How to deal with the elderly at work? There is a wife at home who is still warm with another woman outside.

First, once a middle-aged man starts crying about his life's misfortunes, or has no feelings for his wife, his OS is, silly girl, I have a crush on you. Besides, silly girl, there is absolutely no way for me to get divorced.

Second, start throwing money at you. Delicious, fun and easy to use. The big deal is to have a few luxury brands, or take you on a trip and promise a lot of luxury goods. 99% of this man is chasing you.

Third, when these things happen, don't panic or be afraid. Keep a cool head at all times and know what the other person is most afraid of. If the other person is very direct, then hit the nail on the head and directly break his mind. Don't give the other person the illusion that there is still a chance, or trouble will follow you.

For example, my friend, Chun Jie. In fact, she is not the kind of person who wants to do anything with an old man, but she is in a trance. Give each other a chance when she is weak. First she texted, and then she got serious. Wait until the other person is serious, and then you refuse. To tell the truth, no one knows that you are difficult. Although it's not your fault, neither you nor I know how dangerous the people are. No one knows what it is, so why cover yourself with a false rumor. Some things can be stifled in the cradle without others knowing, digested by themselves, and even disposed of. Don't leave yourself any trouble.

First of all, tell a story of my friend, whose sword is not that powerful.

My friend is very beautiful, with a height of 165cm, less than 100 kg. It is estimated that he is only 90 kg now. The skin is super white, and the landlord has a black bottom, which looks like Sun Li. Home is a city between first-and second-tier cities in China.

We are classmates of graduate students. After graduation, I worked. She found a relationship and became an assistant to a teacher who returned to China, with a high academic status. She planned to take the PhD exam, so she became his assistant first, because our major was completely different from this teacher.

Ok, the background introduction is over. Now I'm going to talk about how this respectable teacher played an idea on my classmates.

The teacher was shocked when she saw my classmate. Then he often asks his classmates to drive to pick up his children and sons, both of whom are in primary school. LZ doesn't remember clearly. Then I started driving around with my classmates. Take her to the best private restaurant in that city for dinner. I think I learned this trick by watching Dwelling House. I ran to the most expensive building by the river and said, is this house good or not? I'll buy you one. I lent it to you. Pay me back when you have money. At that time, my friend was very greedy for the iphone3GS. Not long after he came out, he directly signed a contract machine for my friend, saying that he would reward her because my friend had completed a project.

In fact, her boss started with the most primitive skills of hooking up with little girls, such as money, house and car. I forgot to mention, and he asked my friend if he liked mini copper. Many vain girls, it is estimated that this time, the mind has begun to ripple.

But I want to say, to see clearly, in fact, he didn't give my friend much real things, just testing my friend. If he really wants to give a house and a car, he can just buy it. Keep asking my friend if he wants it. He's still fishing. Iphone, eating and things like that, to be honest, an academic expert with overseas background who has worked for so many years only has nine Niu Yi hairs.

Not to mention that my friend won't be his third, even if he meets someone who is willing to be his third, he will spend a little money to catch big fish. Young JMs, if such a man always attracts you with these things, be careful. This is already a naked hint.

But you think this man can only do this. Wrong bird. But this is really just the beginning. He was just testing. This method of touching girls' hearts with money is superficial and effortless at first. It is most convenient for people like them to spend a little money, eat and drink, and find a beautiful young girl to sleep with.

My friend is still very determined at this time, so the first move didn't work.

Then he began to use the second trick, touching people with emotion and atmosphere in different places. At first, this boss often complained to my friends that he and his wife had a bad relationship, and he must get a divorce when he comes back this time. I was in Sichuan on business when my friend told me. Hearing this, I just rolled my eyes. Brother, can you use something new? Another drama that has a bad relationship with the original. Can you be a little innovative?

At the same time, he began to take his friends on business trips. In the first week of studying in Sichuan, my friends have been to two places. This boss is too old-fashioned. He wants to take my friends on business trips and attend meetings, giving my friends a feeling that they will indulge some emotions when they leave their original environment, and at the same time satisfying the vanity of little girls who like to travel everywhere. Besides, this is a job, and my friend can't give up his job.

