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There is a kind of feeling called god sister

"You don't have any sisters, and I don't have any sisters either. Let's become sisters. Let's set up a game one day."

At first I thought it was a joke, but it was just that we both felt that the other party He is a nice person, he plays well, and the children play well, so we have been getting along like this without any rituals or games.

But I don’t know when this extraordinary relationship began to permeate every aspect of our interactions.

Let’s have a party together after a while, have a meal, walk the kids... It’s a wonderful time. She is relatively strong and has organizational skills, so she is basically the one who gets together every time. Zhang Luo, every time we have all kinds of fun, and of course we are not the only ones who play together. I remember one time there were five children (we were still in the middle class of kindergarten at the time), two boys and three girls, together with their parents. It was a very happy day to gather in the park and play, but what I didn’t expect was that at the end of the afternoon, she took four of the children home, two boys and two girls. Oh my God, this was the first time my jaw dropped. .

Cooking, bathing, and putting the children to sleep at night, God knows how she did it. It is said that bathing is a big project, and there are many conditions when sleeping, but she thinks everything is fine, and takes photos to prove it, and threatens to show it at their wedding

The days passed by like this, and in the blink of an eye, Xiaodou in kindergarten After the beans graduated, I thought that this relationship might gradually fade away. After all, they met in kindergarten.

As expected, one year or two...slowly, from five children to four to three...but what is rare is that the three children left behind have been maintained, and most of them are still She is the most active in encouraging... I feel like every time I see her, she is always full of energy and endless energy. It is good to be like this, and it is really good for the children to have a baby. And the matter of having sex with sisters was never mentioned again.

What made me feel that she also had a fragile side was after her father (hereinafter referred to as uncle) became ill. His uncle was diagnosed with the disease and passed away about six months ago. During this period, I felt that she had changed, and she would become depressed and depressed. Anxious to shed tears. I remember the night before my uncle left, I went to the hospital to see him. She also saw a spider crawling on the wall, so she shouted to the spider: "Spiders like spiders, spiders like spiders. If you like, climb up." I know that my uncle is very fond of him. The special meaning of the words is that she and her mother have always been at odds, but her father has always protected and doted on her. I admire her strength and optimism.

For her, her uncle's departure meant that the sky of her life suddenly collapsed. I accompanied her on the day of her uncle's funeral. I cried several times in the funeral parlor and became delirious! For the first time, I saw her vulnerable side, dazed and helpless, as if her whole being had been hollowed out.

After a long time, I no longer had the liveliness and bustle I had before, and I seemed to have grown up a lot.

However, this did not delay our communication at all. When she had time, she always liked to take my son to their home to eat, live and play. It seemed that we were closer since uncle. Maybe it had something to do with what her uncle told her before he left. Friends only make friends with careless ones.

In fact, she really has no shortage of friends. No matter where she goes or what she does, she always seems to know someone. But occasionally she will say that sometimes she feels tired and always feels busy. I don't have many true friends.

Perhaps this is how people interact with each other. I always felt that she was very busy, either making appointments or on the way to make appointments. Playing cards and entertainment were not uncommon, until one time she had a big incident with her daughter. It was unpleasant, the quarrel was fierce, and even physical violence was involved. I found out that she and her daughter had been having problems for a long time. I took my daughter back to my house that day, and I stayed with her at her house for one night. She said that she envied me and my daughter. Husband, you live an ordinary life with no shortage of friends. I said that you are actually the one we envy. You have many friends and strong social skills. She smiled bitterly. In fact, she felt that she was a failure. Her mother, husband, and daughter were not considerate to her. I don’t have many friends that I can talk to… Maybe it was because I drank too much, or maybe it was because of my true feelings. She said a lot of things that day that subverted my cognition, which made me feel that the only thing I could do was to listen to what she said. Stay with her quietly, comfort her from time to time...

Since then, I seem to have a real sister, who always thinks of me in everything, including my son's birthday. They are always more caring than me, and holiday gifts are not a big deal. My second child has been running around since he was born, and now the second child has express delivery every now and then, and it’s all the food he likes and plays with... I went to kindergarten. It was not far or close, and the park was in a community. It was really inconvenient to drive to and from school. Electric cars were immediately arranged... All these things made me often feel that I have no virtue and no ability.

Some time ago, her waist was injured and she rested at home for more than a month. During this period, I ran a lot. What surprised me was that this person who was busy every day and did not eat the fireworks of the world actually started to think about life. She said that she had never been so calm during the epidemic. She started reading, gave up some unnecessary social activities, and gave me the meat I asked for. She actually started a normal life, discussing with me the education of her children, and even her neighbors gave her The comments all feel that it has been implemented recently.

My waist has gotten better recently, and I have started to get together again one after another. She has a lot of friends and besties. One day my classmate’s mother was going to her house. She felt that there was nothing to talk about, so she called me over. , I have to take care of the rescue. By chance, two of her best friends also went there. They are the kind of people who eat, drink and play every day. I have always felt that their status in her heart must be much higher. , because we were in contact almost every day and got together every three days, but when she introduced me to others, she always said that I was her god-sister, and some of the others were best friends and some were good friends.

It was an extremely lively day. People who love to joke always make trouble when they get together. There is constant laughter while cooking together. During this period, I overheard her talking to her classmate’s mother: Best friend and fuck Sisters are definitely different. Best friends are there for quarrels, and sisters are there for pain. Undoubtedly, this sentence aroused the jealousy of some people and caused another uproar.

But I seem to understand some of the true feelings in it. There is a kind of feeling. It is not so vigorous and lively, but you have me in your heart and I have you in my heart. Although we don’t contact each other every day, we often get together. But I always come first in my heart. It feels so good to have someone thinking about me and having someone to think about me all the time.

And I finally stopped being jealous of her girlfriends and friends, because only fuck sisters are there for pain.