What should I pay attention to when attending social activities?

First of all, it is very important to pay attention to social etiquette. Generally speaking, there are the following points:

L. When you need to raise a glass, don't drink too much, keep a clear head, and don't get carried away without seeing the wine. It is impolite to drink good wine. Don't drink before going to work, so as not to make people angry. Moderate drinking after work, under any circumstances, excessive drinking is wrong. Being tired and drunk at work is not only against work discipline, but also disorderly. If the tourist receptionist still goes to work drunk, it will seriously damage the quality of service and is absolutely not allowed. 3. It is unacceptable for participants not to gamble or drink too much, get drunk and stop fighting, which will turn civilized and polite communication into rude behavior. Be polite in persuading wine. When the host or sitting guest sees that someone's glass is empty, he will politely ask, "Please have another drink". If you put your hand over the mouth of the cup, it means that you don't want to drink, so you don't have to force it. "To lay down one's life to accompany a gentleman" is a lack of self-evaluation of drinkers, which is by no means a polite behavior, and it is rude and immoral for drinkers to get angry after failing to persuade them to drink. It is an inhuman and puzzling faux pas to ignore a person who failed to persuade them to drink. Toast or * * * toast at the dinner party is generally appropriate once, and don't repeat the toast. Forcing others not only fails to pay tribute, but also makes them feel embarrassed and unhappy. Clink glasses and drink according to everyone's wishes. It is unreasonable to judge sincerity by how much you drink. 4. Don't guess the fist order, be noisy and rude. Clapping is not allowed in public places, and boxing is generally not suitable for family private reception. If you need something special, be careful not to disturb your neighbors or go against your host's wishes. But don't use it as a means to force drinking. It is very impolite to vomit when you are drunk. Both sides played vulgar roles, not only hurting their own bodies, but also making a fool of themselves in public and framing others. Even if you drink too much, if you have no virtue, talent and rudeness, you are just a bucket of rice. 5. Avoid getting drunk and out of control. Alcohol can anesthetize people's nerves, make people think disorder, make some people excited, and lose control of their words and behaviors. If you go crazy with alcohol, talk nonsense, say something that is difficult to export at ordinary times, and do something ugly, people will often regret it. The location of clinking glasses is also very particular. Generally, toast the seniors, and the glass should be slightly lower to show humility. If the other party deliberately requests it, it can be flat-headed, and it must not be higher than the other party's cup. 6. Regarding seats, in high-end hotels, napkins with different shapes are stacked in the wine glasses to distinguish between primary and secondary. The flower shape of the theme is usually high, only one, except for the theme, the napkin flower shape is the same; If you are in different hotels, people usually take the south-facing position as the main position, and others take the second place. However, due to modern people's poor sense of direction, the seat facing the door of a private room is generally regarded as the main position (because the door is generally facing south), and the others are regarded as the deputy positions; 7. The toaster must clean itself first, so as to show your sincerity and generosity. People in China like to talk about business at the dinner table, so a person's drinking capacity and wine virtue will also be the reference indicators of your business partners. Most people think that a generous person is more trustworthy, because he has more temperament than an honest and frank person.