He is stingy, perhaps because he thinks you are not worth it.

He was mean to you just to spend less money on sex with you.

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My friend Min Min broke up and came to me with a sad expression. He said indignantly, "A miser like him, I am blind. Who else will fall in love with him! "

I am puzzled and wronged between words. I put up with you being so mean to me, and you still look down on me? Which woman do you think will still like a stingy man like you?

But what I want to say is that he was mean to you, which means that he didn't like you from the beginning. If he finds someone he loves, he might as well give his heart to someone else.

In fact, from the beginning, I advised Min Min to think twice. You said that a girl as beautiful as flowers and pure as jade was cheated away by others, and I was sorry for my parents. There are many good men waiting in line to be pursued. Why do you want to wronged yourself and a miser who is reluctant to buy flowers?

You must feel incredible to hear this. Why not send flowers when you are in love? Send grass! Just a small pot of Adiantum, which died within a winter. For two years, the boy didn't slap the gift. In addition to the short-lived Adiantum, there are cups around 10 yuan, Jade Buddha that 200 yuan can't reach, and 500 yuan's mobile phone.

In fact, Min Min is a girl who pays great attention to the quality of life. She didn't like these gifts from her boyfriend at all, and she was embarrassed to refuse. She just took them lightly, thanked them casually, and then shelved them.

Birthday cards are always sent a few days in advance, which makes Min Min's little heart thump, and there is a kind of memorable happiness. Unfortunately, until the birthday passed, men still didn't talk or sing, as if they had completely forgotten. It turns out that an online greeting card for my girlfriend's birthday can be done.

They go out shopping together and always stand by the roadside. The best thing is to fry two dishes, a plate of bean curd skin and a plate of Chili bean curd brain. This is Min Min's least favorite dish. After they set off together, he said affectionately, shall we go out for dinner? Min Min got excited inexplicably, thinking that the miser was finally going to pluck his hair. However, after seven turns and eight turns, the car stopped at the riverside park. The man said thoughtfully, "how romantic it is that we watch the scenery while eating flat pancakes!" "

It's not that I haven't complained. Anyway, I want to love this person and don't want money. What do you care? Romance can't be eaten as food. Since you want to get married all your life, it's good to be alive!

She not only thinks so, but also thinks that the person is stupid to meet. She is afraid that he will be sorry for himself and will go to a famous shop to change his feet from head to toe every season. A wretched man who fell from the soil can hardly become a trendy man.

Even so, people broke up. Later, the man found a girlfriend, not only not stingy, but also extravagant. Not only did I order more than 999 roses for my new girlfriend, but I also took others to travel abroad romantically, eat and stay in high-end hotels.

It turns out that he is reluctant to spend money for you. It's not that he doesn't know romance, nor does he know life. He just doesn't think you deserve it. It's not worth his time and energy.

This is love. If you love, you can't wait to cut out your heart; If you don't love me, if you give me your heart, I feel suspicious.

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What's it like to find a boyfriend who can live? This girl has the most say.

My husband always makes a living. When he chased me, many people advised me not to promise, saying that this boy was Yan Jiansheng's near-reincarnation and stingy. Buy a pair of brand-name socks, for fear that people may not fold their trouser legs; When you go to a restaurant, you can polish people's plates with steamed bread. Always freeloading, looking clean, and so on.

They tried to convince me for nearly two hours, but I was moved by my husband's words. He said, even if I want a meal, I'll give you a bowl first.

In later life, although we didn't reach the point of begging, we had several years of difficulties. When is the poorest time? I have no money to give presents to my parents during the Spring Festival. I said, "Forget it, I won't send it, and it's not the time to be filial." But he gritted his teeth and said, "No, I have to. I can't let others look down on my wife! " "He didn't know where to borrow money, so he bought a car full of gifts and sent them there. Very beautiful.

In the eyes of others, I am an incompetent wife and have no intention of living. Even if I only have money for dinner, I still have to buy a dress, or I can't sleep. It's not my fault. I have lived like this since I was a child, and my family is fairly rich. I have never been short of money, and I have developed a willful and selfish character.

My husband's family is poor and used to living a hard life. He is usually frugal. In summer, I wear hundreds of thousands of clothes, and he wears dozens of T-shirts on the roadside. I never want to spend money on cosmetics, he only uses Dabao SOD honey; I buy health care products packaged, euphemistically saying that women should be "cruel" to themselves, and he never stops me.

In this way, my monthly salary can basically last until the end of the month. At this time, my husband's greatness appeared. He pushed the saved money to me and said generously, "Take it and spend it. Don't lose face in front of your friends! "

Once, a familiar male classmate said directly in front of me: fortunately, I didn't dare to chase you at that time, otherwise I really couldn't live. The husband said, "That's what I like about her. Why else would I make money? "

Look, this is a man's love. If he loves you, he thinks you are the best in the world, even if you are spoiled, arrogant and ruined. Even if you eat chaff and swallow vegetables, he will try his best to give you everything you want. Because I love you, everyone thinks he is in hot water, but in fact, his mind is full.

Of course, I have been studying hard to be a wife and a good mother who works hard at home. Although my husband never asked me what to do, I found my conscience and felt that I should make some contributions to the bright future of two people, and don't put all the burdens on him.

Now, I wear simple and generous clothes and no longer pursue famous brands; I insist on exercise and no longer rely on health care products; I bought him high-grade clothes to improve his taste in clothes.

We often do the same thing: we all leave the best things to each other.

For example, the clothes I bought for him are more expensive than those I bought for myself, because there are not many styles of men's wear, so we need to pay attention to quality. But he has always been very casual about himself, and the clothes he bought for me are all a thousand choices.

This is love! Because I love you, I would rather be wronged myself and give you the best. Even I don't feel wronged.

So, if a man is too timid to spend money for you, don't hesitate to leave him!

Don't listen to him. This is for your future. For the future, but his future doesn't necessarily include you. Every penny he saved on you was spent on the person he thought the future was worth it.

He was mean to you just to spend less money sleeping with you.