Why do they pretend to be "socialites" staying at the Bulgari Hotel?

There is an old Hong Kong movie from 1975 called "Diary of a Fishing Girl". Jin Yanling plays a young and beautiful girl who is determined to live a luxurious life. She hooks up with a wealthy businessman and asks him to buy a house and a golden house to hide his beauty, and then lures the wealthy businessman. The wife came to catch the adulterer and successfully took the bungalow as her own. Then he seduced the manager of the car dealership and asked him to deliver the car. He also met the owner of a jewelry company and arranged to get him drunk at a banquet in order to arrange a robbery of the jewelry store. After owning a luxury house, a luxury car, and jewelry, she fell into a scam and was defrauded by a scammer of all the property she had worked so hard to acquire.

The story of the vain girl is always being played out. The plots and results are similar, but the stories are always new. There is nothing shameful about realizing the desire to cross class. There is nothing wrong with devoting intelligence, sweat or youth to realize the desire. But what is interesting is that in order not to be accused of "worshiping money", these girls must set up a noble, native background for themselves. The character of a "socialite" who has a wealthy family, is well-educated, and has been accustomed to living a high-class life since she was a child.

Why? Because spectators always admire the strong and bully the weak, if a girl from a poor family gradually enters a wealthy family or reaches the pinnacle of life, it will inevitably be accompanied by countless ridicules, rumors, jealousy, and suppression. But if it is a girl with a "white, rich and beautiful" aura, the public is more tolerant, as if she can get a red envelope for speaking up.

The chairman’s wife, who got married not long ago, initially appeared as a city girl, a returnee from Kochi, and an elite investment banker. The crowd praised her for her perfect match of strength and love that beats age. Then it was quickly revealed that the wife was from a rural area and her academic qualifications were questionable. Several marriages and relationships achieved different stages of status promotion. The reputation changed instantly, with "scheming girl" and "Wendi Deng" "reaching the top through means", and all kinds of malicious intentions rolled out. Come.

In the past, there were many stories: a girl from a mountain village came to Shenzhen at the beginning of the reform and opening up. She had no education and no background, and relied on her beauty to make a living. I accidentally received a large inheritance from an old gentleman and quickly went ashore to start business. With her rich net worth and shrewd mind, she married into a wealthy family in Hong Kong and became a real socialite. At this time, her origin had become a "child of high-ranking officials in the Mainland". Who cares if it's true or false? The glamorous Vanity Fair is snobby to both the new and old money.

Therefore, it is better to produce "socialite" packaging sooner rather than later, especially in the entertainment industry. When Fairy Sister first debuted, she worked hard to create the character of a "little socialite princess", depicting her inherent good family background, overseas life, aristocratic education, and showing off her large manor, famous cars and dogs, just to convey that "acting is just a hobby." , she does not need to work hard to fight for opportunities like a young actor at the bottom, nor will she be distorted and blackened by fame and fortune in the process of climbing up. She is just a rich girl who is ignorant of the world and is as simple as crystal. She is relaxed and relaxed under the care of God. Song got what other actresses struggled to achieve all their lives.

This trick is very effective. Fan Bingbing and Zhang Hanyun, a civilian girl who also debuted at a young age, have made countless scandals along the way. Rumors and bad comments are enough to kill an ordinary person who is not strong enough. But when it comes to the fairy sister, the public is always loving and tolerant. "That actress slept in a basement and drifted out of the country. She will do whatever it takes to get a position." "It is muddy but not stained."

Although it was later discovered that all the princess packaging was like a dream, none of the famous cars in the manor belonged to her, and she had already changed to another mistress. The life experience was full of loopholes, which was sighing. My mother can only say "she is a good girl".

Why pretend to be a socialite? Because it is easier for rich people to gain trust.

If Wang Xiaohu from the village you know asks you to borrow 2,000 yuan, you will not necessarily borrow it, but if Wang Sicong asks you to borrow it, you will borrow it immediately, "Would such a rich person cheat me of 2,000 yuan? "This is the psychology of most people, and it is also the essence of pretending to be rich and cheating.

Let’s take a look at various fraud cases. If you appear as a poor man, no one will be fooled; but if you appear as "Chairman of the Supercar Club", "Cousin of Wang Sicong", "So-and-So Capital" "Founder" appears, if you are willing to spend money, rent a Ferrari, rent a Tomson brand, and hold a few parties; if the capital is limited, buy a set of materials to show off your wealth, post on WeChat, and show the boring and lonely things that ordinary people imagine. The rich live. There will always be people approaching you, and you will definitely be able to get money from these people who want to take advantage of you.

Why are so many Internet celebrities on Xiaohongshu and Douyin Kuaishou keen to show the lives of wealthy people? Today I am frustrated in an Aston Martin, tomorrow I will cry in a Rolls Royce, today I want to buy an 8,000 square meter villa, and tomorrow I will buy three or four Himalayas. First, he brainwashed the fans "I was born rich" and attracted envy. Then he lured the fans "Have you ever wanted to live such an exquisite life like me?" The fans were surprised, shy and excited, "Can I?", and received an affirmative answer: "Although Even if you are poor, you can still breathe the breath of the rich!" Then he sold all his high-quality imitation clothes, micro-business facial masks, and super-A bags to his fans, and he raised his hand. Since then, Internet celebrities have really started to make money.

Why is it necessary to create a "socialite" character who lives a sophisticated life and is wealthy in the marriage and love market? Because men are more snobby. Men also want to get more practical things that are beneficial to themselves from intimate relationships, not just sex and beauty. A female companion with an exquisite life may mean that her native family is good, she has a good financial foundation, she often goes to high-end places with her famous sisters, and she may also have strong connections and other resources. If you marry a woman with good conditions, firstly it will not put any burden on you, and secondly, it will help you to reach the top. Wouldn't it be wonderful? No one wants to cross their current class. Marriage and love are often the most convenient ladder. On this ladder, a man who is thoughtful and a woman who is calculating will meet. They go round and round, try their best, and it is difficult to decide whether they will win or lose.

Vanity is common to everyone, and it is not a sin. How can it be that the girl who bought a group purchase of Bulgari Hotel for 200 yuan and pretended to be a socialite should be blamed? When the entire jungle is worshiping power and wealth, in the end you will not be able to find a photo without a filter and a sincere heart.