I have a female best friend. She got married, but she asked me to do something for her, ask for gifts, and let me bring her takeout. If she works, she will come to me. This is my time.

She should be stupid. She doesn't know much about the world, what she is doing, and that friends are paid by both sides. She should like playing with you very much, so she will think of you immediately when she is bored, but she will forget you when she is busy, and she will not know how to give you gifts and take care of you. Generally speaking, she is stupid and a little selfish. What's more, her husband may not be very kind to her or care about her very much, so it doesn't necessarily mean that someone will take care of her when she gets married. I suggest that if you don't like her and don't want to take care of her, alienate her, which is good for everyone and can avoid breaking up in discord. If you want to play with her and don't want to take care of her, it's actually an awkward relationship because you don't have any feelings at all. That's why you're so reluctant to take care of her, isn't it? If you want to maintain this relationship, do you want her to realize a little and then stop letting you do things? Or do you just want her to say thank you and know that gratitude is enough? If you just want her to know that you are grateful, you can tell her everything she asks you to do, so that she can understand that what you do and what she gets from you are not taken for granted. You can also try to get her to help you. If she realizes that she can't help you, she will start to feel that she is not a friend enough and may not let you do things so casually.

If you explain this to her every time, she still asks you to do something casually, even losing face, then in fact, she is just greedy for your benefits, and there is no need to waste time with such people.