Finally, my friend began to be tempted. When the old man took her to Modu on business, he actually took her to a bar to play. Under the psychedelic effect of alcohol, they all went to French kiss. I was so worried. When my friend told me, I called her a mess. I'm really worried that she will fall for it and go to the point of no return. In other words, my friend had a boyfriend at that time, and the family conditions were quite good, and I was also very kind to my friends. I am really afraid that she will make a mistake because of the temptation of this boss.

Ok, the landlord continues, the end of the story is the bird.

Although my friend was confused for a while, his three views were quite correct. So under my close attention, she didn't do anything out of line, and after kissing, she has been avoiding his boss a little bit. In the end, his boss used the ultimate cheap trick-the bully is hard to bow. Of course, Amy is so cruel, otherwise she would have been in prison.

One night, maybe it was after 7 o'clock but less than 8 o'clock, my friend called me and said, "Honey, I'm so scared." I asked her what was wrong. She said that her boss was attending an academic conference in their city these days. Just now, she suddenly called my classmate and asked him to deliver the documents to his hotel. My friend thinks something is wrong. Call me quickly.

I told her not to go, but her father was cheated of his business and owed a lot of money, which is why she didn't go abroad. In fact, she has applied to a university in a European country before, and she will be a doctor after going out for six years. So she attaches great importance to this job and can't lose it. She said she had to deliver the documents, and then asked me what to do.

I panicked at that time, but I couldn't help it without her, otherwise I would have stayed with her. I told her that if the boss really wants to do something to her, he should stand firm and think clearly about his family and boyfriend, so he doesn't have to mix up. If her boss insists on something, she tells him that her boyfriend is waiting downstairs, and she tells him/kloc-come to see her in 0/5 minutes if he doesn't see anyone.

She is already downstairs in the hotel, so I asked her to call me as soon as she came out. And the mobile phone can record, but it really can't record and leave a certificate.

In this way, lz waited nervously for about ten minutes when a friend called. This boss is completely invincible. Really, it is invincible, but fortunately, nothing happened to my friend. Then my friend resigned decisively.

Haha, the landlord left a foreshadowing, cooked it and went out. Come back after dinner and tell you what happened in these ten minutes. It can only be said that this boss is really one of the less black in wsn. Dealing with such an old man, my friends are going to collapse. I really don't know what she should do in case something terrible happens.

Ok, just now the landlord's husband got up and got married. Hey hey. Claiming to be hungry, lz decided to cook for her husband. Now wait for the rice to be cooked. All right, landlord, continue to eight. Try to skin a wretched middle-aged man in the morning. I won't go out in the afternoon. Then contribute a more wonderful middle-aged wretched man.

After my friend went up, the boss asked my friend to sit down and said that it was too hot and I wanted to take a bath. After taking a shower, he will come out to discuss these documents to be used tomorrow. My friend's heart thumped. The man went in to take a bath. I took a shower and came out.

My friend smelled his perfume at that time. This fellow was really up to no good. He even sprayed perfume in the gap after taking a shower. My friend told me afterwards that it was probably a perfume containing lavender. This JM can be Baidu, and the perfume containing lavender seems to be helpful. We have friends who know fine chemical industry, and they have already told us. But we are not chemistry majors, so don't sit in the right place.

My friend was about to say something. He wants to leave the file and leave quickly. This man threw my classmate on the bed directly, and then said a lot of nonsense, as if he liked my friend very much. It was love at first sight, Barabara's. It's all nonsense anyway. Then start touching. My friend was scared to death.

But now middle-aged men, who have some status, generally don't really use strong, mainly being seduced. If they can't get on the hook, they basically give up Just looking for the next prey. Therefore, we must remember that we must overcome the idea of making mistakes psychologically, so that it is basically impossible to go wrong.

My friend was also anxious, so he said, a teacher, don't do this. I have always respected you. I have a boyfriend. My boyfriend is downstairs now. I was afraid I would do something irrational, so I told him about us, but I still hope we can be decent and not too embarrassed. If I don't go down in fifteen minutes, my boyfriend will come up to me. He knows your room number.

The boss got up at once and said that he really liked my friend and would not force her. He just can't help but want to hug her. Tell my friend not to worry too much, and then my friend ran out directly in the process of his nonsense. The above called me, and then found that I really couldn't do the job and resigned decisively.

My own personal experience

I've seen many of the best. All kinds, girls and boys. But before this wretched old man, he was a graduate student because the landlord was studying. I've been at school and haven't seen him much, so I basically only heard his voice, but I didn't see him.

