Which is more important, career or marriage?

I am 28 years old and have been in love with my boyfriend for three years. I'm ready to get my license. I was scheduled to plan the wedding at the end of the year.

I have a gift for writing since I was a child, and I have a strong interest in writing. Although I have always been gifted in this field, my academic performance is not good because of my partial study.

Although I have a dream of editing since I was a child, I know that it is difficult for me to get recognition in a cruel society, so I usually do my own work and sometimes submit my resume to magazines.

A few days ago, because my manuscript was repeatedly hired, the magazine invited me to an interview, and the interview went well. As an editor who has been thinking about this problem day and night, I feel very excited.

However, it was opposed by her boyfriend. The magazine made it clear that I would be very busy for a long time at first, and I also had a lot to learn. My boyfriend thinks that my current job is stable and my salary is good. Being busy getting married should not change like this. For this reason, the two of us disagreed and had a cold war for many days.

I finally got such a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity. I don't want to give up anyway. I want to extend my engagement, but I'm also worried. After all, I'm not young. I'm afraid he can't wait.

Hello, bean sprouts. First of all, congratulations on your recognition by the magazine. After all, your talent is not submerged in the crowd! But this opportunity came a little late, which caused you to worry at the moment.

Being able to do what you like is happiness that many people can't dream of, so I think you need to make a breakthrough on this road. After all, you missed this opportunity and lost the possibility that you could have changed your life. Although you really need to find a home at your age, you need a way to kill two birds with one stone when the two conflict.

The cold war can't solve any problems, it will only increase obstacles for both sides. I suggest you tell him what you think and let him know how eager you are to do this job. If he really loves you, he will support you. If he really decides to spend his life with you, he will be willing to wait.

Come to think of it, isn't it God who is testing the affection between you and him? As long as you cross this hurdle, I believe you will have a good career and love.