Anhui engagement custom, it is best to have a county. There are also customs related to wedding ceremonies.

On the wedding day, the man should prepare some red envelopes, because the bride needs "money for combing her hair", "money for getting up" and "money for crossing the bridge". On the wedding day, the man sends someone (if the man is married, it is better to have a son and a daughter, both parents are alive) to meet the bride at home with firecrackers, and then the matchmaker and groom will come (the woman's home will prepare a farewell party in advance) to pick up the bride. When I arrived at the man's house, a couple got started and laid it on the ground, and the couple stepped on it. The two children alternately spread two sacks forward until the new house (meaning to carry on the family line). At noon on the first day, they will find a child to eat with the couple and the matchmaker (the courtesy matchmaker will tell you), and then propose a toast at night to make trouble in the bridal chamber!

I only said the customs here in Nanxiang County, and the customs in Beixiang County are different from those in Nanxiang County. You'd better bring a gift and ask the local elders! I hope it helps!