Besides, the landlord is a foodie. Although my mother gave me a good foundation, the landlord himself was too greedy. He is happy to eat, sad to eat and stressed to eat. So she is basically a fat girl. Not many people are interested in the landlord. At most, your facial features are really good-looking. I've really heard too much of this comfort.

Before graduating from graduate school, the landlord was killed three times, the first boyfriend had a gorgeous affair, and the landlord also made him and the third child happy. Before that, the landlord's shrewd mother said that you should lose weight. I'd rather you broke up with your boyfriend because you became beautiful, and I don't want you to be dumped by him because you are fat one day and you can't bear it. My mother is a prophet. Once again, she was earnest, and my first love in five years changed from beautiful to unbearable. I also started to lose weight seriously.

At that time, I had just graduated, and it was difficult to find a job as a landlord. Anyway, I entered a private enterprise in a city in Fujian through contacts. At that time, the landlord just started to lose weight, with little effect, and the estimated weight was around 120. So it's not particularly boring. There are six girls who just came in. The beauty of the landlord is really average, so I was relieved at first.

We six girls are all graduate students, and they are all girls. At first, I thought they had found a relationship and entered this enterprise with me. It was a private enterprise and food. Our majors are different, and so are our departments. Some are in the Ministry of Manpower and some are in the Ministry of Trade. The landlord is studying science and engineering, and naturally he is in the technical department.

At that time, the landlord was determined to lose weight, so the effect was quite good. It is also with the landlord's weight loss effect becoming more and more obvious that the best people are gathered. Well, I stayed in this company in Fujian for a little more than half a year, but I met three of the best old people.

My uncle found the human resources director of the enterprise here through a friend. Of course, because all six of us are graduate students, boss interviewed him personally. The director of human resources gave me a good impression at first. Hubei people are lean. Generally, you don't go upstairs and downstairs by elevator, but climb stairs. So at first, I was cheated by this man who pretended to be a good man. Age, about 40 years old.

But this man is the best of the eight I want to drive and the worst of the three.

Because this man knows my uncle, I don't think he will come at me. In addition, the landlord was relatively fat before, and the girls in Fujian were very thin, basically skinny, but not tall and temperamental. So the landlord thinks that what he likes is not my type, but the super thin one. Landlord 165cm. I have been in the company for about a month, and I have lost 1 18 kg. It looks fleshy, but not the fat one.

Let's start with the landlord himself. My former classmate in Grade 8 belongs to the kind of girl who looks pure, really likes Sun Li, and her personality also belongs to a particularly lovely girl. After the landlord lost weight, many people even said that the landlord looks like Zhang Xinyi. Especially when she let her hair down, so when it was popular in Northern Ireland, many people said how I looked like Lin Xia. The landlord himself feels pretty after losing weight, and he can get 80 points. So with the landlord's pace of losing weight, Acura really came to the landlord's trouble.

Ok, Uncle Ya doesn't like what the landlord praised, so just swallow it. This human resources director suddenly called me one afternoon when he was leaving work, saying that he would take me out for dinner in the evening. I was surprised and thought there would be no problem. Then I came out of the workshop to the door of the company building. I am still familiar with the whole production situation in the workshop in the first month, and I can only go to work in the technical department in the second month.

I was going to find an excuse to push it off. As a result, I saw that the engineer invited by the technical department was also in the car, and the driver was a small manager from another department of the unit. I thought this human resources director was creating opportunities for me to get to know technicians and get familiar with them as soon as possible, but I was still embarrassed to doubt him myself. Then I got on the bus.

As a result, the small manager sent the female engineer to the door of the hotel, and the female engineer actually said goodbye to us. I was confused at that time. Then listening to their conversation, the human resources director dragged me out with a car. The little manager also went home. What's going on here? I felt terrible at that time.

I hadn't gone out to visit the city at that time. I live in the company dormitory, in the industrial park of this city. Very remote, basically don't want to go out. I don't feel safe. This is my first time out of the enterprise. I was actually a little scared at the time.

Then the little manager seemed to drive to a place, and the ghost man asked me to get off, so I got off silently. Anyway, I was confident at that time. If he dares, I will call my uncle's friend. There are armed police and policemen, and I am not so afraid of him.

