"Dear Child" Xie Tianhua didn't understand why Yinuo married Xiao Lu until he lost his own flesh and blood.

Dear Children, Xie Tianhua's "blackening" is so cruel.

In college, Xiao Lu and Xie Tianhua, two boys, fell in love with Fang Yinuo, a female classmate.

Fang Yinuo unswervingly chose Xiao Lu, and they got married after graduation.

Xie Tianhua can only silently guard Fang Yinuo as a friend. Xie Tianhua watched Fang Yinuo get married and have children, but on the day Fang Yinuo gave birth, Xie Tianhua prepared gifts and greeting cards for Fang Yinuo.

Xie Tianhua knew that it was one of the most important days in Fang Yinuo's life. He wrote the most sincere wishes on the card. In order to prevent Xiao Lu from being oversensitive, Xie Tianhua added a congratulations to Xiao Lu.

In Xie Tianhua's heart, it's good to see her happy if she can't have the person she loves the most. Unexpectedly, after Fang Yinuo gave birth to her daughter Hehe, Xiao Lu didn't give Fang Yinuo enough care and care, but Xiao Lu didn't cherish the woman who Xie Tianhua couldn't love.

Xie Tianhua watched Xiao Lu pandering with other women outside. He chose to help Xiao Lu hide it. He beat Xiao Lu and urged Xiao Lu to return to his family with peace of mind. Wo Wo had a fever, Fang Yinuo called Xiao Lu, but Xiao Lu was entangled with the young girl Zhu Zhu. It was Xie Tianhua who braved the heavy rain and sent Fang Yinuo's mother and daughter to the hospital.

Xie Tianhua watched Fang Yinuo arguing with Xiao Lu. He knew that Fang Yinuo was not happy, but he had no wild desires. He just wanted Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo to have a good life. Xie Tianhua didn't expect that Wo Wo was only one year old, and Fang Yinuo divorced Xiao Lu, and they were very stiff. Fang Yinuo took Wo He and vowed not to contact Xiao Lu of old age.

Fang Yinuo moved back to her parents' home with her daughter after her divorce, and Xie Tianhua had another chance to pursue Fang Yinuo. Before, he didn't have the courage to express himself generously. Now Fang Yinuo has become a single mother, and Xie Tianhua has the self-confidence worthy of her husband's promise. Regardless of the family's opposition, Xie Tianhua insists that Fang Yinuo will not marry.

In fact, Xie Tianhua's conditions are not bad. He is a good-looking man. He opened a small shop and became a small boss at a young age. The conditions of the women he is dating are all right, but he only loves Fang Yinuo. Xie Tianhua's "stubbornness" made his sister Xie Dan scold him for being stupid.

after Fang Yinuo married Xie Jia, she tried to please her elder sister Xie Dan and be filial to her in-laws. Even her daughter He He learned to read people's faces with Fang Yinuo. Fang Yinuo spent a year and was recognized by her in-laws.

Only Xie Dan still thinks about Fang Yinuo and Xie Dan. In fact, it is not unreasonable. After Fang Yinuo and Xie Tianhua got married, Xie Tianhua regarded He He as his own, but Fang Yinuo did not intend to have another child with Xie Tianhua. Xie Dan felt wronged for his younger brother.

Xie Dan got angry at the dinner table in front of Wo He:

Xie Dan made it very clear that he disliked Fang Yinuo's stomach, but Fang Yinuo pretended to be confused with understanding and replied humbly, "Sister, if you are not satisfied with me, I will change."

In this scene in Dear Children, Xie Tianhua's reaction is very meaningful. He silently poured a glass of white wine and drank it sadly. He didn't support Fang Yinuo, and Xie Tianhua's performance hinted at his heart.

Xie Dan knows Xie Tianhua very well. Although Xie Dan's words are rough and unpleasant, he accurately conveyed Xie Tianhua's appeal. Xie Tianhua wants to have his own flesh and blood. No matter how good he is to Wo He, Wo He is also Xiao Lu's daughter.

