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Can couples sleep together the night before marriage?

People always say that the bride and groom should not meet the day before the wedding.

Therefore, the bride and groom can't sleep together the night before the wedding.

So, who does the bride sleep with the day before the wedding? These questions about where the groom sleeps.

Let's talk about the bride first:

1, sleep by yourself

Getting married soon, everyone is inevitably a little nervous and excited. If conditions permit, the bride can choose to go to bed early, keep her spirits up, and do some sleep-aiding measures to have a good rest and sleep, so that she can appear perfectly the next day.

But now many guests will come early because of their marriage, so sleeping alone has basically become a luxury.

Step 2 sleep with the bridesmaid

Now getting married and blocking the door has become a necessary link, and bridesmaids are also the main figures blocking the door. Therefore, in many weddings, bridesmaids will come one day in advance to prepare for the next day. At this time, bridesmaids usually arrange to sleep with the bride.

But one thing, Bian Xiao had to remind, if the maid of honor menstruation, it is best not to sit on the wedding bed! ! !

3. Sleep with your mother

I'm getting married the next day, and I can't finish talking to my mother. Some brides will choose to sleep with their mother the day before the wedding, which is also a commemoration before marriage.

In fact, in addition to the above, what Bian Xiao wants to say is that as long as you don't sleep with the groom, there is no problem, such as close friends, relatives, sisters and sisters.

As for whether you can sleep in the wedding bed, it depends on whether the couple mind. Of course, I don't think there is anything wrong with Bian Xiao.

However, if it is menstruation, it is best not to sleep in the wedding bed. It is not only superstition, but also fear that my aunt will dirty the quilt cover, which is a big bad thing.

Where does the groom sleep?

Before marriage, the groom-to-be can't sleep alone on the wedding bed, otherwise it will be considered as unlucky to be alone after marriage.

If there is really no other place to rest, you can find an underage boy to sleep in a new bed.

If both men and women live in the same place, then two people can live in their own homes.

If not in the same place, it will be held at the man's house. The groom usually sleeps at home, and the bride usually chooses a hotel or a relative's house not far away.

It is held at the woman's house. Girls sleep at home, boys usually stay in hotels and pick up relatives the next day.

As for some taboos before marriage, we also need to pay attention to:

As mentioned above, the groom-to-be cannot sleep alone on the wedding bed. Otherwise, sleeping in an empty bed is a big taboo. The so-called "if you are trapped in an empty bed, you will die, and you will die" is considered to be an ominous sign. This implies loneliness after marriage, which is very unlucky.

Secondly, according to the old man's point of view, a woman who has given birth to a child can't sleep well in a new bed that the new couple hasn't slept in, which will affect the luck of the newly married couple's children. There is a saying that she has no children for three years.