How many dates can I hold hands and kiss?

There is no fixed standard for holding hands or kissing on several dates, because it depends on the speed of two people's emotional development and the wishes of both sides.

Generally speaking, holding hands and kissing are based on mutual affection and trust. If two people feel comfortable and natural during the dating process, and have a desire for mutual attraction and closer contact, then you can consider holding hands or kissing.

Usually dating for about three or four times, if the two sides have been able to make natural physical contact, such as shaking hands and hugging, then you can consider holding hands or kissing at an appropriate time.

However, everyone's situation is different. Some people may hold hands or kiss affectionately on the first date, while others may need more time to build trust and affection. The most important thing is to respect the feelings and wishes of both parties, and not to force or push the other party to make uncomfortable or unwilling actions.

Generally speaking, holding hands and kissing are based on mutual affection and trust, and should be decided according to the speed of emotional development and the wishes of both sides.