Is the boyfriend or the woman taking the initiative to stay in the hotel?

It can be the boyfriend's initiative or the girlfriend's initiative.

Before checking into the hotel, check whether there is a hidden camera in the room, close the door, turn off the lights, close the curtains, keep the room dark, check whether there are bright spots around the wall, and don't let go of suspicious places.

Check the bedding for foreign objects. When you check in at the hotel, you should first check whether the bedding is clean and stained. If there are dirty places, you can ask for a room change or a new set of bedding.