Workplace: The emotional story between my boss and me

In fact, you have already thought about which path to choose, but you just haven’t had the chance to take action!

《1》

Ever since that day when I accompanied my friend to apply for a job as a shopping guide in a brand clothing store, I have been stimulated!

In the past, I couldn’t even think of going to a brand store to buy clothes. But my friend who loves beauty wants to go to a brand store to buy women's clothing, because she said: It's great to be able to wear beautiful clothes every day!

When we got there with her, the person in charge of recruitment was the manager of this clothing store. After looking us up and down, she said: Selling branded women's clothing requires a shopping guide with temperament. If you can't wear branded clothing, If you are refined, you will not meet the recruitment conditions.

I secretly looked at the shopping guides inside. They were all tall and elegant, but they looked at us as if they had seen a joke! Really, that feeling is so hurtful!

We are only 20 years old, rural girls who have just come from Gansu, and we are considered highly educated after attending junior high school. I can only work as a waiter in a hotel.

When I first came here, I worked in a Sichuan restaurant. I was a little tired, but I already felt that I was earning a lot of money.

Thinking about that time, it was really easy to be satisfied!

I have two brothers at home. Although they are married, life is very hard. Our village lives in a mountain with no roads and only one winding trail. It takes more than 2 hours to get on a motorcycle and go to the county train station!

Only after I came to the city of Coal City did I realize that my 50-year-old mother looked older than the hotel owner’s 70-year-old mother. Not to mention the 48-year-old boss this year, who seems to be in his early thirties, but my father left us early!

I could earn 2,000 yuan a month serving dishes in a hotel. I was really satisfied at that time. Because food and accommodation were included, I kept 500 yuan for my pocket expenses, and sent all the remaining money back to my hometown.

Working in a hotel is just like that. It’s good to get off work at 12 o’clock every night. So, by the time I finished washing and went to bed, it was already late at night.

Usually there is nothing to do in the morning. We can sleep in the dormitory until about 10 o'clock before going to the hotel to work.

If not for comparison, such a life would be considered comfortable for a girl who has never made any money!

Don’t you often say: without comparison, there is no harm?

When everyone makes a decision, don’t make excuses. Because it is the result of your thinking every day and dreaming every night!

《2》

I started to learn how to put on makeup and how to match clothes. As my expenses increased, I naturally sent less money to my family. My mother called me to ask, and I just said: The benefits are not very good now, and I can’t make as much as before!

At this time, only I know what kind of life I want and what kind of life I want my mother to live.

I told the little sisters in the hotel: I want to catch a golden husband from the customers!

Because she is a young girl and is tall and thin, she can feel the changes in herself after learning to dress up! Sometimes, I really enjoy the process of spending money. It’s really fun, isn’t it?

Although I am not as temperamental as the local girls, I am eager to learn! From 8 am to 10 am every day, I went to the training school to learn hotel etiquette, Mandarin exams, as well as daily makeup and daily dressing!

Half a year later, the boss suddenly said to me: Xiao Dai, go to the front door to greet the guests!

I know that my chance has finally come.

Wearing a custom-made cheongsam will outline the graceful curves of your young and plump figure. I stood there confidently, already feeling that the happiness I wanted was not far away from me!

I have improved in all aspects, whether in terms of appearance, image, or temperament. It has brought me superiority, but it has also brought troubles.

Hotel regulations: Whoever the customer calls to book a table will get 10% of the consumption. Therefore, everyone works hard to please customers and hopes to think of themselves when ordering food.

How much my phone gave, I can’t remember!

As long as you book a table with me, you will definitely ask me to accompany you for drinks.

I just don’t want to think about those days. Even though I earned a lot, I also put in unbearable hardships!

If you have time to lament the coldness of the world, why not try to change yourself, because we can only be our own masters!

《3》

I remember one day, it seemed to be Saturday, because the boss only visited the store on Saturdays and Sundays.

