What's wrong with the mother-in-law's family, even if the couple have a good relationship?

Some men may be more masculine. They think that after marriage, they are good to their wives, parents-in-law and in-laws. No matter what happens in her husband's family, they like to take care of themselves.

In fact, it's enough to have this heart, because sometimes if you don't manage well, you won't be able to hit the fox, causing a lot of coquettish. Maybe it will set you on fire and slowly affect the feelings between you and your wife.

As a man, you must be a smart uncle after marriage and know what you should and should not do.

No matter how good your relationship is, you are actually an outsider in your father-in-law's house, and you are treated as a guest every time you go to someone else's house, which is enough to prove your identity.

Men must remember that these three things in the husband's family should be ignored. If you can stay out of it, you must stay out of it, or look in the mirror, you are not a person inside and outside, and you will still be yourself in the end.

0 1. Parents-in-law have emotional problems, so it's best to leave them alone.

After Yue Zhao got married, she still had a good relationship with her parents-in-law. As his wife is an only child, they naturally regard Zhao Yue as their own son. Zhao Yue also feels very happy, and his parents love him.

But before Zhao Yue married his wife, he knew that his parents-in-law had ordinary feelings. They have been beating and cursing for so many years.

Now that their daughter is married, they feel that the task has been completed and they don't have to worry about anything, so they are clamoring for a divorce.

Although Zhao Yue's wife has been psychologically prepared, she still can't accept the old couple's constant quarrels, because she also wants a very complete family.

Seeing his wife come back from her parents' home is always a long face, and Zhao Yue is also very distressed. He wants to help his wife.

So I went to my mother-in-law's house alone. In fact, I mainly want to talk to the old couple and let them stop fooling around when they are so old. Isn't it good to spend your old age safely?

Hearing Zhao Yue's words, the old couple didn't want to, because they felt that Zhao Yue, a junior, had been pointing fingers at the two old people, and their faces were very guilty.

Zhao Yue words haven't say that finish, the old father-in-law quit. He got angry at that time, and Zhao Yue went out with the old couple because he was very unhappy.

From then on, Zhao Yue knew that they could make as much noise as they liked, and they certainly couldn't control it in the future. Very kind, but people don't appreciate it at all.

02. Property distribution of mother-in-law's family.

Zhang Bin's wife, Lily, has a brother, and now the family is facing the problem of property distribution.

The reason why Lili's parents want to divide the real estate is mainly because they feel old and involve the issue of providing for the elderly. Now, before they get confused, distribute the property in advance, so as to avoid any trouble in the future.

Zhang Bin is a talkative and nosy person. When distributing the property, he first expressed his opinion. Originally at home, his wife told him to talk less. When he arrived at his mother-in-law's house, he just couldn't hold back.

Zhang Bin say that finish, lily's sister-in-law is unwilling. She thinks this is their Lao Li family's business. Zhang Bin is an outsider, and there is no place for him to talk.

Besides, the old man hasn't spoken yet. How could he speak first? This is obviously a disrespect for the elderly.

So Lili's sister-in-law quarreled with Zhang Bin, and the family property was not divided. Now the situation is rather embarrassing, and the most difficult thing is Lili's parents.

I thought I could give the children some money to help them, but I didn't expect to quarrel now because of this matter. When will you divide the property in the future? How can we wait until their anger disappears?

In fact, when the daughter-in-law has no say in this matter, don't say so much, because this is the old man's business and the old man's money. How to divide people when they are happy? It's none of your business.

03. The contradiction between in-laws and relatives.

Some men feel that after marriage, they are the patron of their mother-in-law's family. Especially, some men feel that their angry mother-in-law's family doesn't even have a son, and later he will become the patron of this family.

Therefore, no matter what happens in the mother-in-law's family, he likes to take care of it, especially the contradiction between the mother-in-law's family and other relatives. He likes to stand out.

Don't think that you can please your mother-in-law's family by doing so, but you can't.

Because we in China all know that no matter how bad our relatives are, there will always be people who act as matchmakers when something goes wrong, so we are so haggle over every ounce, and sometimes we have to count on our relatives.

You are a son-in-law, and sometimes if you don't manage it well, your mother-in-law may have a bad impression on you. So try not to take the initiative in this kind of thing, and don't make trouble for yourself. It is not good to have time to work hard.

DOG:

Everyone thinks that the daughter-in-law is bad, and it is really difficult to face all kinds of contradictions after marriage, especially fighting with her mother-in-law.

Actually, my uncle is not so accommodating. Because my uncle doesn't live together at ordinary times, it's easier and there are not so many contradictions. Moreover, my mother-in-law and my father-in-law are more tolerant and less critical of my uncle.

This tells men that they must be rational, never make trouble for themselves, and don't worry about the above. No matter how good your relationship with your wife is, maybe if you do this, your wife will be implicated.

Your wife is caught in the middle, and then it will affect the feelings between you and your wife. Why bother? Not worth it.

As a man, you should also learn to be a smart man and know how to mediate the relationship between wife and mother.

You should also learn how to deal with your mother-in-law and father-in-law. This is actually a great learning, which requires you to study all your life.

Some men will be more impulsive when they encounter this kind of problem. Remember, no matter what happens, don't be impulsive. Maybe impulse will hurt yourself, and it really doesn't do you any good.

You should remember this, no matter how good your relationship with your wife is and how good your feelings are, when you get to your father-in-law's house, you are a guest, and it is better to help more and talk less than anything else.