Wang Xiaofei is no longer what she used to be. Does Big S regret it? How can one have both in life?

Foreword

On November 22, Da S and Wang Xiaofei, who had been rumored to be divorced for a long time, finally officially issued a divorce statement. At that time, everyone thought that the reasons for the divorce were basically unexplained. Open the following three:

First, Wang Xiaofei is an empty shell, known as the "Four Young Masters in Beijing". In fact, after the failure of South Beauty's listing, his family's assets have shrunk severely, and several business ventures have failed. , Big S, who was in trouble, wanted to buy a house to subsidize him.

Secondly, Wang Xiaofei is arrogant in her words. Because of the straight temperament of a Beijing man, Wang Xiaofei always says whatever comes to mind, which brings a lot of trouble to Big S.

Thirdly, the two have been separated in two places for a long time, and there are emotional problems.

No matter what the reason is, it is true that Wang Xiaofei has not made much money in the 11 years of marriage. Moreover, there are some posts about "wife and children are hot on the bed" every day on social platforms, which makes people think that he is Even Zhang Lan and Da S, two strong and capable people, couldn't support Adou, who couldn't help him. They were even more useless after the divorce. Everyone was waiting to see his jokes.

Unexpectedly, after the divorce, Wang Xiaofei did not sink as everyone imagined. Instead, she said uncharacteristically: "I will not respond to any personal questions in the future. I must do my job well and open the store well."

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Subsequently, Wang Xiaofei appeared at the ribbon-cutting ceremony for the opening of two new stores of "Ma Liu Ji" in Chengdu. The 40-year-old Wang Xiaofei has experienced the baptism of a failed marriage and has become more mature and steady. The opening of the new store has been extremely popular, and Wang Xiaofei is also full of joy. .

Moreover, Wang Xiaofei’s brand also ranks first in Beijing’s catering traffic rankings, attracting many Internet celebrities to visit the store and many diners to try new products. Currently, Ma Liuji has opened 8 stores in Beijing, plus There are now 10 stores in Chengdu, and he revealed that he will speed up the pace of opening stores nationwide.

Unexpectedly, after the divorce, Wang Xiaofei became independent again. Why is this?

01

When talking about Wang Xiaofei, we have to talk about his mother Zhang Lan, this "wonderful woman" in the Chinese catering industry.

Zhang Lan’s life was full of legends and ups and downs. Her father was the owner of Tianjin Meihua Shoe Store, and her family had Banner blood. Everyone in the family was delicious, and they also ate very well. Be careful, even if you eat pickles, you have to put them on three small plates.

Logically speaking, she is also a eldest lady, but when she was pregnant with her, due to some reasons, her mother was forced to divorce her father.

After she was born, her mother remarried, and she was sent to Hubei with her mother and stepfather. Growing up in the countryside, she had a tough and perseverant personality, and was very independent and daring to act.

At the age of 15, she took it upon herself to help her mother get a place to return to the city. A few years after returning, Zhang Lan found her grandmother and father again. At the age of 18, father and daughter recognized each other, and Her mother knew nothing of all these things.

With the help of her father, she worked in a vegetable factory, where she met Wang Xiaofei's father, Wang Zehan. Wang Zehan was the director of the vegetable factory at that time. He was charming and admired by many girls.

But that era was relatively conservative, and girls did not dare to express themselves too directly. Zhang Lan didn’t care so much, and immediately took action when he fell in love with him. He sold the shoes his grandma gave him to treat Wang Zehan to dinner, and pursued him passionately. , and soon they got married and the female workers in the factory were filled with hatred.

They all thought that Zhang Lan would now become the wife of the factory director and could live a comfortable life, but they did not know that Zhang Lan’s ambitions were far more than that, and this marriage was also completed in 1987. Full stop.

In 1989, the craze for going abroad broke out, and many young people chose to go abroad to earn money. At that time, Zhang Lan was 31 years old and Wang Xiaofei was 8 years old. However, she still couldn't restrain her eagerness to leave. The son went to Canada to join relatives.