A table of guests booked from me started at 19:00. I went over to say hello. An hour later, I went in and brought everyone a glass of wine.

Among them, there was a middle-aged man who looked like he was in his 50s. He pulled me and refused to let me go, saying: "Sing a song before I leave!"

By the way, he touched my hand again!

The person treating me was an old customer of mine. He smiled awkwardly: Lao Wu, you drank too much! Xiao Dai is at the front desk and can't be separated.

After saying that, I came over and held his hand, and I took the opportunity to walk away!

This kind of thing has happened to me before, and I want to slap him every time.

However, you have to hold back every time!

It was almost 11 o'clock that day when they came out. When that greasy "Old Wu" saw me, he immediately hugged me and kissed me with his smelly mouth!

So, I screamed!

The boss was chatting with his friends. He came over and punched him, but was pulled away by everyone.

I was shocked. It was the first time I met such a shameless person. To be honest, people nowadays still need to have some face and not be embarrassed in public!

After screaming, I couldn’t stop crying! After being sent back to the dormitory by the boss, the only thought in my mind was: I quit, I quit! Quit!

The boss asked me: If you don’t work here, what are you going to do? Have you thought about it?

I shake my head!

The boss said again: Are you willing to work in my friend's clothing store?

My eyes widened. To be honest, my boss is a very good person.

At that time, I thought, how did he know that I wanted to work in a clothing store! Did the little sister tell him?

Clothing store was a turning point in my life!

The boss continued: He sells branded men's clothing. If you want to go, I will take you there now!

Okay, okay!

I was excited. I went to work in a branded men's clothing store and met all men with good taste. I seemed to see the light again, maybe my golden turtle husband would appear from there.

When you are persistently pursuing your goals, have you ever asked yourself whether it is worth it?

《4》

I am 22 years old and have been working at the "Hongdou Men's Wear" store for a while, but I have only met the owner twice.

Once when I was checking in, and once when the hotel owner asked me to go out for dinner that day, saying that I hadn’t seen you for a long time, let’s get together!

I am very grateful to the hotel owner for taking care of me and readily agreed to him.

After get off work, the hotel owner drove to pick me up. I was a little embarrassed. Because getting in the car under the strange looks of colleagues is not something everyone can bear!

I said politely: Mr. Tan, it’s not so troublesome, it’s very convenient to take the shuttle bus!

Mr. Tan said in a good temper: No trouble, it’s an honor!

I don’t know why, but I feel very comfortable.

Sitting in the passenger seat, I secretly took a look at Mr. Tan’s face from the side. He was very charming. He didn’t look like someone in his forties.

I lament that I was born at the wrong time and wonder where my person is?

"The beauty is finally here"

When I heard the sound, I could already see the people at the wine table. They were all here. Two men brought two female companions. .

My current boss, whose surname is Shi, is probably between 50 and 60 years old. He looks very elegant. I heard that he used to run a teahouse! Proficient in calligraphy and painting, he is well-known in the local cultural circles.

Although it was the second time we met, I had a very good impression. It felt a bit like my father’s generation, and I was very close!

I sat between Mr. Tan and Mr. Shi, and it was the first time for everyone else to meet them. So I nodded my head as a greeting.

Although I have been working in a hotel for two years, this is the first time I have actually sat down to eat in such a formal way.

Seeing that I was a little nervous, Mr. Tan thoughtfully brought me a cup of hot water and said: Drink some hot water and relax!

I looked at him gratefully, and I felt really relaxed.

Mr. Shi also said with a smile: We get together often. If we meet a few times in the future, we will become acquaintances.

They were all very funny, and the meal ended in a pleasant atmosphere.

I don’t know who said: Beauty Dai, this is the first time we meet, let’s go sing!

Shi Zong came back from the accounts and asked me: Do you want to go?

But I looked at Mr. Tan and left with some reluctance. I liked the atmosphere today very much and felt that from now on, I would enter another society.