Fortunately, Acura took me to the shop of one of his female villagers. After walking for a few minutes, Acura began to talk. Said he arranged a job for me, and my uncle didn't even know to invite him to dinner, saying that no one in this enterprise could help me, only he could help me. What? As long as I can take his advice, I can buy my own house in this city in three years. At that time, I really thought this person was disgusting and of low quality.

Who are you kidding? This is a private enterprise. You are also a wage earner. How much power do you think you have? You don't have your own house, but you can help others make money to buy a house. You think I'm a fool, never seen the world, never seen a rich man. At the same time, I regret my brain congestion. Why did you come to such a place where birds don't lay eggs?

Then, with his constant boasting and numerous criticisms in the landlord's head, we came to this ghost woman's shop. A shop selling instruments for purifying water. Then he is Barabara, so he brought me here to show off. My uncle has a friend who is awesome in this city, and I have never met that person. I guess my uncle just knows someone else.

My uncle's friend runs a five-star hotel, which is not small in Fujian, so I won't say the name. He asked me to help his female friend sell the water purifier to my uncle's friend. Fool that woman into being silly and happy. Doctor of medicine. You pick up girls and bring me to show off. Go to hell, Jr.

Come on, JMS, I type so fast. I am still a real landlord. The length of each paragraph is quite large, just to make everyone look smoother.

After that, the two of them waited for a friend and then dragged me to dinner. I have been walking with that girl. I guess this woman can't keep in touch with him because she wants to sell things, but she still seems to be a good woman. I can't help it, life is hard, and she can only come clean with such people.

When I went to dinner, I heard this gourmet boasting about himself. There is nothing he can't do in this city. You think you are the mayor. There are many billionaires and many awesome people in this city. You're not afraid to choke yourself.

Another person, after listening to their words, I had a clear idea. That man wants to contract our company's canteen, because the company doesn't charge their contract fee, so there is no rent, and even water and electricity bills don't have to be paid, which is basically real money. So that person also wants the best.

Anyway, I was thinking about how to save myself in the future, while eating one build what did not build.

Finally, after dinner, his two fellow villagers dispersed. At this time, I directly told him that I was going back to the enterprise. I'm a stranger here. I don't want to stay out too late.

At this time, his nightlife had just begun, and before I could answer, there was a phone call for him. Halfway through, I stood on the side of the road like an idiot, waiting for him to finish the phone call. After all, I have just left the society and I am still a little young. I can't leave my face. If I say hello now, I will leave at once.

The gourmet finally hung up and was about to say something to me when he got another call. It seems that the vice president of a well-known domestic food company called him and booked a box in KTV. Then Acura began to say on the phone, Oh, there are several graduate students in our company, all of whom are very beautiful. I'll bring her over later, so everyone can meet her. My heart thumped at that time.

Hanging up the phone, Acura began to show his shameless side. He said that it's no big deal to go to graduate school. It's just that if you have multiple degrees, you may not be able to get along in the professional field. It is better to know more talents. Don't worry, big brother is not chasing you. I don't like a fat girl like you. I just think that girl is nice and wants to take care of you.

This man is simply the best. He not only played tricks on me himself, but also planned to take me out to help him provoke those big companies. Damn it, what do you think I am? Bitch!

I was blue in the face at that time, and said bluntly, I'm not going to sing K. I don't have that obligation. I don't want to know so many people, so I just do my technical work honestly.

He said, Oh, girl, you are so stubborn. The salary here is definitely not as high as there. If you were more valued there, wouldn't you have worked better in the past? Besides, eldest brother likes you so much that he won't care about you. You just have to trust me. Really, there is nothing my brother can't do.

At this time, I was completely speechless. This is the most shameless middle-aged man I have ever seen. I'm already sad. I told you, I'm not going. I want to go back. But still gave him face, did not find him, but underestimated his best level.

He said, all right. Don't go, don't go. Take a taxi back. Anyway, this is the key to my dormitory, and eldest brother has no requirements for you. I am a man, and I can't take care of my life. It's still early, please help me wash some smelly clothes. You can help me wash clothes or something in the future, and my brother will take care of you. You still want to grab my hand at this time.

I feel dizzy. This is the best person I have ever met. I was very angry. With a cold face, he threw off his hand and fell straight over. "You don't go too far. I'm not here to do your laundry. If you bully me again, I'll report the chairman. You asked me if I wanted to work in the company, and you wanted to take me to see the vice president. Anyway, I came out today and someone saw me. Not at all. "

After that, I was afraid that he would hit me or something, so I ran away directly. Later, I took a taxi back to the company. Of course, Acura harassed me several times later, but it was nothing compared with this time when I was asked to wash clothes, and there was a reason to say this Acura at first.

