What do you mean, send it?

"seeing a good son" simply means that the man sends a wedding day to the woman's home. That is, to send a good day and a good day.

In Xin 'an, "seeing off good children" is an interesting custom. In this custom, the two sides don't discuss each other too much in advance. The man's family thinks that the time is ripe for marriage and goes to his husband's house to choose a wedding date. Xin 'an people call it "keeping an eye on the son, and then giving it to the woman for approval, which is called" sending a good son ". Only then will the woman's family know that the man is rushing to get married.

Result:

Sometimes when the man is rude, the woman's family will return the post several times, so that the man has to ask the matchmaker to inquire about the situation and understand the woman's intention before going to "send the good son" again. In some areas of Xin 'an, there is also a custom that it is not appropriate to get married in those days if an old man dies in both families.

after the woman accepted the "good boy" sent by the man, some places still put a piece of fermented dough in return, hoping that the small family to be formed will make a fortune and live a better life. At this time, the man began to prepare for the marriage happily.