How to prepare for the wedding bride price

1. What should be prepared for engagement? How much is the bride price?

Generally, it is normal for a woman's family to ask for a bride price, which is some auspicious figures, but if the amount is too much, it is a bit suspicious to sell her daughter. Let the parents meet and talk. Generally speaking, the banquet is for the man, and then the man wants to have a house. How much is this house worth? After giving the bride's parents the lucky numbers of 68888 in or 58888 in or 28888 as a bride price, the parents with better conditions will say that the appliances in the new house are the bride's dowry, and then they will sponsor the young couple to buy a car and post some money, and everything is good for the children. The woman will ask for a bigger banquet, but now many things are simple. The woman doesn't want any bride price or dowry, and the man doesn't.

2. What do the engaged parties need to prepare and what etiquette should be paid attention to

Najib: That is, the date chosen by the man is usually determined by asking the husband or someone who can read the book according to their eight characters.

rings: engagement rings are generally required, and couples should choose the right ring.

candy: here refers to the broad sense. There are several good brands of candy: Alpine, Yake, Hsu Fu Kee, Shanghai Woo Woo, etc. In the middle or at the beginning of the banquet, candy should be distributed to everyone according to the standard of two packages for one person.

Cigarettes: Generally, when going to relatives' homes, each household should be equipped with two packs of cigarettes. At the banquet, there are also two packages for one person, reflecting yes man. (For wedding banquets, since many of them are now free of gifts, one person will get a pack, because there will be no smoking when signing in.) If the cigarettes are red and seven wolves with hard shells, one person will get two packs of hard-shell Chinese. Cigarettes, bought in large quantities, are also going to wholesale tobacco hotels. Shop around and the prices will still be different, but we should prevent buying fake cigarettes.

Bridal price: Generally, this link should be completed at the time of engagement, or half at the time of engagement and half at the time of marriage. Now, the bride price is mainly a ceremony, not as the content of buying and selling marriage as in previous years. In the past, 33 thousand was popular in Chengguan, but now many towns and villages are over 1 thousand. The bride price needs to be given to the woman's home through the hand of the matchmaker or in front of the matchmaker. The reason why such a ceremony is needed is to reflect the matchmaker's words. Some newcomers now use bankbooks, but most of them still use cash, and sometimes they also contain gold objects (gold necklaces, earrings, bracelets, nuggets, other heirlooms, etc.) or gifts equivalent to the value of gold objects.

table pressing: it is synonymous with paying the woman to buy a banquet. Some enlightened people don't accept table pressing money now. Generally, it is an approximate amount paid in advance according to the approximate number of tables requested, such as 5 or 7 yuan.

Invitations: Generally, invitations are not sent, unless there are many people invited or they want to be formal. If the range of people invited for the engagement wine is set within the range of relatives, it is not necessary to send invitations, just inform everyone one week in advance.

Banquet: Generally, you should book in the hotel a few days in advance (the wedding banquet will be booked several months in advance, otherwise you may not be able to book it), pay some deposit first, and you can talk with the manager about the number of tables, private rooms, lobby, tables and chairs, air conditioning, dishes, drinks and other arrangements and discounts, and feel the performance of air conditioning in advance. In addition, when entertaining relatives living in the countryside, we must make sure that we have enough food. If we have lobster shark's fin and they are not full, we will not do it well.

3. How to send the wedding gift money

Wedding knowledge: Wedding gift money is important. 1. When guests send out cash, they often put it in the gift bag. Should they be counted when they receive it? If you don't take stock in time, will it cause confusion in the accounts? Counting cash in front of guests is naturally a rude action, but not counting it will also cause confusion in the final accounts.

the best way is for one person to collect the gift money, mark the guest's name on the red envelope when receiving it, and then hand it over to another person to take it to the lounge for inventory and entry. 2. If the guest gives a gift in the form of a cash check, should the check be placed together with the cash? Do you need to check the checks received at that time? Checks are small in size, and if they are mixed with a lot of cash, they are easy to be lost. Therefore, we should prepare a special bag for storing checks and store them separately from cash.

It's better to distinguish different kinds of checks once, so that it will be more convenient for newcomers to deal with them afterwards. When a check is received, the inspector can roughly check the details such as the head or signature on behalf of the newcomer, and whether the check can be cashed or left to the newcomer to go to the bank for processing afterwards is more appropriate.

3. If the guests send precious jewelry, they will usually choose to wear it directly for the couple, so it is not necessary to record and account for the jewelry gift? It is precisely because many guests like to put gold ornaments, jewelry and so on directly for newcomers to wear, so the income from jewelry is only 1 points, which is easy to be confused. Sometimes one or two things are missing carelessly, and the newcomers are completely ignorant, which wastes the guests' affection.

Therefore, in the process of receiving gifts, one person should clearly record the names of the guests, the types of gifts and the number of pieces next to 1, so as to make an inventory afterwards. That is, when the newcomers send thank-you cards in the future, they clearly mark the guests and gifts of thanks.

Although it is best for the recorder not to record in front of the guests, it is also very impolite. 4. What are the polite details to pay attention to when receiving gifts or gifts? Whether it is a newcomer's helper or a newcomer himself, there are some small details about politeness that need to be paid attention to when receiving gifts and gifts.

firstly, in front of the guests, don't inadvertently measure the thickness of the red envelope, which is impolite as counting the gift money in person; 2. When you find that the amount on the check is surprisingly small, don't look surprised. If you really suspect that the guest has filled it in incorrectly, you can ask the guest to confirm the check again by checking the signature or recognizing the handwriting. Third, when the size of the gift given by the guest is not suitable and it can't be worn on the spot, it is very impolite if the newcomer just says that it is not suitable and puts it next to 1.

In this situation, the couple can say in a humorous tone: I will take this as a family heirloom and give it to my future daughter when she gets married. In this way, both parties will be happier if they accept the gift.

4. Let's talk about how much bride price is needed to get married.

How much is appropriate for wedding bride price? The bride price is just a form. It varies from person to person. If the family condition is good, you should give more face. If the family is not so good, it will be about 1,. On the premise of having a house.

Generally, one place has one custom, and the bride price is different. Generally, they choose to give it to the woman's parents when they are engaged and both parents are present.

if you choose to get married without getting engaged, just give it at your convenience before you get married. As for the amount of bride price sent by the man's family to the woman's family, it depends on the requirements of the woman's family and the economic situation of the man's family.

In fact, the bride price money is just a form, and we can't measure our feelings by how much it is. Therefore, we can care about how much the bride price is generally appropriate, but don't care about how much the bride price is appropriate.

In fact, the amount of bride price is directly related to the parents of the daughter and the parents of the man. Therefore, we also see many parents, because of the wild price, resulting in the original loving couple broke up in discord.