How many dates can you sleep on and how many sexual relationships can you have?

Wen San is like a girl.

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I once asked a male friend, what would you think if a girl agreed to sl

How many dates can you sleep on and how many sexual relationships can you have?

Wen San is like a girl.

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I once asked a male friend, what would you think if a girl agreed to sleep with you on the first date?

He said, of course I will sleep with her, but after that, I will feel that this kind of girl is too casual. Let's be sexual partners at best.

I'm sorry, if I were the girl you slept with, I can only say that a man like you is too double-marked to even sleep with you.

The first date is a slap in the face. It's entirely up to you and me. I'm not happy that you cheated when you picked up the bargain. While saying I want it, I act like a dog, eager for girls to agree immediately, and at the same time I hate flirting with girls who agree to go to bed. Let you say everything and let you take care of everything. What a pity!

There is a magical logic, dating means kissing, kissing means going to bed, and going to bed will become cheap. Is agreeing to go to bed the highest standard to decide that a girl is not cheap? You are not going to the vegetable market, and I am not a cabbage. I won't depreciate because I went to bed. I don't have commodity attributes, okay?

So you have to find out whether he thinks you are devalued or you think you are devalued. It's not terrible for others to bind you with morality. The terrible thing is that you belittle yourself.

In terms of sex, women's moral pressure is always greater than that of men. Someone always tells you to be reserved, behave yourself, hold the line of defense, and don't give it to him too soon.

Notice the word "give"? Give him something? What are you? Is it a project? Is sex a transaction? Is that how you look down on yourself?

According to a related survey, elite women with high income and high education generally think that it is no big deal to go to bed on the first date. It can be seen that women who can be equal to men in social situations can also be like this in bed. This kind of woman won't feel degraded just because she has a one-time life, because my mother has always been expensive.

Therefore, since we should be reserved and behave, men and women should behave and be indifferent together.

If chastity is the best dowry for girls, then men should also remain virgins, regardless of the tube.

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Therefore, I have no objection to having sex on the first date. Your body is your own. As long as it doesn't hurt a third person, it has absolute decision-making power and free will.

"As long as the behavior of roll paper on the first date can bring happiness to both parties, and this happiness is greater than the pain caused by this behavior, then it should be roll paper."

However, today we still need to discuss how many dates are better for us.

I once had the following amazing conversation with a male fan:

"I accidentally photographed with the object before, which is also her first time. At that time, it was an impulse, but I didn't want to be with her all my life. Now, every time she talks about it, she will die and live, and she also says that I will commit suicide if I want to break up, and she will not listen to anything. Then I ignored her coldly and violently. You said that she loves me, shouldn't she make me happy and set me free? "

"What are you going to do now?"

"I want to keep talking to her."

"I don't like how she goes on?"

"Take her as a booty call. Boys, you see how many boys don't want to have an object around them that can be snapped at any time. "

"But she really likes you."

"Just have fun. I didn't force her. She volunteered. Besides, I knew her for a week and went to bed. How do I know she is a virgin? If I had known that I was responsible after sleeping, I wouldn't have slapped her. "

I got two meanings from his words. First, the girl who agreed to go to bed when she first met is very casual and must have slept with many people. Second, I just want to have sex with any girl, and I don't have to be responsible for that after I sleep.

Love rat is not terrible. What is terrible is that love rat plays with double standards. He won't attribute your sleeping with him to whether you like him or you like him. He will only think you are cheap and sleep well.

For that girl, she did something wrong, not because she went to bed too early with someone, but because she couldn't tell whether she was a fool or a dog.

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So, this is why there is nothing wrong with going to bed on the first date, but it is best not to go to bed on the first date.

First, there are many heartless people. To avoid meeting love rat, he just wants to make an appointment and doesn't want to fall in love.

Second, human nature is cheap, and desirable is charming. Men prefer to get girls through hard work and don't like to throw themselves at each other easily. What is easy to get is often not cherished.

Third, contraceptive failure, sexually transmitted diseases, infectious diseases, the risk of being cheated, and whether the two can develop a stable relationship for a long time have to give themselves time to consider. Just make a list of your own measures and think about it.

Fourthly, from some men's point of view, I certainly want to have sex with a girl on the first date, but I will never choose a girl who has sex on the first date to marry. As for why those men think so, I'm too lazy to analyze. I hope you don't meet such men. )

"A new survey found that women can't go to bed until the fifth date after three weeks of dating. 25% of men will say I love you in the first month of dating, while women will say 13%. In fact, women will not tell each other until the fourth month: I love you. "

Women love before sex, men love before sex, and the order of men and women is always staggered.

But in fact, feelings can't be simply explained by logical thinking and rationality, and these statistics can't tell you exactly what to do.

Some people, you fall in love on the first date, and finally get married for love. Some people, even if they save their first time for marriage, may get divorced after one year of marriage.

So there's nothing wrong with doing it on the first date, and doing it on the n th doesn't mean you will grow old together. The key depends on the life stage and appearance order you meet, and what kind of people you meet.