If possible, would you choose a rural wedding or a hotel wedding?

on October 1st, 221, I got married. On this day of national celebration, I have completed my own life events. Looking back now, full of memories is sweet. Get to the point, share some of my meager experiences and feelings.

which would you choose, a rural wedding or a hotel wedding?

I'm sure many people will choose a hotel wedding. At least there is no need to worry about the hotel wedding, the layout of the venue and the banquet, and the ceremony atmosphere will be beautiful and romantic. Yes, that's true. Judging from the overall impression that I have attended three weddings, hotel weddings have a more ceremonial atmosphere than rural weddings. Whether it's gorgeous lights, beautiful stage or the endless wedding March, it's beautiful. Every bride will fantasize that she is on a romantic stage covered with flowers in the spotlight and say I do to the groom in a handsome suit; Every groom also wants to give his most beloved and beautiful bride, witnessed by relatives and friends. Put a ring for the bride on the wedding stage. Yes, I have had such a fantasy. Whether you are an extrovert or an introvert, on that day, you are the only protagonist. In life, I am an introverted person. On that day, I became the protagonist, but not in the hotel, in the countryside of my hometown.

when planning the wedding, we are also discussing whether to hold the wedding in the hotel or in our hometown. I want to do it in a hotel. The wedding atmosphere in the hotel is more beautiful, and both the pictures taken and the recorded videos are very beautiful. But my parents said it would be held in a hotel, and few people came to attend. The elders in the village, such as the elderly and the busy uncles and aunts, can't come. Stubborn, every time I discuss these things with my parents, I always quarrel without saying a few words. In April, we just started talking about marriage, and both parties are doing it directly in the hotel. In May, he said that considering the relatives and elders in the village, he wanted to hold it in the countryside, and there were not many relatives of the woman. Let's take the wedding place in his own village. Then in August, the woman disagreed, saying that no marriage was in the man's house. Later, it finally became that the man did it in the countryside and the woman did it in the hotel.

I thought that weddings in rural areas would be inferior to hotel weddings after all. I didn't expect that when I really want to do things well, everything will not be disappointed. During the wedding in October, I began to make all kinds of pre-marital preparation plans for my rural wedding in August, combined with the house structure and geographical location of my hometown, what to buy and how to arrange it. At the beginning of September, many things are bought in advance, and it is recommended to buy them in advance, because you don't know the logistics speed. Some logistics may take seven or eight days. In case of damage, leakage, return and exchange, this time line will be extended to half a month.

I have to get up early in the morning on my wedding day, finish all kinds of chores arranged by my elders, and go out early to meet my relatives. The home layout has been almost completed, and the rest of the trivial arrangements have been explained in advance. Everything is as you wish, and you have successfully and orderly completed the entry and brought back the bride. Before marriage, I have also simulated and imagined countless times, and the road and scenes that I came back to meet my relatives. Get off the bus from the bride, and the entrance to the village is 136 meters away from the door. There is an oversized red air arch with the names of the bride and groom hanging at the entrance, and a classical welcome card for the wedding banquet of Fengfu is written. It is covered with a long red carpet of "Forever Knot Together" and "We are Married", decorated with gems Le Ballon Rouge hanging several meters apart on both sides, and salutes are played on both sides every two steps, holding the bride's hand and walking into the house. Although this picture has been simulated many times, when everything becomes a reality, it is worthwhile to give yourself a shock and a touch. You wouldn't expect that the red carpet is surrounded by relatives who meet relatives, friends who are full of blessings, relatives who haven't seen for a long time, and a group of chattering children on holiday. Everything is so festive, lively and beautiful. The pink background wall in front of our house, with the arrangement of flowers, led by European roads and witnessed by many relatives and friends, completed our wedding. Looking back now, at that time, I really spent a lot of thoughts and often asked my married friends what to buy, what to worry about, what tools to use, and what is more suitable. Everything is what I want to give the bride and give myself the most satisfactory answer in this rural wedding. In fact, when you are prepared and have worked hard for it, the result will not be too bad. When a friend's wife complained to her friend, this wedding is really beautiful. Look at you, it was never so beautiful for me before. I secretly smiled in my heart. Isn't that what I want? Behind the unknown, I bought one wedding candy box after another to compare, ate one wedding candy box after another, and then selected it into the pre-order list. Many platforms compared it, and chose a beautiful and suitable red carpet, changed and changed welcome cards, colorful lanterns fluttering in the wind, beautiful but complicated flower-pulling decorations and so on. By that day, all the hard work will be worth it.

at the moment of marriage, the hotel wedding that I miss is no longer important. Rural weddings can also be very beautiful. When the mood comes, no matter what the process is, the ending is you, and nothing else matters.