How to hide your shoes when you get married

1. Marriage custom: Why do you hide your shoes when you get married?

Why do China people "hide shoes"

There are different opinions about the origin of the custom of "hiding shoes" in China. One is that the groom needs to verify whether the bride is really a "three-inch golden lotus", so he must spare no effort to find wedding shoes and put them on the bride himself. Some people say that the groom's posture of looking for shoes on his body is the best embodiment of "falling at the feet of the bride", so a wedding should be held. There is also a popular saying that the bride can't take everything with her when she gets married, so the wedding shoes must be brand-new, and can only be changed for the bride after the groom personally carries the bride into the sedan chair.

In ancient weddings in China, the stitching and silk thread of wedding shoes were very particular. In ancient times, embroidered mothers in Suzhou embroidery used the word "Xi" as the pattern of wedding shoes, symbolizing that they would embroider happiness on their shoes and walk into the wedding hall with blessings. The task of finding wedding shoes must be completed by the groom, which means that even if there are difficulties and happiness is not around, the groom will find her happiness and happiness for the bride.

How to hide shoes for bridesmaids is a technical job.

1, the bride's knee

The place where the shoes are most often hidden is also worn out, tied to the bride's thigh and covered with a big wedding dress, which is really tightly wrapped.

2. Bridesmaid's leg

This move is not only extremely concealed, but even if the groom and the best man find out, they are embarrassed to rush to grab it. You know, all acts of lifting bridesmaids' skirts for the purpose of robbing wedding shoes are hooligans! This time depends on the size of the red envelope!

Step 3 hide on the photographer

The bridesmaid may be hidden in the photographer's carry-on bag, or in the photographer's down jacket hat in winter. Of course, this move has to be discussed with the photographer in advance, and it can only be agreed.

Step 4 hide in the bag

Generally, looking for shoes after entering the room is to search for bags first! But some will hide their shoes in their mother-in-law or elders' bags, depending on whether the groom has the courage to search. Going through other people's bags will leave a bad impression, so let the best man do it.

5. In the vase

There are generally large and small vases at home and in hotels. It's also a good idea to hide the wedding shoes in a vase and cover them with decorations.

Step 6 hide in a pillow

Hiding the wedding shoes under the pillow and choosing to hide the shoes here means letting the groom go. But change the pillow core, hide the wedding shoes, put some other fillers to fill the pillow and put it on the bed

7. In the closet

It's easy to find it in the closet, but it's a bit difficult to find a coat to cover it up, which is very suitable for brides who get married in hotels. After all, there are too few hiding places in the hotel. The hotel only uses this spot in winter and hangs a big windbreaker in summer, so there is no silver here.

3. Why do you hide your shoes when you get married?

There are different opinions about the origin of the custom of "hiding shoes" in China. One is that the groom needs to verify whether the bride is really a "three-inch golden lotus", so he must spare no effort to find wedding shoes and put them on the bride himself. Some people say that the groom's posture of looking for shoes on his body is the best embodiment of "falling at the feet of the bride", so a wedding should be held.

There is also a popular saying that the bride can't take everything with her when she gets married, so the wedding shoes must be brand-new, and can only be changed for the bride after the groom personally carries the bride into the sedan chair.

In the old Chinese wedding, the stitches of wedding shoes were exquisite, and they walked into the wedding hall with blessings. The task of finding wedding shoes must be completed by the groom, which means that even if there are difficulties and happiness is not around, the groom will find her happiness and happiness for the bride.

4. Why do you hide shoes in wedding customs?

There are different opinions about the origin of the custom of "hiding shoes" in China. One is that the groom needs to verify whether the bride is really a "three-inch golden lotus", so he must spare no effort to find wedding shoes and put them on the bride himself. Some people say that the groom's posture of looking for shoes on his body is the best embodiment of "falling at the feet of the bride", so a wedding should be held.

There is also a popular saying that the bride can't take everything with her when she gets married, so the wedding shoes must be brand-new, and can only be changed for the bride after the groom personally carries the bride into the sedan chair. In ancient weddings in China, the stitching and silk thread of wedding shoes were very particular. In ancient times, embroidered mothers in Suzhou embroidery used the word "Xi" as the pattern of wedding shoes, symbolizing that they would embroider happiness on their shoes and walk into the wedding hall with blessings.

The task of finding wedding shoes must be completed by the groom, which means that even if there are difficulties and happiness is not around, the groom will find her happiness and happiness for the bride. "Hide shoes" began in India. According to historical records, the custom of "hiding shoes" in weddings first appeared in ancient India, and the shoes were hidden not by the bride, but by the groom.