Although Xiao Lu has been turned away from Fang Yinuo for years, he is not allowed to see Wo He, but the blood relationship between father and daughter cannot be changed. Wo He will be recognized by Xiao Lu sooner or later. Xie Tianhua, the stepfather, can't erase the father-daughter nature of Xiao Lu and Wo He no matter how hard he tries.

Fang Yinuo didn't notice Xie Tianhua's secret feelings. He He was the only daughter in her heart, and she married Xie Tianhua only because Xie Tianhua was kind and honest, infatuated with her for many years, and was really kind to He He.

Before Fang Yinuo and Xie Tianhua got together, they had specially tested Xie Tianhua. When they saw Xie Tianhua going out for dinner, they would specially give Hehe some noodles for children to eat. He always wiped his hands with wet wipes in his bag, and he was patient when he took Hehe out to play. Fang Yinuo agreed to Xie Tianhua's proposal.

Xie Tianhua loved Fang Yinuo deeply. After marriage, he tried his best to keep his promise, saved money to buy a house to improve his quality of life, and even secretly supported Xiao Lu to visit Hehe to make up for Hehe's lack of fatherly love. However, Xie Tianhua's efforts did not get Fang Yinuo's sincerity.

A serious illness of Hehe completely tore apart Fang Yinuo's selfishness and hypocrisy.

Hehe suffered from leukemia, and Fang Yinuo had to get close to Xiaolu again. The matching of the Xiao family failed, and the waiting for the bone marrow bank was far away. The doctor suggested that Hehe's biological parents have a second child and use the umbilical cord blood of the newborn for matching.

In order to save her daughter, Fang Yinuo filed for divorce with Xie Tianhua, and infatuated Xie Tianhua supported Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu to have another child. As long as Fang Yinuo didn't mention the divorce, Xie Tianhua said he could accept anything.

Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu originally planned to make test tubes, and they went through the formalities with their expired marriage certificates. However, due to Fang Yinuo's physical reasons, the doctor advised her to recuperate for a period of time before doing it. Fang Yinuo watched Wo He's illness get worse, and made a "serious" proposal to Xiao Lu. Xiao Lu agreed, and they secretly went to the hotel to open a room behind their respective families.

Xiao Lu's wife, Dong Fan, found Xie Tianhua and asked him to stop Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu's cheating. Xie Tianhua shut Dong Fan out in cowardice. He was afraid to face Fang Yinuo's betrayal, fearing that their marriage would never be maintained once he came forward, and Xie Tianhua was reluctant to expose Fang Yinuo.

In fact, Xie Tianhua knows that Fang Yinuo has never let go of Xiao Lu since she married him. Xie Tianhua deluded himself that as long as the other party's promise was good enough, she would win her heart. Unexpectedly, Fang Yinuo was still biased towards Xiao Lu at the critical moment.

That night, Xie Tianhua was uneasy. Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu were in the hotel room, and they were also suffering. The divorced couple sat on the same bed again, and both of them were embarrassed. But Fang Yinuo remembered that Xiao Lu loved watching the game and turned on the TV to adjust the atmosphere. Unexpectedly, Xiao Lu couldn't hold back. Xiao Lu said, "Why don't we forget it?"

Fang Yinuo temporarily gave up "being serious" with Xiao Lu. After Fang Yinuo returned home, he confessed his behavior to Xie Tianhua and said that he could not do that without Xie Tianhua and Xiao Lu. Xie Tianhua wept with joy. He thought that his years of loved one had finally paid off.

Since Hehe's illness, Xie Tianhua has contributed money to take care of Hehe carefully, and is willing to sell a house to treat Hehe. His heart for Hehe is no less than Xiao Lu's. Xie Tianhua loves Fang Yinuo dearly, and often takes the responsibility of accompanying the bed by himself, so that Fang Yinuo can go home and rest. Fang Yinuo is deeply moved when he looks at Xie Tianhua's rickety back.