This food is the most direct and shameless. Don't talk nonsense if sisters meet such low-quality ones. If he doesn't understand, tell him that he is hopeless. To hell with him. Otherwise, people with short heads may really do something very despicable. This incident is also a terrible thing for the landlord afterwards, and of course it is also very disgusting. I feel horrible. This kind of person just tells him to go to shit and let him go, which is effective. You are easy to suffer when you are weak.

Before I meet two other middle-aged men, I want to interrupt a colleague I found while working in this enterprise. This incident also made me really see the darkness of this society.

After the first month, I officially went to work in the technical department. Because the former technology minister and the chairman had a bad relationship and did not obey each other, the big boss let him go. So now the technical department is the quality control minister, and the technical department is basically an empty shell, leaving a 20-year-old secondary school girl who can handle the samples of goods ordered by foreign trade. Basically, it is just to change the contents of flavors and additives and the brand name in the original formula table.

But this little girl has a flexible brain, and I quite like her. We are often bored together when we are free. The child is very clever, but I usually like to play dumb in front of the company. After all, I just came here and didn't know the strong relationship between them. It's better to talk less and make fewer mistakes, listen more and do more.

There are only two of us in the office. I feel that she 17 years old graduated and came out to work. The girl who has worked for several years is really mature and can communicate some things, but she still has the innocence of a 20-year-old girl and no talent. And the five graduate students who joined me, I don't know why, but I can't communicate, so I don't have much contact. One of them is stupid and annoying among girls. When the landlord waits for the third time, he will drop by that colleague and provide a negative textbook for everyone.

This little girl always tells me about her boyfriend, where to take her to dinner and who to meet. There will also be some words about how Sister K went too far. I began to doubt it at that time. If this little girl has a boyfriend of the same age, it is impossible to take her to KTV and other consumer places all the time unless she is a rich second generation or in business. This is not the popular KTV we are talking about, but all the super-large boxes and places with a lot of K girls. Lz really doesn't like all kinds of debauchery, but there will always be one or two times a year when there is no way out. Hey, I'll tell you more about me when I finish this.

However, the landlord later taught himself not to think too much about others. He may just have made an older boyfriend who frequented this place in business.

It's a picture of the little girl and a 40-year-old man, and it's obviously before and after sex. Although it is only a photo above the chest, a photo of two people hugging each other above the bare chest, the relationship between the two people should be self-evident. This man, I really know him. Do you know who he is?

This man knows. This little girl told me. I remember when we were eating in the canteen, a middle-aged man passed by, and the little girl told me with a blank face that the middle-aged man was the nephew of the chairman. All right. Actually, he is the chairman's nephew.

The middle-aged man's sister, the vice minister of production, is quite familiar with me. At that time, I looked at the computer and was stupid. After the reaction, she immediately turned off the computer, thinking that the child was so ignorant. The chairman's nephew is married, and the child is almost ten years old.

It's been a long time. Every time the landlord chats with this little girl, there are countless ants crawling inside. Actually, I like this girl very much. She is really a good child, thin and small. She looks particularly like Tong Liya, and the similarity is over 70%. She is also a very beautiful girl. If she is in college, she should be a class flower, a class flower. No problem. I feel good about my personality, so I don't pretend.

After a long time, after I left the company, I finally couldn't help telling the truth to this girl, saying that I saw it and told her to delete the photo quickly. If anyone sees her, she will be finished. She is only 20 years old, and her life has just begun. She can't afford such a risk.

She also took my advice and told me that they had broken up, which was the last thing in her life. 17 years old, alas, yes, when we 17 years old, we were also ignorant, but we were protected by our parents and did not enter the society prematurely. However, this child, the concept that Minnan people prefer sons to daughters is quite common. There are two in their family, and her parents care more about her brother than life. How can she persist in studying? As long as you have a diploma, you can find a job and supplement your family. 17 years old, stupidly cheated by a man in his 40 s who can be her father.

Although sensible, decisively separated, but I think this shadow, the little girl still has. So, really, JM, if I am a completely honest person, I still hope that these things I wrote can help some little sisters. As for myself, it is another matter to be a moth to the fire and run for money.