What do you need to prepare for engagement? Specifically, what are the customs in Nanjing?

Let's see the man's house first, have a meal and send some small gifts. That's settled. The man's family will get engaged and buy a ring or something, and that's settled.

Before getting married, the man will give a gift, and the two families will discuss what to buy and the woman's conditions. Finally, when they get married, both families have to hold a banquet and go Dutch. The man should give the woman farewell money, the woman should bring a box, and the old woman should open the box and give money to buy new shoes. That's about it.

Now everyone advocates a new wedding. A new model can be discussed, as long as both parents think it is ok.

I wish you happiness!