But Fang Yinuo's affection for Xie Tianhua is only limited to being touched.

Fang Yinuo was pregnant with Xie Tianhua's child unexpectedly, but she kept it from Xie Tianhua because Fang Yinuo didn't want to keep the child. To save Wo Wo's life, only the brothers and sisters with the same father and mother have hope. Fang Yinuo also wants to adjust her mood and try Xiao Lu again. What she wants is Xiao Lu's children, not Xie Tianhua's.

Hehe is Fang Yinuo's daughter. Fang Yinuo is willing to give everything to save Hehe, but isn't the second child in her belly her own? Fang Yinuo's aversion to unborn children severely criticized Xie Tianhua's heart.

In order to persuade Fang Yinuo to keep Xie's blood, Xie Dan even knelt down to Fang Yinuo and begged her to be merciful. Unexpectedly, Fang's mother said that the child was her daughter's, and the decision was in Fang Yinuo's hands, and others had no right to interfere.

Xie Tianhua certainly wanted this hard-won child. In order to prevent Fang Yinuo from laying hands on the fetus, Xie Tianhua even went to ask Xiao Lu for help. Xiao Lu was eager to love women, but she still had basic reason. Xiao Lu advised Fang Yinuo not to be so bitter. The child had to be taken.

Fang Yinuo decided to go all the way to the dark and said to Xiao Lu, "Don't delay our business." This sentence exposed Fang Yinuo's nausea and heartlessness. She treated the two children differently because their fathers were different. She loved Xiao Lu with her heart, but never loved Xie Tianhua.

Fang Yinuo naturally ignored Xie Tianhua's emotional needs. Xie Tianhua saw that Fang Yinuo had lost his mind and was finally cornered by her. Xie Tianhua went to the hospital to report that Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu were unmarried and made test tubes, which completely blocked the way to save Wo.

Xie Tianhua loves Hehe. He can do such a cruel thing because Fang Yinuo forced him. He just wants to keep his own child. He thinks this child is the crystallization of his love with Fang Yinuo. Unexpectedly, Fang Yinuo regards him as a burden and dislikes his coming at a bad time.

Fang Yinuo didn't want this child. She was preoccupied with finding a match for Wo He, and didn't take any care of the unborn child in her belly. The child accidentally flowed away with Fang Yinuo's wishes. Xie Tianhua thought that Fang Yinuo was intentional, and the contradiction between the two people reached the acme.

Dear Child, Xie Tianhua didn't understand until she lost her own flesh and blood. Fang Yinuo's marriage to him was a compromise for Hehe. Hehe couldn't live without her father, and she never really loved him from beginning to end. Fang Yinuo had married Xiao Lu and didn't choose him, which was already the answer.

Xie Tianhua's admiration and devotion for many years have all become jokes. The reason why he can't compare with Xiao Lu in Fang Yinuo's heart is not because he is not good enough, but because he is too good.

Xiao Lu is a man, a chicken thief, a slippery person, who can talk sweet words, make little girls happy, have a smart brain and are funny. Fang Yinuo is attracted by Xiao Lu's personality.

When Fang Yinuo was pregnant with Wo Wo, Xiao Lu went to pack noodles for her. Xiao Lu ate a bowl of spicy food first, and then packed two bowls of non-spicy food. When she came back, she pretended to accompany Fang Yinuo to eat non-spicy food and share the joys and sorrows with Fang Yinuo. Fang Yinuo saw through Xiao Lu's tricks at a glance, but did not blame Xiao Lu for it. Fang Yinuo knew that Xiao Lu had a lively brain and a childish side.

