Do male and female colleagues have feelings for each other?

01. Relationship between male and female colleagues (meeting every day)

There is a popular saying nowadays, called "other people's wives", "other people's girlfriends", "other people's nannies", etc. It is undeniable that some erroneous theories, erroneous advocacy, and the so-called "poisonous chicken soup for the soul" not only do a lot of harm to people, but also mislead more and more people who have no independent opinions and lack independent thinking to do things for no reason. Fallen and depressed, making brainless judgments, and finally swallowing the bitter fruit that he sown.

As people who are often together and in close contact for at least one third of 24 hours a day, opposite-sex colleagues are the most familiar relationship after family members. Some people have frequent contact with colleagues. , even more than spouses or opposite-sex partners, because this type of people completely regard work as the most important part of life.

Since male and female colleagues meet every day and the frequency of contact is high, especially when the marriage and family are not going well, or the relationship between husband and wife is cold, colleagues of the opposite sex will become in love with each other due to frequent contact. The probability will be very high.

Office romances and infidelity between male and female colleagues are largely due to disharmony and unhappiness in family and marriage, or too much time spent at work, lack of care and consideration for the other half, and As for the increasing coldness and alienation, it provides convenience and conditions to the third party.

As the saying goes, "Flies don't bite seamless eggs." If a couple has a loving relationship and the family is in harmonious love, neither party will give the other person a chance. This is like a People who are used to eating delicacies from mountains and seas can no longer easily satisfy their mouths. How can ordinary mountain grass and wild vegetables arouse his interest?

For male and female colleagues who have frequent contact and know each other well, maybe a comfort, a confession, an opportunity to go on a business trip together means that when the relationship develops, we must be more vigilant.

02. The relationship between male and female best friends (best friends in life)

In fact, this question does not need to be verified at all. Is there a pure friendship between men and women? Are the so-called male and female best friends reliable? The answer may be very disappointing, because it depends on the three views of the man and the woman, and their ideology on relationships. It cannot be ruled out that some people reject the opposite sex and prefer the same sex. There is a chance that they may have real friends or besties of the opposite sex.

And many so-called male and female best friends, brothers and sisters of the opposite sex are likely to break this balanced relationship in long-term relationships and get along with each other. On a sad and desperate night, they rely on each other for comfort, and finally Still got together; because of the troubles of marriage and family, we ended up getting drunk in a nightclub or hotel, and then we woke up and found that we slept together...

If it wasn't for family, marriage, or partner problems, maybe the male and female were best friends. It is still very harmonious, but once married people have psychological problems or marital crises, male and female best friends are often time bombs.

03. Relationship between male and female netizens (game netizens, friend circle friends, etc.)

Nowadays social platforms have become a part of life. Checking social circles every day is equivalent to attending various gatherings. And socializing, and many people who like to spend time in games, as well as so-called teammates, communities, and camps. Many people who are obsessed with games are closer to people in the same camp in the game than their partners.

Among the many game fans, some are very dissatisfied with their significant other because he cannot spend time with him or bring him amateur comfort, so he spends most of his time playing games In games, the process of playing games and entertainment will also become "affectionate over time" due to long-term exposure, forgetting reality and leaving only illusions.

Network teammates and social interactions between men and women of the opposite sex may damage marriages, so married people need to be cautious.