? The wayward working girl in the shared house: Why do you find a new boyfriend every time you change jobs?

After graduating from college, I got a job in the city. In order to solve the accommodation problem, I shared a house with others. We two girls live in a two-bedroom apartment. Xiao Juan next door is a few years younger than me, only in her early twenties, but she is lively, cheerful and careless.

At first, I got along well with Xiao Juan, but after living together for a year, I found that this sunny girl has an alternative hobby. She changes jobs every two or three months. What is even more surprising is that every time she changes jobs, her boyfriend changes immediately. A year later, I saw that she brought back more than four boyfriends, which made me a little nervous as an older single woman. Is she too open or am I backward?

Comrade Xiao Juan, because of his low education, first found a job as a cake shop attendant, with a low monthly salary, but it was passable. A week after we shared the room, she brought a strange man back and introduced him to me as her boyfriend. At first, I didn't think much. I guess it's the object I've been talking about before. Later, I learned that this boyfriend met on the third day of working in a cake shop, because the young man went to the store to buy snacks every day. After a while, they chatted very well, so they soon fell in love. It's an eye-opener for feelings I've never been in love with.

Xiao Juan only worked in this position for two months, but she quit her job in a rage because of a quarrel with her boyfriend. After a week's rest at home, I found another job as a hotel waiter. Ten days later, she found a new boyfriend. According to her, this is her colleague and an old waiter in the hotel. They stuck together all day, and a few days later, the Kung Fu boy moved directly to live with Xiao Juan. The noise between two people is so loud at night that I often can't sleep. I had the impulse to knock at the door, but I gave up because I was embarrassed.

Xiao Juan has a bad temper and often quarrels with her boyfriend, which really embodies the old saying "quarrel in bed at the end of the bed", and they are carefree overnight. However, Xiao Juan has a bad habit. He throws things when he is angry, which makes his neighbors have a lot of complaints. Several times, neighbors knocked at the door and warned them not to disturb the people. This embarrassed me, so I quickly apologized and said it wouldn't happen again.

It was not until she worked as a hotel waiter for three months that she had a conflict with the manager and resigned angrily. This time I went to work in a karaoke bar through a friend of the opposite sex, and my male colleague who lived together was swept out of the house in a few days. The schedule of the new job is very complicated. Xiao Juan often comes back at three or four o'clock in the morning and washes himself after coming back, which makes it difficult for me to sleep. Before long, she brought back a new boyfriend, because they were all late for work and rest. I met this new boyfriend at noon on a weekend. From the appearance, this man is at least ten years older than Xiao Juan. At first glance, he is a slick playboy.

Later, I found out that this glib boyfriend didn't come to share the house after four or five days. It was not until Xiao Juan asked me to go to the hospital that I realized that her boyfriend had mysteriously disappeared. Besides, Xiao Juan is pregnant and asked me to accompany her to have an abortion. I'm really embarrassed. I have lived for nearly 30 years, and it is the first time I went to the hospital to do such a thing for my friends. Xiao Juan is very calm, a pair of used to it. I wanted to persuade her not to be too headstrong in the future, to find a down-to-earth boyfriend to live a good life, to get married early, and not to be single like me. Can see Xiao Juan that a face of indifferent appearance, also dismissed the idea.

After coming out of the hospital, Xiao Juan was still calm and took me to dinner. I can't see the slightest weakness in her usual expression. On the way home, Xiao Juan asked me to borrow 1000 yuan, but I didn't refuse and gave it to her directly. She rested at home for half a month, and I occasionally bought her some supplements. Xiao Juan has a sweet mouth. I am grateful to have a good friend who cares so much about my life. And I often have the idea of encouraging her in my heart, but I don't have the courage to speak again and again. It seems that from the bottom of my heart, we are different

Later, Xiao Juan found a new job. Not surprisingly, she had a new boyfriend. It seems that in her world, there is no concept of "single-mindedness", and feelings have become consumer goods, which can be squandered. Just as a best friend, I still don't have the courage to persuade her. Perhaps the kindness of outsiders can't change her nature at all, just as it is the same reason that we can never wake up a person who pretends to sleep.