After Mr. Tan and I finished singing the classic song "Ping Ju", Mr. Shi applauded and said: I didn't expect that Xiao Dai, who is so beautiful and can sing so well, sells clothes at my place. , What a waste of talent!

Mr. Tan said: It’s the same as what I thought. Mr. Shi, please help find a place!

Mr. Shi looked at me with a thoughtful expression!

When everything really comes, we feel that some things are simply beyond our control. Overestimating our abilities is the most common mistake for young people!

《5》

After selling clothes for less than three months, he left.

After being introduced by Mr. Shi, I went to a cultural media company to act as an intermediary for painters, calligraphers, and musicians. After contacting various businesses, I earned intermediary fees!

You can make a lot of money in this industry, and you can also learn a lot. I learned calligraphy from the most famous calligrapher in Coal City, and sang with the music teachers!

It was more than two years later, when I could sell my calligraphy for money, that I truly realized my transformation. No one knows where that silly girl from Gansu has gone!

I am already a VIP customer of a brand clothing store. I often receive phone calls about discounts or new arrivals. Every time I go to the store, I get considerate service!

I also arranged for my second brother to join the media company, and my mother also moved to Coal City to live in the new building I just bought.

There is only one thing that is not ideal, the golden turtle husband I caught never showed up.

Mr. Shi introduced many people to me, but he always turned them down because he didn’t have any feelings for them!

In fact, when I later learned that Mr. Shi of the media company was also a shareholder, I really felt lucky to have met such good people as Mr. Shi and Mr. Tan.

After introducing the person several times, it seems that I am always not interested.

One time we went to have tea, and Mr. Shi and Mr. Tan were both there.

Mr. Tan saw that I was silent and looked over, but I was looking at him stupidly without knowing it!

I don’t know since when, as long as Mr. Tan is around, I will talk less! Even he discovered this situation, let alone Mr. Shi.

Therefore, he would sometimes look at me with worried eyes, and every time I would look back with a pretended calm look.

I understand, understand my heart!

But what should I do? It doesn’t listen to me and I can’t control it!

《6》

Sometimes, we have to give up everything we have worked hard for, just to let go of an emotion that should not belong to us!

At the age of 26, I finally understood. Every time there was a party, I would get in the car and say to Mr. Shi: I will take you home after you drink, so I can rest assured!

In fact, when I finally sent Mr. Tan home, it was just to spend more time with him!

I finally understood why I was still staring blankly at the window after watching him go upstairs! Just want to see a happy family?

I finally understand why I don’t feel anything about the people introduced by Mr. Shi, because they are not the people I want!

When did it go from thanking to liking?

If you don’t work in the hotel, can you find a job for me then?

Or, please ask Mr. Shi to reconsider and help me change my job?

Or maybe you would always smile and encourage me from then on when I couldn’t do my job in the media?

When I think about it, it must be: Patting my head affectionately, and saying with a chuckle, little fool!

And when you can’t hold on while practicing calligraphy, tell me: No matter where you are, you won’t get what you want easily if you don’t work hard!

When I think about it, it must be: when I worked hard to earn money by singing and just wanted to make my relatives in my hometown live a better life, I showed distressed eyes!

Also, when I was running around, I often told me not to forget to eat, not to stay up late, not to eat cold food, not to drink carbonated drinks...

Covering my face and crying...< /p>

I know how dangerous my feelings are!

Let’s talk! Mr. Tan! I like you and just want to tell you!

Not because you helped me, nor because you encouraged me. Just for people who live in the present, I can’t ignore the charisma you display!

I am a girl from the countryside, powerless and alone. I came to the coal city to seek life. Only because of my hard work and unwillingness, I met you. This is what God has given me. Blessing, I can't selfishly destroy it!

I want to go to the south and see it. You also said: If you go out more and explore more, you will know how narrow your ideas are.

People don’t just live for themselves! I will always remember it!