What kind of happy life do you want in this era of repeated epidemics?

This Spring Festival is so short and this Spring Festival is so long.

This Spring Festival, when more than one billion people sat around the dinner table to watch a Spring Festival Gala, everything changed.

This Spring Festival, the most important festival in China, has been forgotten by China people themselves.

This Spring Festival, the whole world knows what China people are doing.

"House", a slightly derogatory action, has become the "standard" for most people in the Spring Festival of 2020, with positive energy "value".

The epidemic prevention and control is within reach, and the "pause" instruction is pressed. Changed the pace of society, changed the state of the country, and changed everyone's life, everything we know.

As Liu said at the beginning of The Wandering Earth: At first, no one cared about the disaster. It was just a mountain fire, a drought, the extinction of a species and the disappearance of a city. Until this disaster is closely related to everyone.

During this "home" period, you must know, know, be sad, tearful, moved, excited, cheering, helpless, complaining, resentful and cursing about the overall pattern of the world, the rescue action of the whole society and the unified mobilization of the party. In this epidemic, I think everyone's heart is like riding a roller coaster, ups and downs.

Because this epidemic has affected your normal life, your normal income, your normal social life and everything that you should be normal.

So, I wonder if it has affected your thoughts, your view of the world, and your choice of life?

I briefly extract a few words and things that have been forwarded many times in this epidemic:

It's finally time to sleep at home and make contributions to the country.

My previous dream was to live like a pig. I ate, slept and ate, but I didn't expect that after only a few days, I couldn't stand it. Being a pig is actually uncomfortable.

In the WeChat circle of friends, how many melon seeds, pitaya seeds, strawberry seeds, rice grains, raisins and a catty of sugar are boring? ......

Eat and sleep to exchange positive energy, play games to show off achievements, verify the gravity of the earth with a broom and send oranges. ......

I don't think everyone has done it. It is estimated that most people see such a WeChat just to make people happy and relieve their boredom.

But why boring? Have you ever thought about it? I asked many people what they were doing at home. Some people say watching TV, others say playing games. The most common answer is: I ate and slept, slept and ate, and gained a few pounds.

Jin, more than ten Jin.

How can such days not be boring?

Second,

I don't know how many people have thought:

The previous days were too perfunctory, too careless, and the work was too passionless and unmotivated. I don't know how many people make up their minds at home: I will work hard and live a responsible and attitude life in the future.

I don't know how many people have thought of what Paul Cochakin said: A person's life should be spent like this: looking back, he will not regret wasting his time, nor will he be ashamed of doing nothing.

I believe that when the world stops and is quiet, many people think so.

I believe: when you have spent another boring day and are sleepy in bed, many people think so.

Because this is the truest voice in your heart.

Yes, you did. Then I picked up my mobile phone and turned on Tik Tok, Aauto Quicker, TV series and favorite games ... until I felt sleepy and my mobile phone slipped out of my hand.

Day by day passed.

Because you don't belong to Hubei, Wuhan, other epidemic areas, or one of those figures published on TV every day. Except them, you are the majority. Although you are locked at home by the haze of the virus, you just wear it at home, belonging to the lucky majority.

In this epidemic, you have not experienced your own life and death moment, nor have you faced the sudden and unforgettable blow of this epidemic. You can't put yourself in the position to understand the cruelty of this epidemic.

So, day after day, it passed again.

Yes, we are very lucky this time. However, who can guarantee that next time, next time, we will always be lucky?

By that time, can you pay for what you are doing now and for yourself at that time? Will you lie in your hospital bed and think of your inner voice again?

It is estimated that there will be no chance to think or do anything at that time.

Third,

The impact of the disaster is everywhere.

There is an old saying: under the nest, there are no eggs.

Fang Fang, a writer, said: The dust of an era falls on an individual's head and is a mountain.

Yesterday, I called my cousin in my hometown of Hubei. Her father's condition relapsed after lung cancer surgery. Because of the epidemic, the community is not allowed to go out; Because of the epidemic, hospital beds are extremely tight. The whole family rushed around for a few days, finally got the exit card, found a bed, and sent their dying father to the hospital for rescue. The doctor said that the success rate of reoperation was 50%.

But she said: fortunately, I finally sent my father to the hospital.

Her tone is very comforting. I was in tears.

At this time, even sending the dying father to the hospital has become "good news."

I can't imagine her anxiety about her father's illness, and I can't imagine her family staying with her in the hospital, worried about being infected by the virus.

Although it is not directly related to COVID-19, I believe her understanding of the epidemic is definitely much deeper than that of me and most people.

But it will not be more profound than those who died of pneumonia directly caused by COVID-19 and their families.

And I am thousands of miles away, I can only comfort her a few words, and I can only pray silently for the health and safety of all my relatives.

That's all.

This is the difference between insiders and outsiders, and also the difference between parties and bystanders.

Fourth,

I've been thinking about what kind of life I want recently. In fact, I have thought about this question many times.

Many people have thought about it, many times.

Everyone has his own answer, which is different.

But basically, most people will find sadly how difficult it is to realize their ideal life and dreams.

Compared with their own reality, there is a world of difference.

Because people's desires are too great, people's hearts are too complicated, and human nature is not satisfied. And society is very realistic and cruel.

The ideal is full and the reality is skinny.

As a result, a few people chose a breakthrough and succeeded, turning pupae into butterflies; Failure is irreversible.

As a result, most people can only lower their standards for ideal life again and again and try to adapt to the real environment.

Me too.

Finally, it comes down to the final and bottom-line self-torture:

"How can we gain a foothold in society?"

There are too many answers to this question.

Chicken soup said: You see, people who are better than you are still working hard. Aren't you in a hurry?

