I made up my mind to divorce after I found out that my husband was cheating on me, but my cheating husband insisted on divorce.

My cheating husband insisted on divorce. We met when we were 18 or 19 years old. We dated for six years before getting married. We have always been in love. I feel like I'm the happiest woman in the world. Although he usually doesn't talk much, we know each other's thoughts almost without speaking. We live on the fourth floor. When we go out together, he always takes me downstairs. Later, his son got too big and he had to take me. We can hear happy laughter in a building.

It’s not uncommon for most young people to have great relationships, but ours has been through ups and downs and we’ve suffered together. That year, our units were both joint ventures and merged. We didn't want to stay. The two of us discussed that I would open a store and he would open a company.

I opened a small boutique, but he opened a large decorating company and worked with people. In order to support him, I borrowed money everywhere, from my mother's relatives and friends, classmates and sisters. What I fear most in life is debt, but after all, a man's career is very important. In my opinion, husband and son are My sky is my everything, I love them.

My store is taken care of like a child, and the business is getting more and more prosperous. But this guy treated his career like a business card and threw it out there, and here I am the boss. He and his partners did not contact the market and asked others to accept the business, but the business could not be accepted. Business expenses came in a lot, and the company lost money and closed down.

Then I finally received a large construction decoration business, and on the other side I paid a project deposit of 30,000. My husband went to friends in the construction company and asked them to take 20,000 and we took 10,000. As a result, the money was paid, but the projects disappeared and people fled. Turns out it was just a fake business and now it's painful, the owner of the construction company asks my husband for money every day but also threatens to find a mafia. My husband was afraid of me and kept me from telling these things until the police took him away one night.

My cheating husband insisted on divorce. I cried all night and looked for someone else the next day. The police said that not paying back the money in this case is a crime of fraud. Either go in or pay back the money quickly. I can't have my husband incarcerated. Selling a house means saving people. It's really hard to see the truth. As the news got out, my little sisters started calling. I have 3,000 here, I have 2,000, 100,000. Within half a day, I borrowed 100,000, and my partners were also chipping in. After paying 200,000 yuan, he was released.

The decoration company collapsed. It was a very happy day, and I suddenly assumed a debt of nearly 200,000 yuan. But instead of scolding him, I tried to comfort him. A man can bend and stretch. We are still young. As long as we work together, we will try to pay off all our debts within five years. The day he came home happened to be National Day. In the past Golden Week, we took our son on a car trip every year, and we have never gone out since this year. At that time, I saw that he looked like a god and loved him very much. This setback was too great, but I did not expect that he would fall.

He is 29 years old and I am 27 and 7 years old. I have been encouraging him. Don't be discouraged. We are not 92 and 72. We will make more money. After five years, we have to relax and start over. Looking back now, I think I was too confident. Other women often lack self-confidence but not dependence. I just lack dependence. I don't know that my husband should be responsible, if I did something wrong, I should be more responsible. I carry a thousand kilograms of burden on my shoulders without complaining.

One day, I suddenly discovered that since I met him and left him, I have not used a penny from him for more than ten years! I have been working hard to earn money, support my family and children, and pay off my debts to him. I never saw him give me money. I think this is also the power of love. Love is selfless. Everything I have is his, everything he has is mine. He was depressed all day long and disdained work. He went out to play mahjong. If he loses, I'll give him money. Now I know I can't spoil a man like this.

There must be a better man than you in the world, but I will never love him again; there must be a better woman than me, but you can no longer love her.

This passage is an agreement between us, very Qiong Yao culture.

I make this agreement in the hope that our love will never change in any future situation. We both pulled hooks like a pair of naughty big kids.

I am very optimistic about my life and very popular. I opened a street. Everyone is a friend. If we have something to do, we can help play together, just like a big family. When business is slow, everyone is willing to come to my store and play Lao K to kill time. Life goes by like this. During those years, I cut down on clothing and diet. My biggest dream is to pay off my debt. Every time I pay back a sum of money, I feel as happy as a small victory. I’m looking forward to starting over in five years. Unexpectedly, it started again, but it was like a world.

One day, when my store just opened, a woman ran in and said: What is your relationship with my husband? I saw that she was the wife of Boss Wu on the street. I smiled and said: What relationship do you have? Who knew she was very serious, looking carefully into her eyes and crying like a peach.

It turned out that on the first night, she joked with her husband and asked him who his favorite woman was? Her husband said my favorite woman is my wife. I also like the women who own boutiques on the street. She is generous and warm.

It was for such a sentence that his wife cried all night. I'm really confused. At this time, Boss Wu also arrived. I immediately asked him how to say this? Boss Wu said he just said it casually. He thinks you are good. Who knew his wife could be so confused? He thinks his wife makes him ashamed and ugly. When they fought back, they started arguing again.

This means that there is nothing in the world, and mediocre people disturb themselves. That day I hesitated whether to go back and tell my husband? The little sisters all objected and said that nothing should happen again. I think so. I have told this woman that she should trust her husband. Like us, they are a very close couple. So I listened to them and put it aside.

Unexpectedly, this woman was scolded by her husband when she came home, and she found my husband talking nonsense again. The next day I was at work and my husband showed up unexpectedly and told me to close the door and go home. Only then did I realize the incident had escalated. I still smile at my husband then. How can you believe her nonsense? Don't you know how we feel?

