The leader invited the female subordinates to the hotel room at night, saying that they knew the work situation. If nothing happened, would you believe it?

In my opinion, you have completely put yourself in an invincible position now. Well, it's the opposite of invincible position. I only

Being able to watch you struggle, sink, threaten to break up, and then be completely broken up, the last sentence of the hostess to you is probably: You disappoint me so much.

Let's deduce that no matter what happened that night, it doesn't matter, just talk about 45 minutes of work.

Then let's go from here

Start with the room.

Your reaction is suspicious, and you vaguely feel that you are green, but there is no evidence. You can only verify it repeatedly by questioning your girlfriend.

Her reaction: grievance, full of distrust. I'm starting to think you're a little bored.

The leader's reaction: this girl has passed the exam and is a good prospect worth cultivating.

Some people may think that I misunderstood the leader, but in my experience (I saw my wife YY District in Caopomegranate for ten years, I would be very confused.

Say? ), let the female subordinate go to her room alone in the middle of the night, but Li doesn't know that a person who doesn't know how to avoid suspicion has no warmth.

Ignorant thoughts, unless he is an idiot who doesn't understand the world. How can another idiot be the leader of a state-owned enterprise?

Ok, let's give in again, when he is a technical house and a herbivore. A woman in her twenties entered her room and the door closed.

In the morning, she sat less than 20 centimeters away from him, and the two of them discussed their work one by one.

Unless this is a complete

Without the secretion of androgen, all normal men can feel the encouragement brought by ambiguity in this closed space.

And this ambiguity usually affects two people.

Of course, you probably didn't do anything for 45 minutes, if this is only the woman's first date with the leader. Most leaders are not as impatient as little boys, especially the grass beside the nest. We should figure out the situation and take our time. There's plenty of time anyway. ?

It is precisely because they really didn't do anything that your girlfriend felt really wronged by your reaction and felt that you insulted her. give you

Instead of apologizing, she will refuse to continue to communicate with you on this topic.

Facing this increasingly uncontrollable situation will make your emotions more and more impulsive. There is a line in threesome that says.

Dear: Why are you angry because you are afraid? You are afraid that she will be hurt by a wily leader, and even more afraid that she is.

Deliberately please the leader, you are afraid that you may wear a green hat on your head at any time, so your anger will appear in the photo of you and your girlfriend at any time.

In your's relations, there is less sweetness and more conflicts.

And what would she think: this man is so childish. This man is hysterical. Is this person worthy of my continued association? Sure enough, it still works.

Mature men are more attractive.

Just when your image is gradually falling to the bottom, the image of a leader may be like this: concentrate on working at your desk at night and give orders.

Domineering in time, mature and tolerant in dealing with various problems. What do you think will happen in the end?

She may not fall in love with him, but she will get tired of you.

So, a story that begins with her doing something stupid ends with you being dumped and accused for no reason.

And you know, this result is actually to treat your girlfriend as a little girl who has not been wet behind the ears.

In fact, people who are willing to dominate this kind of dating in the middle of the night are either really stupid and naive, or girls who know what they want and are willing to pay.

Don't say that women also need career and progress. If she tells you that she is doing this for her career and future, or even just to avoid offending the leader.

If so, please automatically put her into the second category.

Take another 10 thousand steps, even if the work of this state-owned enterprise is bought by grandpa and grandma. A state-owned enterprise has serious employees or

A joke tells the leader that he cares about his reputation, and a state-owned enterprise leader who can handle it clearly will not take this opportunity to attack. If he really

Without that idea, he would reflect on his behavior; And if there is such a plan, he will exclude you from his target unit. man

It's all about watching people eat food. He will find an easy target and won't bury a bomb beside him.

And what kind of woman will be considered easy to do? It's simple. Call at 10 in the evening: Xiao X, there will be a meeting tomorrow.

The materials are due. Come to my room later and we will discuss them.

As for how to solve the problem of answering the Lord, under normal circumstances, it seems that I should teach you to have a good heart-to-heart talk with her and tell her that you are alone.

How dangerous the room is, how emotionally you don't accept it, how destructive this behavior is to your feelings, and so on. ?

But I feel that, after all, it should be useless in the end.

Therefore, I recommend that you might as well read an article in Zhihu called "A Normal, Decent and Dignified Farewell".

Well, although I don't agree with every word in that article, I still hope that even if you are cuckolded, you must lose.

Quit smoking regularly, with dignity and dignity.

It ends with a story that I am particularly embarrassed to mention again. It is my own story many years ago:

My girlfriend once received a similar invitation from their leader. What should I do? I looked at her and told her, if I find out,

If he makes such a request again, I'll buy a bucket of red paint. ?

My girlfriend was very strange and asked me why I bought red paint. I told her that if he made such a request again, I would go directly to their company during office hours and ask for the manager, and then pour a bottle of paint on him in front of everyone and tell him not to seduce the company again.

Girls. And if I find out that you are dating without telling me, I will just say your name and tell him to stop seducing XX.

At that time, I just graduated from college, with nothing, thorns all over me, and I couldn't stand any injustice. This is what I really think, so I just ...

I feel that whoever dares to take away what I value most will destroy what he values most. What are the leaders of married state-owned enterprises most concerned about? Future? fame

Family harmony? Then it must be much better to be red from head to toe in the unit than to be beaten quietly in the alley. ?

After formulating the policy, my psychological burden seems to be gone in an instant. Anyway, whoever annoys me will break the larger foe with him, and I'm not afraid to wear shoes barefoot.

Yes

But strangely, that kind of thing actually disappeared later.

Seeing this problem today reminds me of the story of red paint ten years ago. I don't recommend the subject to learn from me. I just want to say to the subject, don't be afraid, stabilize your emotions first. If you stop rocking yourself, women can rely on it.