How to play wine table game 10jqkA?

The rules of wine table game 10jqkA are as follows:

Put a male cup on the table, and there is bottom wine in the male cup. Turn the cards in turn, turn to 10, and turn to J to add wine. You can abstain when it's Q ace's turn, but if you have a Q in your hand and then turn to Q, the two cards are low. Turn k to drink, the first k drinks one cup, the second k drinks two cups, and the fourth k drinks four cups; Turn to the first A, keep turning, and the person who turns to the fourth A drinks all the wine on the table.