Why do you always hear that there is nothing wrong with girls being careful?

The attack on a girl in a He Yi hotel exploded the circle of friends today. For a time, women's safety has once again become a hot topic. "How to get others to help" "What should I do if I encounter similar things?" Self-defense tips for girls ","Please pay attention to safety when walking at night "... all kinds of tricks. Two years ago, I wrote an article "A girl can never be wrong when she is careful", which was re-typeset and forwarded here. -Remember?

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Probably because our family has three daughters, our parents always have many special instructions on our education since childhood. For example, go home before 9 o'clock in the evening, write down the car number before taking a taxi, report safety when you get home, don't eat strangers casually, wash underwear, and don't go out to enjoy the cool at night.

Even before I left home for school at the age of 15, my parents specially called me to the front and solemnly explained the matters needing attention. So far, the most impressive one is "Don't wash underwear with socks", which is such a trivial matter ... Later, when I joined the work, I really saw a girl soak her down jacket and underwear in a big pot with smelly socks for three days, only to know how lucky she was.

Even in the year when I first started to work, my dad said that you would have a chance to go out for drinks or socialize in the future. Don't drink too much if you can There is nothing wrong with staying awake.

Now that our sister has reached middle age, our parents still often take the opportunity of family gatherings to give us "political lessons" and criticize the social news, fraud, murder and other cases we reported in Focus Interview, Legal Report and Morality and Legal System, but now there is another generation.

One day, just after dinner, my dad called me to watch a program being broadcast by CCTV. He said: "You often shop online and use a bank card. Look at those who have been cheated ... you must pay attention. "

I said, ok, ok, look at it right away.

He didn't know that our cable TV was turned off, and I actually "agreed". In order to reassure parents, we sometimes need a little kind deception at our age.

My daughter asked me what my grandfather's name was, so I told her: Your grandfather saw the deception reported on TV and reminded me to pay attention.

The daughter sighed and showed a disdainful expression.

Some people say that "worrying about children is the lifelong responsibility of parents", which has been fully verified in our family and passed down here.

In recent days, there have been reports of "female college students being killed, kidnapped, imprisoned and sexually assaulted in black cars". As a reader, as a mother with a girl of 14 years old, my first reaction is to take these cases home and tell her that "Better Tomorrow" is sung in a song, and there are many dark sides in society. You should "stop when you are ready" and know how to protect yourself. Just like my father's advice to our sisters.

Tell her that "a 22-year-old female college student was cheated by a black car alone ..." She argued that there are tens of millions of female college students in China, and only these people were cheated. The probability of this kind of thing happening is very small. Mom, put your heart in your belly. Why did that female college student take a black car? Her IQ was fed to the chicken. !

"IQ feeding chickens" is probably the latest popular expression of their students, which makes me feel very interesting. Keep her alert, because "if you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer." I also bought a set of Liu Yong's series of works "I'm not teaching you to cheat" for her to read. Last summer vacation, I also bought a short book "Cpaing gave you 100 lives", in fact, in order to let children know more about the dangerous human nature of society, so that they can walk in the rivers and lakes with peace of mind in the future, without bullying others but without being bullied.

I'm really curious about those female college students who have been cheated. Do parents have such reminders and instructions in family education?

I met a 52-year-old female college student with a wretched man at Jinan Railway Station. At the age of 22, she should be a senior. She actually took a two-wheeled electric car from a strange old man to the West Railway Station without doing her homework and knowing the route in advance. If she saves money, just take the bus to avoid being kidnapped ... When a person with a nasty image comes to you, you should be alert to a cold face and think that he is a liar, even if he is not. ! The so-called "do not harm people's hearts, do not hinder people's hearts."

19 years old, a person went to Huangdao by car to find classmates to play. There was no highway at that time, so I took Iveco. The bus is also very crowded, with a row of Mazars in the middle. On the way, I had a verbal exchange with a middle-aged man sitting in the same row. He gave me a peach, and I was embarrassed to refuse, so I kept it in my hand. After getting off the bus, I quietly threw it into the grass on the side of the road.

Because I know that there are adulterated fruits, I will talk to strangers on the trip, but I will never eat strangers' food. Think about the "pregnant woman hunting husband case" last year. The little nurse who sent pregnant women home and was killed by her husband went to someone else's house to drink unopened yogurt, and she was really drugged.

One day, I was walking on the dark road after work very late. When I got home, a man with a foreign accent called "Big Sister". He said, "We are from other places, visiting relatives, and haven't eaten yet …" He came towards me, and I just saw a woman with a baby following him.

I immediately stepped back, raised my hand to make a gesture to stop him, and said loudly, "Stop!" " "Words like ecstasy, handkerchief and liar ... flashed through my mind. I took it out of my pocket 10 yuan and handed it to him. I quickly distanced myself from them, took out my mobile phone and pretended to make a phone call ... At this time, you should call relatives in the police station instead of begging for money all over the street!

When my classmate Cao Hua 13 years old, she returned to her hometown in Shandong from the northeast alone. Her parents assured her that she was independent, which was in the 1980s. My grandmother is illiterate. When she was in her fifties, she went to the northeast to visit her daughter's home alone from her hometown in Shandong. That was in the 1970s ... If you are wary of this society, you should know not to drink water casually in a thermos and sleep on the train. If my daughter goes to college in other places, I will also tell you to wake up on the train and stop drinking half the water in the glass. ...

Why? You know that. There is really no way to keep enough vigilance and vigilance against this society.

When I was a child, I was also annoyed by my parents' nagging and excessive persuasion. How can there be so many bad guys, how can there be so many bad guys just met by us? ! Now that I'm a parent, I know that worrying too much about children is a distrust of their abilities, but it's not wrong to be more sober and careful when going out to protect yourself from harm. We can't control the bad guys to do evil, but we can protect ourselves from harm.

Perhaps, it was the reminder and warning that "girls can never be wrong when they are careful" in those years that lent you a pair of discerning eyes, which made you "see clearly and clearly in troubled times" and made you strong enough in Jianghu.

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