This is also what worries me the most. Why is trust in a couple so fragile? Is marriage really as fragile as glass?

I told my husband there was nothing to explain. The pure will become clear, and the turbid will become turbid. You should trust your wife. If you don't believe that, that's so sad.

The matter calmed down with almost no splash, and the enemies had long since reconciled. But the seeds of my family's troubles have since been as tragic as I predicted.

He trampled on our love date and all dignity. I don’t want to lose my dignity.

After this incident, his attitude towards me changed significantly, and the communication between the two became less and less. At first, I thought he was busy at work and didn't take it to heart. At that time, he had already opened a factory. I love him, and I'm that 5,000-year-old traditional woman who treats her man wholeheartedly.

A woman who has love in her heart will never like others, just like our love agreement. My husband knows my feelings and knows that I have always hated third parties. My girlfriend has had more than one extramarital affair. I try my best to bring them home. But now the little sister keeps reminding me how long she wants me to, and I scold them angrily, you are really busy, men in the world have become bad, but my husband will not.

Alas, I am a stupid woman. He gradually changed. He always said that there were social activities in the evening. Sometimes he came home at dawn. I was tired of loving him and bought him Qingchunbao and ginseng. When he came home, I wanted to send my children to school and open a store. I often wrote a message on the pillow. Note, remember to drink the ginseng stew and go home early tonight.

I was a little suspicious until he often didn't come home at night.

That night, my son said that my father would take me home today. A woman called him on the road and asked him to drive carefully. At that time, my heart seemed to be lost and I suddenly felt empty. In the evening, I waited for him to come back and finally asked him who was so qualified to care about my husband?

Husband, you must make it clear.

You know I've respected you for over a decade, but I have to respect myself and my parents, so please make that clear. He was silent for a long time, and then said something that shocked me: I wronged you, I shouldn't have believed you, I wanted to get back at you, and I was completely wrong.

It turns out that he didn’t believe me at all. It turns out he always hated me. So, how do you get revenge? At this point, I heard him say something in person that broke my heart, I had it with her several times? Do I not believe that a man can sleep with a woman who is not his wife? I asked him to rein in his horse and turn back from the cliff. We are a loving couple. We can't let a little doubt hurt our feelings. He also cried and admitted his mistake and said he would never contact her again.

My biggest wish at that time was to quietly calm down all this. I naively thought it wasn't that serious. My husband is just confused with jealousy. The person he loves is me, not anyone else.

Half a month later, I found that they were still communicating, and I began to feel that the truth was far from being as simple as the understatement. I became observant and suspicious. I washed my socks that day and found a long hair on his socks that was not mine.

I found my husband. He said why do you doubt it? I said yes. I pulled out my long hair like a detective. He fell silent. This is the second time. I still believe you can change it. I hope you respect me and yourself.

Two months later. When the matter comes up, you must make a phone call. This is an old story I've heard before. I never imagined that one day my Lily would pull my husband's phone bill. There are several different phone numbers on it.

I called one after another. It's the same woman who answers the phone. What are the three cunning rabbit holes? I have a feeling of despair. He couldn't let go of that woman. They have feelings. Within days, I looked like a different person. Marital cancer had come to find me.

You have to have trouble with others first, that’s what I do! If you say it's okay, why would others look for you? Oh my God, those were his last words. When he couldn't escape, he didn't hesitate to accuse me and make excuses for himself.

I cried. You being nice to her is not the saddest thing for me. You don't believe me and others. This is the saddest thing for me. I continued to say calmly, since you have never believed me, and since you are now in love with someone else, let's get a divorce.

He refused to divorce and forgave me for the third time, the fourth time, and I don’t know how many times in the middle of the night. I rode a motorcycle to where he worked to look for them. I went to hotels, karaoke bars, and small shops there, but I couldn't find them. One day, I suddenly received a call from that woman.

She said I will not marry your husband. Don't divorce him. She couldn't laugh or cry after hearing this. She knew it was my husband, but why did she want to interfere in my marriage? Then my husband also said that he was really married. He cannot divorce. He wants to live a good life with me, and he is in urgent need of 50,000 yuan in working capital. I thought about it again and decided to trust him again. Why do I want a divorce? How I miss the past years. I think I am so good to him, and I should be affectionate. But guess what? He didn't come back the night he got the money.

I didn't sleep all night. It's so painful. what do I do? Emotions become glass bottles that break when touched. Trust between husband and wife is so important, but I lost it, completely lost trust. Even if he normally drinks tea with others outside, I am still scared. Do you want to live in this glass bottle your whole life?

The next day, I went to his office, closed the door and talked all afternoon. I looked back and he was crying. Finally, I said it was the fifth time. I can't trust you anymore. I don't want to be with you anymore. You like her very much. I want to help you. If you don't agree to the divorce, I will run away from home.

My cheating husband insists on divorce, but my son is very sensible. He said, Mom, it’s not worth it. This father will not come back or be the same father. He is only ten years old. I cried and asked him, is it okay for mom and dad to divorce? The son said, okay, but I have conditions. I want to be with my mother. I held my son tightly and remembered that you agreed to my mother's divorce. it's all over.