What are the various processes of positive engagement?

Project process:

1, ancestor worship The man prayed for a happy marriage before he left.

On the day of engagement, the man took the bride price (six or twelve copies) and set off for the woman's house with a cannon.

3. When welcoming the motorcade hired by the man to the front of the woman's house about 100 meters, the woman "shot" and responded.

The matchmaker gets off first, and others are next; Finally, the groom was invited out by the younger generation of the woman's family, and the groom gave the younger generation a red envelope (opening ceremony).

4. Introduce the man's relatives and friends into the woman's house in turn, and the matchmaker formally introduces the relatives and friends of both parties; Introduce the man to the woman first.

5. The staff who recruited men carried Chunsheng (now called the red wooden box) into the woman's living room, and the woman accepted the bride price and rewarded the red envelope (the gift of carrying the husband/driving the car) to show the bride price one by one.

The matchmaker sends gifts such as dowry and gold ornaments to the woman's parents, and the woman's relatives and friends collect the dowry and display the offerings on the altar.

6. The elder of the woman who offered sweet tea asked the man's relatives to sit down according to their age, and the groom was next.

At this time, the bride was led out of the hall by a blessed woman, holding sweet tea for the man's guests one by one. The number of cups is the same as the number of people drinking tea, neither more nor less. The matchmaker reads auspicious words and wishes.

7. Press the teacup. Later, the lucky woman will lead the bride out of the hall with a tea tray and collect tea cups. The man's relatives and friends will put red envelopes and teacups (red envelopes are rolled up and put into cups) on the tea tray.

8, hanging rings: gold rings, bronze rings (take its sound, indicating concentricity.

You can also use a diamond ring instead.

At that time, the blessed woman will lead the bride into the hall.

In the witness of parents and relatives of both parties, the bride-to-be sits on the high chair in the hall facing outward, with her feet on the low chair (facing inward if it is supernumerary).

Wear a ring, first the bride's middle finger and then the groom's middle finger (generally only to the second knuckle, both men and women are left-handed), and the matchmaker reads auspicious words.

The groom gives official money (red envelopes) to the bride, and the matchmaker reads auspicious words.

The prospective mother-in-law put a necklace on the bride as a gift.

After putting on the engagement ring, the matchmaker suggested that both parties change their names and address them one by one.

9. ancestor worship asks the bride's uncle to light candles to burn incense, and the woman should give her mother a "candle ceremony" (provided by the man)

10 The gift that the woman gives back to the man is called "Rebirth" (also called "Pressing Life"). Take out the man's "dowry" and put it into the empty life.

1 1. After the engagement ceremony, the woman held a banquet.

12. The woman who delivers the cake will give the engagement wedding cake to relatives and friends, and the bride is not allowed to eat her own wedding cake.