But soon, the poisonous chicken soup will retort: you see, people who are stronger than you are still working hard. What's the use of your efforts?

You say to yourself: after the epidemic, I must work hard and live a good life, and I can't lose my youth again.

But someone immediately said: The first thing after the epidemic, we must go shopping, from 10 am to 10 pm! Swimming, fishing in the sea, adding meals, steak, chatting with friends and watching movies. Of course, the game needs to be put aside first, because most people have vomited during this Spring Festival holiday.

You know what's right, but it's hard to do it. I find it difficult, too.

You know what is wrong, but just thinking about it makes you feel good.

So, just wait for the epidemic to pass day by day.

Because the pursuit of a comfortable life is also one of human nature.

Because people are always good at remembering happiness and forgetting suffering.

Five,

In addition to life and death, this epidemic has put forward the most cruel realistic torture for many people.

What do you need? Don't you need anything?

The facts clearly prove the answer.

You need: good health, three meals a day, shelter from the wind and rain, a job with a stable income (not muddling along), and some savings to cope with risks.

In this way, in the face of disaster, you can live and live.

What you need: a group of caring relatives and a few intimate friends.

In this way, you can live comfortably in the face of difficulties.

You need: attitude of self-improvement, hobby of reading and studying, habit of keeping house diligently, calm mind, open-minded and cheerful personality, noble and elegant realm, unique and self-reliant soul. ......

In this way, in the face of pain, you can live a quiet and happy life.

Of course, I don't want to educate anyone. I can't do it myself, let alone ask everyone to do it.

In the face of this epidemic, like most people, I found that when I stood at the window and looked at the empty and unusually quiet streets, those bustling lights seemed unnecessary; Those useless social parties, dinners, wine parties, and cards for calling friends seem unnecessary; When you don't have to wash your face, you can end your day by wearing a household dress and a pair of slippers. Those brand-name clothes, shoes, bags and cosmetics don't seem to be needed. Back pain in sleep, cramps in playing games, vomiting after playing drama, small fresh meat, fairies, and so on, which are usually considered extremely important, are no longer important at this moment.

Chatting happily with parents at home, making a handicraft with children, drawing a handwritten newspaper, taking a mask out to throw garbage, carrying a bucket of pure water, buying a dish, insisting on chatting with the control personnel at the gate of the community in the cold wind and saying "hard work" are all more important than these.

Because this is the most unpretentious life.

This epidemic is a disaster and gives us a chance to change our minds.

Six,

As an old employee who has worked in a state-owned enterprise for decades, he is usually busy, and at the end of the year, all kinds of summaries, plans, assessments and meetings are busier.

Especially at the end of 20 19, I received several particularly important tasks. I haven't been home for more than two months, and my working hours are not enough. Working overtime until two or three in the morning every day is like fighting a war, and sometimes I feel miserable. At that time, I thought, when I go home for the New Year, I must have a good sleep, play for a few days and relax.

But after staying at home for a few days, I feel that those busy days are really good.

Not melodramatic, not trying to show merit, but a true state of mind.

Because every day is full. Because in retrospect, I am happy that I have worked hard for those jobs and achieved a little success.

Therefore, with this mentality, we will have a brand-new feeling when we look at those people who have been fighting silently for the national epidemic prevention and control in Hubei and Wuhan, those people who can't work shifts and take vacations because of the epidemic, those people who have been sticking to their jobs, and those pioneers, charities and volunteers in party member.

Every victim is great and touched!

Every struggler is great and admirable!

Every worker is great and admirable!

Every devotee is great and magical!

But what I want to express is that their hearts should be very satisfied, full and happy!

I remembered a sentence in Soldier Assault: Because they live a meaningful life!

A meaningful life and a meaningful job is a meaningful life.

What is meaningful is life, which should be the life we want most.

Seven,

Although there are fewer and fewer new confirmed and suspected cases released every day, the total number is still increasing. Because I know that this is not a simple number, this is a living person, this is a family dragged into suffering by the virus. As a native of Hubei, I actually can't bear to shout "Come on" to Hubei and Wuhan.

After all, I am thousands of miles away from you in Shaanxi, and all I can do is do my own thing.

The other day, the country asked me to stay at home, so I stayed at home without making trouble. Now, after returning to work, I will try to do some trivial things compared with the front-line personnel fighting the "epidemic".

But I still want to say: Come on Wuhan, come on Hubei! Come on, China!

I think this sentence is really the voice of the vast majority of China people!

As for the "clowns" exposed in this epidemic, I personally think that many people are not from China. Some people are not even qualified to be human. )

Eight,

Finally, I'd like to quote a few famous words from "War Epidemics" again:

1. There are no heroes who fall from the sky, only mortals who come forward.

China people are always well protected by the bravest among them.

Our best time is now.

Born in the world, there are "three don't laugh": don't laugh at natural disasters, don't laugh at man-made disasters, and don't laugh at diseases. Being a man has "three evils": a teacher who educates people, a doctor who saves people, and an army who protects the family.

5. Every ordinary breath is the grace of life.

6. Wuhan is a very heroic city and China is a very heroic country.

7. We praise courage because human beings always choose to do what we should do when they know the risks.

Although the epidemic we are facing is very serious, all kinds of disasters will still happen. Despite all kinds of lies and discordant voices, although very few people played a very disgraceful role in this epidemic.

But I firmly believe that we can win this battle.

Because we are connected by blood, because we have the tradition of "one side is in trouble and all sides support".

Because as you can see, we have the best system in the world, which can make more than one billion people stay at home at once.

As you can see, many people have made an oath of "no matter life or death, no pay" and pressed their bright red handprints.

Because as you can see, there are still many people who are exhausted and sacrificed in their posts.

Because we have a great party, a great country, a great army and a great people behind us.

Because we live in a great country and a great era.