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Zhang Lan originally thought that after earning 20,000 US dollars, she would come back and live a good life with her son, but she did not expect that it was not easy to make money abroad, and she could not find a job because of the language barrier. There was no formal job, so she could only do work such as washing dishes and washing hair. In order to make money as quickly as possible, Zhang Lan worked four or five jobs at the same time. After two years, she had saved up to 20,000 US dollars.

In 1991, after Zhang Lan returned to China, she opened an "Alan Restaurant". After nine years of experience and capital accumulation, she established the "Beautiful Jiangnan" Group in 2000 and opened her first restaurant in Beijing International Trade Center. A store that takes the route of high-end catering.

Zhang Lan’s career map can be said to have been “drunk” by herself. When she opened a restaurant, in order to attract business, she often went to toast old customers. Fortunately, she had a good drinking capacity and was not drunk at all. Being a generous person, Sister Lan became famous within a few years.

Her career was flourishing, but her son was neglected. Wang Xiaofei spent her childhood in a large courtyard. Her grandma and grandma took him in occasionally, but she never enjoyed the complete father's and mother's love.

When Zhang Lan was 15 years old, Zhang Lan sent Wang Xiaofei to France to study design. She studied abroad for 6 years and returned to China at the age of 22. After returning to China, she joined the South Beauty Group as executive director and was responsible for South Beauty. Overseas Business Department.

But in fact, Wang Xiaofei did not have any real power in South Beauty, and Zhang Lan also pampered him and let him live and drink.

In the second year, Wang Xiaofei felt that she had no real property and was looked down upon by others in the circle, so she had to use her talents.

With a wave of his hand, Zhang Lan took 300 million yuan to start a business for his son. Wang Xiaofei used her design skills and invited famous design masters to design the "LAN" club, a high-end club named after Zhang Lan. , and since then have formed an indissoluble bond with female stars in the entertainment industry, first Zhang Yuqi and then Big S.

03

After breaking up with Zhang Yuqi by slapping each other, in 2010, Wang Xiaofei and Big S got married just 20 days after they met. The jealousy of the female star is aroused, and Big S is proud that she has married a handsome and rich "Four Young Masters in Beijing".

The year they held their wedding, Zhang Lan entered the Hurun Rich List for the second time, ranking 589, with a net worth of 3.1 billion yuan, an absolute wealthy family.

In the past few years, Big S has been almost semi-retired, becoming a rich wife, concentrating on taking care of her body and passing on the family line. She only occasionally shows up in variety shows to show off her shoes and bags. Bao, complaining about her husband and in-laws to highlight her status, her tone full of ridicule.

For example, she said that when her mother-in-law went to her house for the first time, she told Big S's mother, "Our family is Manchu, and the Manchus (Wang Xiaofei) will trouble you to be more careful in the future." And Big S's My mother obviously understood, but she deliberately pretended not to understand and said, "Sister Lan, I'm sorry I don't understand. Our family is just not satisfied."

I don't know what Zhang Lan thought after hearing these words. Especially since she has always been proud of her noble status, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not much better.

Since Wang Xiaofei got married, her status has been lower than that of Japanese dramas. The originally arrogant and aggressive young man in the Beijing circle was made submissive by his spoiled wife. It has to be said that in terms of eloquence, she ranks second. No one dares to recognize No. 1. She always says extremely cruel words with a harmless face.

04

At that time, everyone couldn’t understand how Zhang Lan, who was so resolute in the shopping mall, could tolerate Big S treating Wang Xiaofei like this. Later, they understood that since they got married, South Beauty was already in decline. In those years, Zhang Lan went crazy in financing and raised a lot of money through the reputation of Big S, so Big S is definitely her family's living signature.

Unfortunately, Zhang Lan was too ambitious and signed a "bet" in order to go public, and was eventually kicked out by Capital in 2015.

