??the video, in addition to criticizing the scumbag and the mistress, many netizens complained: The original wife is too ugly and her figure is too bad.

In fact, every time I see this kind of video of the first wife having sex with the mistress in the street, the picture is really not very good. The two women pull each other's hair, slap each other, tear off their clothes, and crawl around on the ground.

Without exception, someone will say every time: My first wife is such a bastard, I would have cheated on her too!

I think body and image management are very important. Everyone should pay attention to their appearance, but the starting point of all this should be for themselves, not to please men. And from the video above, we can also see that the image of the husband is not much better. If it is also said that he is getting fat in middle age, a man can cheat with confidence, but a woman can only get one sentence: You are so ugly, you deserve your husband to cheat. ! What's the point of this?

Moreover, aging is a natural state that humans must go through.

A friend of mine works in a plastic surgery hospital. She told me that many middle-aged women come to the hospital for breast augmentation. Generally, breast augmentation at this age is done because their husbands have cheated on them, in order to save their marriages.

She was deeply impressed by a sister Wen who was in her early forties. It was a similar story. When she was young, she worked hard with her husband. Later, when the company became big, Sister Wen could stay at home and be a housewife. The husband cheated on a young female subordinate in the company.

She came to the hospital for breast augmentation alone that day, without any relatives or friends to take care of her. The haggard look of her lying alone on the hospital bed before the anesthesia wore off was particularly distressing.

But the twist in the story is that about a week later, Sister Wen and her husband came to the hospital together and said they wanted to take out the prosthesis. It turned out that her husband noticed the changes in Sister Wen's body, maybe because of his uneasy conscience, and promised her to cut off contact with the mistress, and even accompanied her to the hospital to remove the silicone gel.

It would be the biggest mistake to hurt yourself in order to save a cheating man.

Do men cheat on their wives because they are too ugly? Please understand Tong Liya, understand Zhang Yuqi, they are as beautiful as heaven, but they are also betrayed by scumbag men, so what does a man's cheating have to do with a woman?

As writer Li Yueliang said: A woman's heart is like a phone booth, only big enough to accommodate one person, and one more is too many. A man's heart is like a hotel of different sizes. Even if he gives the largest luxury suite to his wife, he can still accommodate more people at the same time. It's just that some men respect the rules of marriage. Once they have a wife, other rooms close down. And some men are always dissatisfied with staying in 24-hour hotels. Whenever there is an opportunity, they will attract new guests.

Talking about "fake divorce" again, I thought of the "Real-life version of "I am not Pan Jinlian", a postdoc from Peking University cheated on divorce" incident that caused a lot of commotion on the Internet. The parties involved Xiaoqin and a doctor from Peking University named Fang Mou I got married in Beijing. After the child was born in 2016, the husband filed for a fake divorce without telling both parents on the grounds that he wanted to register the newborn with a Beijing household registration. But half a year later, the child settled down, but the ex-husband refused to remarry. Moreover, Fang already has a new love, and the other party is pregnant, and the two are married.

When I saw the video, a reporter asked Xiaoqin what her latest appeal was? She said solemnly: I want at least 300,000 yuan in compensation. If he is willing to give more, I also want the child.

When the reporter asked her if she still wanted to remarry, she said hesitantly: She had always wanted to remarry before. She tried to persuade him many times but he was unwilling.

Now that things have reached this point, I think everyone has come to a conclusion about Fang’s character. At the end of the video, Fang didn’t even want to listen to Xiaoqin’s phone call. Xiaoqin But still undecided.

I saw this passage on Zhihu: "If you really want to gain a foothold in the family or society, it is better to restrain those beautiful female qualities a little. There are always some things in life that need to be compromised, and men You tend to act very tough, but if gentleness comes out every time, you will be the permanent compromiser until there is nowhere to escape."

This paragraph about the rules of how men and women get along is word for word. They all reveal human nature. This era no longer requires you to compromise in order to control it. What is needed is toughness, the toughness to stick to your own principles and protect your own interests.

In addition, there is no such thing as "fake divorce" in law. Divorce is divorce. The Marriage Law clearly stipulates that divorce shall be granted if both men and women voluntarily divorce. As long as the divorce conditions stipulated by law are met and relevant procedures are fulfilled, it will be legally effective. Even if a couple signs a "fake divorce" agreement, the law will not recognize it.

Too many women are full of confidence in their marriages and husbands, "My husband will never cheat on anyone who cheats on me." I think the first wife in the video thought this way before, otherwise she would not be able to completely trust her husband. She was willing to fake a divorce with her rhetoric, but the reality was shocking to her. The relationship of more than ten years was a waste of time. We once experienced hardships together, but now we cannot share wealth. How ironic!

Writer Ai Xiaoyang once said: You work so hard not to get married, let alone not to get married, but to do it boldly when you want to do something. If you make the right choice, you have the wisdom to enjoy it; if you make the wrong choice, you have the ability to deal with the consequences.

So the only way to protect yourself is to keep your eyes open and increase your awareness of risk resistance. This does not mean that you should not trust anyone, but that no matter how bad things get, you must leave yourself a way out.

Let me give you another word, Yu Qiuyu said in "Lend Me a Life": The road of life must be walked step by step by yourself. What can really protect you is your own personality and cultural choices. On the other hand, what can really hurt you is your own choice.

Learn to protect yourself and don’t give anyone a chance to quarrel with your mistress on the street.