Essay on the Transmission and Continuation of Love

On the evening of 201510, my family of five drove to Hefei to attend the wedding of my little sister and daughter the next day. At half past six in the afternoon, we arrived at West Lake International Plaza, Huaining Road, Hefei Administrative District, where a room full of guests were waiting for our guests. Dining in the "Zhangjia Kitchen" near the community that night, the arrival of the big uncle family naturally made the uncles and aunts happy and the dinner was very lively. Some strange "relatives" met, shook hands, exchanged pleasantries and clinked glasses, which made them feel interesting and brought them closer at once. It was also a "rehearsal" for the wedding reception the next day. That night, they lived in Super 8, not far from the community.

It's late at night, and I'm thinking about how to harvest this "wedding trip" I remember I attended a rural wedding in Pingshan County, Hebei Province, where the eldest sister of "Han Mei Ao Xue" lived. The unique scenery and lively scenes are still fresh in my memory. Of course, I am no stranger to urban wedding scenes, but it is the first time to explore the situation in my mind and trace the original meaning of "love and marriage".

The world is dazzling, but no matter how colorful and changeable it is, it will always return to nature. Perhaps this is "the reincarnation of yin and yang, the inheritance of incense." As far as human beings are concerned, there are only two kinds of people in this world, men and women. The creator portrayed subtle similarities and differences, endowed men and women with yin and yang instinct, reached a perfect artistic conception, and interpreted the story of love and hate. The earth is full of vitality because of them, the world is rich and colorful because of them, and the universe is no longer endless because of them. Leaving endless life continuity is the original intention of "love and marriage". If this is a poem, it is the eye of the poem.

According to the master's arrangement. Wedding agenda 65438 10: 30 on October 24th 65438. The makeup artist auditioned for the bride in advance and the photographer auditioned for three shots. Soon, four bridesmaids came to my niece's boudoir, and five golden flowers were in full bloom. The bride's beautiful face, jade-white wedding dress and bright smile are reflected in the bridesmaid's pink skirt and happy laughter.

The time is fixed at 1: 50 pm. Someone knocked at the bride's front door. The groom and his maid of honor "called the number" outside the door. "How can you go out so smoothly?" The woman's family organized a team to "fight the number" inside the door, so the game of "asking for a bride price" left the "travel fee" and began in the eyes of the cat at the door. Five yuan. "Financial resources are limited, but impatience lasts a long time." At about 2: 08, driven by compassion, the bride's family "let go of Tongguan" and "let them in". The groom bears the brunt, holding 99 roses, and four bridesmaids crowded at the bride's door and went straight to the bride's boudoir. Although there are four bridesmaids, they can't stand the temptation of "power" of bridesmaids.

The "ceremony" of the bride's marriage is civilized, funny and enthusiastic in the bride's boudoir. The "puzzles" designed by bridesmaids revolve around the theme of "love" and make the groom answer the universal topics of "why, how and what to love". In fact, it is rare to find a clever groom who is sincere, sincere and sincere. Colorful balloons flying, unique wedding books, lip prints painted with lipstick, kissing in full view, brain teasers for guessing, and all kinds of tricks for renovation should be seamless. Is it culture? Is it entertainment? Is it a love story? Is it a game? Both, none. Lively, happy, cheerful and happy are the real themes.

At 2: 28 pm, the groom formally married the bride, walked out of the boudoir and came to the living room. Two grandfathers were sitting on the sofa, one was a 90-year-old grandmother, and the other was an 84-year-old grandmother, waiting for the grandchildren's "farewell" with smiles on their faces, followed by the "farewell" with the bride's parents. Of course, they were also "worshipping one and worshipping two". At the moment they went out on the spot, the bride and daughter hugged each other tightly, tears fell beside them, and joy and pity were intertwined. Let the loved ones around you be deeply infected and feel embarrassed.

