How to complain about Guangzhou? Young women are addicted to one-night stands.

I am a very bad woman. After five years of marriage, my husband has been very kind to you. But two years ago, I fell in love with a one-night stand. It's like a dose of methamphetamine, which I can't cope with. In the past two years, my good sisters and I went to nightclubs almost every two weeks, waiting for the strange boys who were tempted under the dim lighting effect and hazy wine color. That feeling makes my heart beat faster. How to complain about Guangzhou? I like every strange and devoted hug, every novel and passionate lingering, which my husband and all the regular boys can't give.

In fact, every time I come home from playing outside, I still feel a heavy sense of shame. I can try to fill my guilt with higher softness. I want to stop before he finds something, but I'm not willing. Every time if he is not at home, I feel uneasy at night. I'm worried, and I need to hear from my good sister urgently. Recently, many nights, I dreamed that my husband tied me to the bed and cut me with a knife after discovering that I was still outside. I was really about to collapse, but I couldn't help but want to give up. Tonight, I turned off my cell phone and called my brother and sister-in-law to accompany me, but I still felt uneasy. I don't know how much longer I can hold on like this. The sky is always blue. Can you give me an idea? How can I control myself? Do I have to see a psychiatrist?

Hello! I can feel your worry and confidence from your letter. I believe you must be able to manage yourself well and stick to it, but the important thing is that you have not figured out the crux of the problem and it is difficult to treat it. Looking at the blue sky all the time, in addition to your own reasons, there are three direct reasons for your one-night stand addiction:

First, the husband is not at home for a long time;

In this case, I think you should try to avoid getting along with others. If the standard allows, let your husband spend more time with you, or let some people who can play a supervisory role with you, as you often say in your letter. In addition, it is also important to shape a new active and healthy hobby, such as reading, listening to songs, shopping and even playing cards. You can try a temporary migration. How to complain about Guangzhou?

The second is the temptation of good sisters;

To tell the truth, you can often get to this point today, and it may be due to your good sister from beginning to end. I don't know what kind of person she is, but I believe there must be a little-known humbleness in her. Obviously, it is easy to be assimilated into sisters by such people. If you don't break up with her completely as soon as possible, your one-night stand addiction will certainly be difficult to completely eliminate.

Third, a one-night stand can make you happy without paying.