Wedding Preparation Notes: Simple and clear engagement party process and item list

List of wedding preparation and engagement banquet procedures

Early preparation

1. The two families discuss the betrothal gift and dowry

The betrothal gift is the most important part of the wedding Part of it is agreed upon by both parties, and then the engagement time, location, and number of tables are arranged

2. Determine the engagement time

Usually six months or a year before the wedding, just choose an auspicious day

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3. Determine the list of engagement parties

Parents of both parties and close relatives

4. Comply with the matchmaker

If there is an invitation from the matchmaker, if there is no The matchmaker can choose a highly respected witness

5. Determine the engagement location and book a hotel based on the number of people

It is best to choose a private room with 2-4 tables

6. The man The family prepares betrothal gifts

The most common ones are three kinds of gold and hardware

7. The bride’s family prepares return gifts

Clothes, matchmaking gifts, and six kinds of gifts

8. Determine the process of the engagement day

9. Determine whether to hire a host photographer, etc.

You can invite relatives and friends to be the host photographer

10 , Purchase clothing for the engagement day

For women, choose the red group, and for men, choose a decent suit.

11. Purchase items needed for the engagement day

Engagement books, decoration supplies , Candies, fruits, desserts, cakes, tea, etc. to entertain guests

12. Invite guests to inform them of the time and place of the engagement

Just give one to two weeks notice in advance

13. Ask your parents to prepare a speech

If you need your parents to speak, just say a few words of blessing

14. The newlyweds prepare a speech

If you want to speak , just say some happy words

Men’s/women’s betrothal gifts list

Men’s betrothal gifts list

1. Betrothal gift money

As agreed upon Just prepare it

2. Gift box

A box to put the gift money, usually a round box or a square box, spread the money inside

3 , three gold or hardware

Gold bracelets, gold necklaces, gold rings, gold earrings, gold bracelets

Gold rings, gold necklaces, gold earrings

4. Banquet Money

It is up to both parties to discuss whether the woman will give the money for the wedding banquet

5. Matchmaker money

If there is a matchmaker or hire a matchmaker, the amount will be discussed between the two parties.

6. Six kinds of gifts

Usually six pounds of meat, six fish, six bottles of wine, six pounds of sugar, six pieces of vermicelli, and six pounds of snacks

List of gifts from the woman in return

1. Complete outfit for the man

Suit, tie, leather shoes, belt, watch

2. Matchmaker gift

The man If you give, the woman should give too, and both parties decide how much to give

3. Six kinds of gifts

Customs vary from place to place, some include citrus, pastries, dates, peanuts, longans, and lotus seeds

Clothing preparation list

1. Men’s clothing

Shirts, pants and suits

2. Women’s clothing

Red dress, high heels, Package

3. Clothes of both parents

Decent skirt for mother, decent suit for father

List of items for the ceremony

1. Engagement letter

You can go to the printing shop to print it in advance, and sign and fingerprint it on the wedding day

2. Tea serving supplies

You can choose to serve tea on the day of engagement, or not

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3. A bouquet of roses

Given to the woman, a table flower can also be placed on the main table

List of arrangements

1. Background Board

2. Balloons

3. Inflator

4. Welcome card

5. Table flowers

6. Flower petals

7. Other decorative items

Process list

1. Set off with the betrothal gift at 9:08

The betrothal gifts are packed and packaged, accurate and new

Lang set off with his parents, relatives and friends

2. Arrive at the woman's house at 9:38

After arriving at the woman's house, he gave the bride-price to the woman, and the woman introduced her relatives and friends and entertained her with drinks. Tea break

3. Sign the engagement letter at 9:58

The two read out the engagement letter and sign it

4. Serve tea and change their words at 10:08

You can change your words by offering tea and giving red envelopes from your parents. You can also change your words by serving tea at the wedding.

5. Arrive at the hotel at 10:20

The bride-to-be and the groom-to-be set off to the hotel with their parents

6. Arrive at the hotel at 10:40

You can have relatives and friends simply decorate the engagement scene and blow up more balloons

Process list

Welcome guests at 7. 11:30

The newlyweds and their parents greet guests at the hotel entrance

8. The ceremony begins at 11:48

The host or the newlyweds will open the ceremony themselves, and the proposal and signing of the marriage contract can be completed at this moment

9. 12:00 Speech by the newlyweds

The newlyweds give a simple speech, sharing their feelings about the engagement and expressing their gratitude to the relatives and friends present

10. 12:08 Speech by the parents

Blessings to the children

11 and 12:18 toasts

The newlyweds take turns to toast and introduce their relatives and friends to each other

12, 13:30: End of seeing off guests

End of engagement party, newlyweds and parents seeing off guests