Mr. Su, the leader of Xiao Lu, also mentioned that Xiao Lu has a good way of winning customers, and he can get acquainted with customers once or twice, which shows that Xiao Lu's intelligence quotient and IQ are high enough.

when Xiao Lu asked Zhu Zhu to open the back door for him, he was also convinced of the temperament of Zhu Zhu, a little girl. Xiao Lu gave lipstick and took Zhu Zhu to a roadside stall, which made the rich girl go around in circles. Zhu Zhu couldn't wait to commit herself. After Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu divorced, Xiao Lu married Dong Fan, a gentle and beautiful rich girl. The charm of this man should not be underestimated.

Dear Child, after Wo He fell ill, the scene in which Fang Yinuo and her two husbands made a big fuss about the bone marrow bank also reflected the completely different personalities of Xiao Lu and Xie Tianhua. Xiao Lu is full of tricks, he doesn't blush when he lies, and he doesn't get stage fright when he goes home with Mrs. Wen, the director of the bone marrow bank, and Xie Tianhua really helps Mrs. Wen take care of all the flowers and plants at home.

After coming out, Xiao Lu said that Xie Tianhua was so stupid that he had finished all the work at once, so there was no reason to go again next time. That's what Xie Tianhua did. He was sincere to everyone, and he would rather suffer for himself than be sorry for others.

The neighbor's wife often exchanged pickles for Xie Tianhua's meat dishes. After a long time, Xie Tianhua didn't want to, but he didn't have an attack and was embarrassed to refuse, so he had to eat yabakui silently.

why is Xie Dan so strong and aggressive? Because there are three Xie Gu people, all of them are too honest. Fang Yinuo wants to abort her and Xie Tianhua's children, and Xie Gu dare not have opinions. Only Xie Dan dares to speak out. If there is no Xie Dan for the whole family, Xie Gu still doesn't know how to be bullied.

Xie Dan was forced to be a bad guy because her mother's family really couldn't help the wall. A good man like Xie Tianhua was extremely good, so he was extremely timid. He repeatedly made concessions from the other side, and he had no backbone and no temper. Fang Yinuo knew Xie Tianhua well and knew where his weakness was, so he dared to hurt Xie Tianhua unscrupulously.

Fang Yinuo filed for divorce with Xie Tianhua many times, just playing hard to get. If she really didn't want to drag Xie Tianhua down, she could be as determined as when she left Xiaolu, but she didn't. She was waiting for Xie Tianhua to lower the bottom line and tolerate her ethical behavior infinitely.

Xie Tianhua's personality makes Fang Yinuo feel practical, but Fang Yinuo will not fall in love with him. Xie Tianhua pays without expecting anything in return, and the other party is responsive. Fang Yinuo only relies on Xie Tianhua, but has no love.

Xie Tianhua, who is weak to the bone, is far less attractive than Xiao Lu, who has his own opinions. Even Fang Yinuo makes it, Xiao Lu dares to drink beer at home and watch the football game. In the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, Xiao Lu did not give up his principles for Fang Yinuo.

In terms of being a husband, Xie Tianhua is far more qualified than Xiao Lu. However, the hard reality is that "bad men" are often more likable than "good men".

A "good man" swallowed himself when he was wronged, while a "bad man" wouldn't bear it when he was wronged. How can a "good man" not leave, which makes women feel safe and has no freshness; "Bad men" are indecisive, not easy to get stuck, and more likely to arouse people's possessiveness.

Loving a person without a bottom line usually can't get equivalent love, but what you get through hardships is often the contempt and trampling of the other person. Xie Tianhua repeatedly gave up his principles and bottom line for Fang Yinuo, and was doomed to be hurt by Fang Yinuo.

No matter men or women, please love yourself before you love others. The essence of love is mutual attraction, not sacrifice and emotion. Kindness without edges and corners is actually weakness. From the moment when Xie Tianhua broke his promise, it predicted that he would be at a disadvantage in this marriage.

If Fang Yinuo had to do it again, she would still choose Xiao Lu instead of Xie Tianhua. This is the truth that Fang Yinuo doesn't want to keep Xie Tianhua's children.