Napoleon: "The most difficult time is when success is not far away."

Writer Roland said this: "An ideal person can see hope in adversity and see light in darkness. Because his adversity is just a transition, and darkness is just a temporary process."

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Everyone has an ideal, how can it be realized?

How many people give up their ideals because they encounter difficulties and obstacles, and spend their lives doing nothing but comforting themselves that being ordinary is a blessing!

When halfway through life, you find that you have nothing and have lived half your life in vain. For this reason, you feel like it was wasted and you are unwilling to be mediocre. You might as well learn to let go of these three things and live out your ideal self.

But no matter in life or work, experience is only a stepping stone for our progress, not a gold medal to avoid death. It is not enough to protect us for life;

On the contrary, experience will become our constraint in many cases. Hindering our development;

A Liang is a new colleague who joined last month. He is in his mid-thirties, which is the golden age of life. A Liang used to work in overall planning and operation of a chain dental institution. From his official position to assistant to the chairman and vice president of operations, he was young and promising, with unlimited success;

After saving some money, he chose to give up his high-paying position and go to Another city starts anew. I thought that with many years of industry experience, I would be able to prosper. Unexpectedly, different local policies and customs and cultures ruthlessly defeated his so-called successful experience. Investment failure caused him to spend all his savings and owe a lot of debt.

Experience sometimes lifts people up very high and then knocks them down;

Experience sometimes makes people forget themselves and end up in embarrassment;

Nokia, Sony Mobile, Fuguiniao and other former industry hegemons,

When they used their successful experience to collide with the wheel of the times, all they produced were sparks of withdrawing from the stage of history.

Experience is important, but experience is time-sensitive. Only by continuously strengthening our learning can we keep pace with the times.

Otherwise, when the times want to abandon you, you won’t even say hello.

2. Put down your face, as long as you can achieve your goals

Ren Zhengfei once said: "Only shameless people can become successful people."

People Everyone loves face, and Chinese people love face especially. In ancient times, Xiang Yu committed suicide in Wujiang River because he had "no face to face his elders from Jiangdong."

Today, countless people suffer in vain and are looking for trouble because they love face too much.

He loves face so much that he is actually very low in the eyes of others

My colleague Wang Chao went on a business trip to Shanghai last month. He invited the leaders of the cooperative unit and several project managers to dinner in the evening and chose a small place. Afraid that the other party would look down on him, he went to a five-star hotel. During the meal, I opened three bottles of red wine, each bottle costing more than 3,000 yuan. However, this kind of red wine only sells for more than 1,000 yuan in supermarkets outside. One meal cost more than 10,000 yuan.

According to the company's reimbursement standard, he was only reimbursed 3,500 yuan, and he had to pay the remaining 8,000 yuan out of his own pocket.

He thought this would make him look good, but he didn't know that this was the stupidest thing to do in the eyes of others.

People who care about face always want to tell others that they are living a good life.

However, those big bosses whom we regard as business legends disdain face.

New Oriental founder Yu Minhong never took face seriously;

Once, Yu Minhong’s mother arranged for Yu Minhong’s brother-in-law to work in New Oriental despite everyone’s opposition.

For special reasons, someone moved his brother-in-law's office equipment. After knowing the news, Yu's mother went to school and yelled.

As a result, the "godfather"-like principal of New Oriental knelt down to his mother with a "plop" in front of everyone. At this time, Yu's mother could only stop and the matter was solved simply and rudely.

As long as the goal can be achieved, face is nothing.

Some things, as long as you put down your dignity, things will be broken like window paper;

Li Ka-shing once said: "When you put down your dignity and start making money, it means that you have already Be sensible; when you use money to earn face, it means you have succeeded; when you use face to make money, it means you are already a person; when you are still drinking and bragging, pretending to know nothing , When you only love the so-called face, it means that this is the case for your life. ”

Sometimes, if you let go of face, you will get more.

3. Slow down and guard against arrogance and impetuosity

A phenomenal variety show "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves" broke out in 2020 and premiered with basically zero publicity. It exceeded 250 million views on the first day, and within a week, Weibo topics exceeded 8 billion, becoming the variety show with the highest commercial value in 2020;

Although the reputation has declined to a certain extent in the later period, many Netizens are still looking forward to the launch of the second season.

Then, in less than 4 months, the program team couldn't wait to withdraw from "Sister Lang 2". Many netizens expressed doubts that such a short period of preparation can exceed the effect of the first season?

Sure enough, after "Lang Jie 2" was launched, not only did it fail to surpass the first season's high opening and low going, but it was not even a low opening and low going.

Some netizens said: They will never watch the third season again!

Yes, if there is no carefully planned and prepared program, why should the audience pay for it?

In this society, too many people dream of "getting rich overnight" or "becoming famous overnight".

But they don't know that only through time and ingenuity can one achieve success. Things are the most valuable.

How dare you seize the day when Gou Jian destroyed Wu?

After "Wolf Warrior 2" was released, the box office skyrocketed, eventually ranking first in the global box office in 2018, and breaking the record for the highest box office in China

However, most Little do people know,

This film, from the completion of the script, preparation of funds, to the selection of actors, to the filming period in which the entire crew risked their lives (director and starring Wu Jinggeng) I walked on the edge of life and death several times).

The entire preparation process lasted as long as 4 years, and the shooting time was as long as 300 days, and finally created this box office myth in the history of Chinese movies.

A bottle of good wine will become more mellow the longer it is stored; and a good work also needs time to settle and ferment;

Confucius said: "There is no desire for haste, no speed. Seeing small profits will lead to failure. Seeing small profits will lead to failure. "

Blind pursuit of speed will often fail to achieve good results. Only by being down-to-earth and working hard can you achieve your ideal results.

4. David said: "Adversity is the wave that capsizes the boat of life of the weak. It is also the furnace that tempers the iron will of the strong."

Everyone's life is always full of life. We will encounter more or less periods of adversity.

Only by constantly learning, always accepting everything with an empty cup mentality, and guarding against arrogance and impetuosity can we break through adversity and become the winner in life with the last laugh.

Finally, I will give you a quote from Napoleon: "The most difficult time is when success is not far away."

***Mianzhi.