From a psychological point of view, why is He Han attracted to Luo Zijun?

She let He Han see his ideal family, which is a long-cherished wish.

Love actually has no solution.

The so-called no solution means that from the secular point of view, there is no solution to love or not.

I have two classmates who fell in love at school, got married and had children after graduation, and divorced a few years later. The male classmate remarried with Xiao San, and everyone felt that the female classmate did not deserve it. Female students are talented, have strong working ability, are filial to the elderly, know how to raise children and have patience. The remarried wife praised her for being ordinary because she had no obvious advantages to describe her, but after they remarried, their married life was really good and they had children. We have seen long-lost happiness from the faces of male students many times.

Throughout the ages, there have been many unexplained loves.

As far as beauty is concerned, Wan Guifei is older, but she has been spoiled by Ming Xianzong for 20 years.

On talent, Zhang Ailing is famous in the literary world, but the man she loves doesn't care about her.

On manners, Jiang Dongxiu is an illiterate tigress in everyone's eyes, but she has won Hu Shi's love and affection all her life.

Similarly, the hit drama "My First Half Life" has touched too many people. In love, Lingling replaced Luo Zijun's position, and Luo Zijun occupied Tang Jing's position in He Han's heart.

But there is no need to compare them today, because the results are not universal.

At the beginning of episode 29 of the TV series, Luo Zijun's brother-in-law smashed the barber shop of Ziqun's new boyfriend. At the same time, Luo's mother moved out of the hotel because of the opposition of Lao Cui's son. In the face of Luo Zijun's dog blood situation, He Han doesn't hate it at all. On the contrary, he feels that their family is very energetic, and he rarely mentions his family. He Han grew up in a well-behaved family, and was really tired of the hypocritical life. Later, he went abroad to study.

In fact, the more people are bored with all kinds of things in Origin and Destiny, the more they are addicted to the unfulfilled wishes of that year.

For example, if a person accidentally bites his cheek, he can't help licking it all the time. Just as a girl with an alcoholic father finally marries someone who can drink, a person who experienced domestic violence as a child may also have domestic violence when he grows up. People subconsciously want to change the painful situation in those years. This unfinished wish of childhood will never disappear, and it will penetrate into people's future life intentionally or unintentionally. Moreover, this desire is probably not noticed by the parties concerned.

He Han, who has always been silent, rarely mentions his family background, which shows how deep his dissatisfaction is buried. In other words, his yearning for a real and dynamic family has become a brand of him, which will penetrate into a person's character, lurk in the depths, and constantly and stubbornly seek opportunities for satisfaction. At that time, his childhood experience also influenced He Han's view on marriage, which made him not want to get married for many years.

However, no matter how unwilling He Han was to get married at first and how much he hated Luo Zijun, this brand in his heart will certainly seek various opportunities to be satisfied. He Han finally saw the truth of Luo Zijun and the vitality of Luo Zijun's family. This is what he has been looking for for for a long time, but he just doesn't know it.

The less satisfied she was when she was a child, the easier it was for her to see hope in others and arouse her own desires. He Han really loves Tang Jing. Miranda took her place after Tang Jing went to Hongkong. She wants to modify the cooperation plan, and He Han strongly disagrees. Chen thinks He Han is a bully, but He Han knows very well that Miranda is a hypocritical woman. He Han appreciates the straightforward work attitude like Tang Jing. He appreciates Tang Jing's truth, but it is a pity that Tang Jing's truth has not been shown in love. Tang Jing satisfied part of He Han's feelings, but more feelings were brought by brave and even furious Luo Zijun. She showed He Han her ideal.

Love has no solution, so why attract each other? The reason is not all kinds of superficial things. Like an iceberg, its huge part is hidden below sea level, deep and heavy. This is a hidden force, an irresistible force.

Let's take a look at the lovers around us. Their appearance is by no means accidental. Love is two pieces of soul that satisfy each other's desires. Together, they form a more complete and magnificent chapter in life.

At this point, human beings are interlinked.