If your friend cheats on you, do you think you should tell his partner?

My answer is that I shouldn’t say it.

First of all, we are all adults, and adults must know how to take into account each other's feelings, especially emotional matters. If my good friend thinks wholeheartedly that his current partner is devoted to him and is his true love. Then we stupidly told her, I saw your boyfriend dating another woman, how will the other party react if I say this?

Most people are confused at first and don’t know what to do next. Then if my good friend asks me how I know, I have to explain to her: Where am I? She saw her boyfriend making a very intimate move with another woman, which was a very touching scene. When I told my good friend these things, what did she think?

She will thank you for telling her on the surface, and then she will resolve these matters privately by herself, and tell you later that she should not tell anyone else about this matter.

This is also the second point I want to make. Feelings are a very private thing.

Precisely because feelings are a private thing, couples hope that this thing is unique to them. Whether it is good or bad, it is their own choice, and it is something that two people need to deal with. , so if a third person knows something at this time, it will seem unnatural and uncomfortable for a couple. Even if you tell her "I won't let others know", you have become the whistleblower who broke her beautiful relationship.

So I won’t choose to tell my friends directly. Some people will definitely ask, if this thing really happened, as a good friend, if I didn't tell this thing, would it cause harm to my friend.

But I think there are some things that cannot be said directly. The road must be walked by each person. What he has experienced should be decided by himself. This is true in life, love, including lovers. So as an outsider, I have no say in this matter. Moreover, after experiencing an emotional failure, you will know which mistakes you cannot make again next time.

As a good friend, what I need to do is to accompany the other person through her emotional bottleneck period, and let her know that when she is most sad, as a good friend, I will still be by her side. . Companionship, I think, is more powerful than filing a lawsuit, and it better embodies the meaning of a friend.