Zhang Lan and Wang Xiaofei were also unemployed. Wang Xiaofei, who had nothing to do, worked in beverages and real estate, but they all failed in the end. The business of opening a hotel was also very poor, but Wang Xiaofei didn't care. His thoughts are all on his family. The arrival of his two children made him realize the happiness of family. Having lived in a single-parent family since he was a child, he has longed for this kind of happiness.

It can be said that Wang Xiaofei is really impeccable in terms of being a husband and a father, but the eldest sister is not satisfied with this. In her mind, the other half is not a soft-boiler at home.

The eldest son became more and more disgusted with Wang Xiaofei's incompetence, and finally took his two children back to his hometown and separated from Wang Xiaofei in the name of the epidemic.

In order to vent the frustration in her heart, Wang Xiaofei, who had no one to care about, started to live and drink again. She often made some inappropriate comments after drinking too much, and even flirted with Internet celebrities. The big S didn't even want to control it. It seemed This person has nothing to do with him.

This is the cruelest revenge. Wang Xiaofei must have been very painful during that time. He obviously did nothing wrong, and his wife and children were gone. So he who loved his children must have been extremely uncomfortable, but yet There is no way to save it.

05

In order to save this marriage, Wang Xiaofei also tried his best, but always "painting a tiger will not turn out to be an anti-dog". When his sister-in-law was exposed online, he took the initiative to stand up for her. He spoke, but his wife blamed him for not speaking out; his family couldn't get vaccinated in his hometown, and he anxiously questioned him on social platforms, but his wife responded that she wanted to divorce him, and Wang Xiaofei cried to death.

In fact, it’s not that he did something bad. When a person no longer loves you, everything you do is wrong.

Wang Xiaofei was too tired to maintain this marriage, and finally couldn't hold on any longer and got divorced.

But he always made mistakes and could not speak. After the divorce, he gave Big S an incomparable dignity. He did not say a word of blame, did not fight for the child's property with Big S, and did not make any response. Give Big S the right to respond. Zhang Lan cried during the live broadcast and said that Chen Jianzhou strangled him and hit him, and he even took the initiative to apologize.

Explain that the family members misunderstood because of information asymmetry. How could there be a misunderstanding? After all, isn't it all for your wife and children? He broke his teeth and swallowed it in his stomach.

I really don’t know if Big S was moved at all when he saw this, or if he disliked Wang Xiaofei for not being a man. Wang Xiaofei's heart probably died at this time.

06

There is nothing to worry about after the divorce, and there is no need to run there hundreds of times a year. Wang Xiaofei is 40 years old, and her heart has finally settled down. In fact, it started last year "Ma Liu Ji" has opened several stores, but Wang Xiaofei's mind is not there. Now she can finally concentrate on her career.

Facts have proved that Wang Xiaofei is not incapable, but it turns out that she is too young and wants to try too many things. In the end, she finds that it is not easy to work in any profession, and it is advantageous to work in her old profession, so he gathers the talents of South Beauty The original team includes An Yong, who started the business together, Li Ping, the CEO and chef of South Beauty, who is from Chengdu, and Yang Yang, who is responsible for operations.

The reason why I chose Sichuan cuisine is that Zhang Lan started her career in a Sichuan restaurant. The first store of Ma Liuji was opened in Guomao, and the first store of South Beauty was also opened here. .

Wang Xiaofei finally returned to her original intention and truly had her own career. At the age of 40, it is not too late.

In fact, it’s not that he has no ambition, it’s just that he was spoiled by his mother and is not used to taking responsibility. Moreover, he enjoys the happiness of family too much after marriage, and his mind is entirely on the family, so he can’t do anything. .

Nowadays, the success of Ma Liuji has proved Wang Xiaofei’s strength. I wonder if Big S regrets seeing all this? For her, it is not difficult to find a rich man, nor is it difficult to find a successful man, but it may be difficult to find someone who loves her so much.