In this country with strange culture and mysterious history, wedding means celebration, and making the groom run around like ants on hot bricks has always been one of the projects enjoyed by relatives and friends. According to the normal process of Indian weddings, the groom should take off his shoes during the ceremony to show his love for the bride and respect for the gods.

At this time, the bride's family will rack their brains to steal the groom's shoes and hide them, while the groom's family will spare no effort to keep them for him. In the army of stealing shoes, bridesmaids are the most active. In order to defend the dignity of bridesmaids, they have repeatedly made strange moves.

At the end of the wedding, the groom had to look around for stolen shoes, and bridesmaids flocked to surround him. Only when he takes out a large sum of money to "reward" them will they return the shoes to the groom satisfactorily. On this point, China and India are highly consistent.

This custom seems to be hilarious, but it symbolizes the Indian people's pursuit and respect for beautiful love and happy marriage. It originated from a pair of Indian lovers-Krishna and Ruada.

Written more than 5,000 years ago, in Chapter 1, Chapter 3, Section 24 of the Bhagavatam, it is predicted that "Krishna will appear as the Buddha (son of Anzana) in Haiya County to confuse jealous and devout people." Ruada and his childhood friends have agreed to be together for life.

However, as predicted, Krishna fought to save people's livelihood and embarked on the road of seeking lofty truth in the distance. This meant that he had to leave his motherland and Ruada, but she gave him great understanding and support. Her determination to wait for him is as firm as his determination to swear to fight for the people.

Later, he defeated his opponent, became the supreme emperor, and was worshipped as the god of the universe. Loto insisted on waiting for him. Later, he married another woman and started a family. At the same time, he must start a new war, and Ruada is still waiting for him.

Ruada, who has been waiting all his life, and Krishna, who has been running and fighting all his life, are separated from each other, and love is often tortured by time. Radha abides by loneliness for love and suffers for missing and leaving. Although love is great, it is not complete.

Therefore, hiding the groom's shoes at the wedding is actually the wish of the bride's family that he will stay with the bride forever. At the same time, I am glad that their love is not separated. They can grow old together and spend their whole lives together. Don't let the bride live in the wait-and-see and waiting for love all her life.

On the other hand, a cheerful and positive wedding atmosphere can break the barriers, make the whole venue full of enthusiasm and laughter, and establish a deep emotional bond between two strange and unrelated families. Legend has it that a long time ago, a beautiful princess lost a very precious and priceless glass slipper, so the princess's father, the old king Zhang Buhuang, said, whoever can find a glass slipper for my daughter, I will marry her.

There was a prince in a neighboring country who went through all kinds of hardships to get back the crystal shoes for the princess. So the old king kept his promise and married the princess. The prince and the princess lived a happy life. This story has spread to this day and is interpreted as the custom of the bride and groom looking for shoes. Shoes are hidden all over the world, and there are various customs related to shoes in cultures all over the world.

After the wedding ceremony in Egypt, the bride's father will personally take off the bride's shoes and give them to the groom, which indicates that she has changed from her father's little daughter to the groom's wife, and the responsibility for protecting her has been handed over from her father to the groom. Holding the bride's shoes is like making a promise in front of her father-in-law, and will accompany her through this life and share everything for her.

In medieval Europe, guests didn't rob new people of their shoes. On the contrary, when the newlyweds leave the church by carriage after the wedding, they will take off their shoes and throw them on the carriage to express their blessings to the newlyweds.

Whoever can throw the carriage will share the happiness of the couple. If the girl throws it away, it means that she will be the next lucky one to enter the marriage hall! Why do you hide your shoes when you get married? "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." Throughout the ages, people have given shoes a profound meaning. And the shoes at the wedding mean the beginning of a new life.

Hidden wedding shoes are like a reminder to new people: the road ahead will be bumpy, fearful, unknown and tortuous. At the moment when I picked up my shoes again, although the road ahead is still unknown, as long as I can stay with each other for a lifetime, there is nothing to be afraid of.

And this is the greatest happiness.

5. Where can I find the five best places for Tibetan wedding shoes?

1, the bride * * */under the wedding dress

The most common place to hide shoes, big wedding dresses must be made good use of! Wedding shoes are hidden under the bride's seat or in the wedding dress, which seems to be covered tightly, but in fact, this trick has been worn out.

Step 2 hide in the bridesmaid's hair

This move is so novel that it is estimated that not many bridesmaids are willing to try it. As long as you like, as long as you are bold, as long as your hair is long enough, you can still hide your wedding shoes in your hair. The concealment is quite good.

3. The adhesive tape is stuck under the stool.

There are stools at home and in the hotel! It's really hard to find wedding shoes hidden under stools and glued with tape. If you let your mother-in-law or father-in-law sit again, the difficulty coefficient will go up a step.