At 2: 38, there were 40,000 rings at the top of the building and 40,000 rings at the bottom of the building, informing relatives and friends that the groom had "married" the bride, and six beautiful black wedding cars drove out of the "West Lake Juniper Feiyun Garden". "Fireworks are sent to the bride in October, clouds and Fang Fei sing good luck, relatives and friends enjoy themselves and pray for the newlyweds to cross the ocean." The wedding float slowly cruised along Swan Lake in Hefei Administrative Region, heading for the groom's Yunta. A warm welcoming ceremony was held in Yunlou. Nature is "to open up a new world and love each other for life." May Iraq embrace a new life and advise you to join hands with little Tim. "

The wedding reception was held at the Tongqinglou Hotel in Hefei. When entering the corridor, six couples were celebrating together, and the banquet was held in different halls. It's really lively. My niece's wedding banquet hall is on the left, so she went into the corridor, registered first, and left Mo Bao. Stepping into the wedding banquet hall, I saw magnesium lights, flashing lights and spotlights lined up in turn, and more than 20 wine tables were placed under the chandelier in the hall, which was very imposing. The huge T-shaped table in the center of the hall is the "demonstration area" of the wedding ceremony, and one side of the foreground background is a well-designed pattern, which indicates the name of the bride and groom and the wedding time "+05.10005110106". Friends and relatives came to the scene one after another.

At 6: 58, the wedding host was the first to appear. He asked his relatives and friends to co-direct a comedy "Unveiling Marriage". "Marriage" is a sacred title. When a man and a woman get to know each other, the joy of love sprouts in their hearts, and then they love each other until they are inseparable. Love is constantly sublimated in the "discharge" of your coming and going, and then gradually enters the stage of interdependence and dependence, so this "destiny takes a hand" is fixed in the form of a contract, which is "marriage". Throughout the ages, weddings are a kind of "anti-marriage" ceremony. Church weddings abroad, sedan chair weddings in ancient China, collective weddings in modern times, and various customs and feelings are all aimed at announcing to the world and gaining legal status.

The host's interpretation of marriage today is about "bride", which shows the transmission of love between two men. Facing the bride standing at the other end of the T-shaped platform, he said: "When your father walked into the marriage with your mother's arm, you existed. The first man's love you accepted in your life was' father's love'. When you grow up and need to get married, you accept the second one. He invited the bride's father and groom to take the stage and directed this short film simulating "the transmission of love". The wonderful interpretation caused warm applause from relatives and friends at the wedding scene. When the groom got down on one knee and put a "wedding ring" on the bride, thunderous applause broke out again.

In fact, marriage is not only between men and women, but also affects the hearts of four other people. In this sense, marriage is also the acquaintance and combination of two strange families. Children are the care of parents and a promising continuation of human beings. The transmission of incense is only a continuation in care, which is another meaning of marriage. The host invited both parents to the stage, and the six hands intertwined and communicated with each other, which made the six parties have mixed feelings and tears. The relatives and friends present witnessed this exciting scene. Yes, from now on, you need to think wholeheartedly and work wholeheartedly to make the two families * * * a new couple and make the "transmission and continuation of love" more powerful and poetic. The last six "sympathizers" raised their glasses, thanked relatives and friends for coming to the wedding scene, and wished everyone a happy mood, happiness and well-being. In the warm applause, the wedding banquet finally opened, and the harmony of bowls, chopsticks and vegetables pushed the wedding banquet to a climax.

The successful wedding in Hefei has undoubtedly increased the "width" and "length" of the couple's love, and their hearts are full of warmth and joy. On the third day, the couple returned to their parents' home and held a thank-you banquet for relatives and friends in Ree Hotel, Anqing. My brother-in-law delivered a thank-you speech on behalf of his family. "The Transmission and Continuation of Love" is like a melodious carol, excited in the banquet hall with laughter, like an angel's lullaby, echoing the wishes of relatives and friends for "having a baby early"!