My poor memory and carelessness can often lead to embarrassment. I once had a good friend of many years who was the president of a national society. Once he came to Jinhua for business. I invited him

My poor memory and carelessness can often lead to embarrassment. I once had a good friend of many years who was the president of a national society. Once he came to Jinhua for business. I invited him to have dinner at the International Communication Center the next night. However, I was busy with a training program and forgot to invite the president’s friend. He didn't remember anything until the third day, when he had already returned to Beijing. I have not contacted him again because I feel that nothing I say will help, but will come across as false and hypocritical.

Professor Huang Zhenjin told me how to treat friends with practical actions. We have never met him, but he is always attentive and strives to fulfill his promise. Although he failed in the end, he feels at ease because of it. When people arrive with courtesy and love, the rest is left to chance; as long as our feelings last forever, it doesn't matter whether we meet or not. I am proud to have such strange friends, and I firmly believe that I have the ability to create opportunities to meet.

I suddenly remembered that I have been in contact with Professor Huang for so long, but I actually know nothing about him. I just guessed based on his name and the tone of his WeChat chat that he must be an old master about my age. But the result of asking Du Niang surprised me. Professor Huang is not only a post-75s generation, but also a rare female professor in the field of Chinese courses and teaching. This made me very embarrassed: it was so ungentlemanly to let a weak woman run back and forth! But at the same time, I am very proud. Being able to have a scholar friend of the opposite sex whom I have never met but whom I have known for a long time seems to confirm that I still have some virtues.

Huang Zhenjin gave me a friendship as pure as gold, which is simple, honest and noble. This is the biggest gain from my trip to Guizhou!