What was the saddest thing you experienced when you first left society?

The humblest and saddest thing I did when I first came out of society was that I just graduated from high school and knew nothing. Earned about 500 a month. At that time, I had no concept of saving money, and I didn't feel poor at home. After all, my mother bought me clothes for free when I was a child. Father pua said that I had no money at home, so I tried my best to save money, eat steamed bread in the morning and evening, and beat the cheapest tofu in the canteen at noon.

Then I deposited in 60 yuan from the 100 yuan allocated within one week. I don't want to go home that week, which is good. Sometimes I will reward myself with a loaf of bread and a coke when I am greedy, and save at least a few dollars a week. At the end of the month, I went home and gave the money I saved to my parents, telling him that I would save money and be independent. You can help me save the money slowly, and then we will have money when we need to spend money in the future, and then the next day.

After social work, these 15 facts must be known! I hope everyone is well. For Xiao Bai, who just graduated, I hope to have a pleasant journey in the workplace.

However, the social reality is realistic, and understanding some truth will make you take fewer detours in the workplace! I won't be disappointed in society when I meet you!

15 social reality:

First, it is difficult to have good friends at work;

Work is to maximize benefits. You work for money, skills and the future. Most people come for that salary. So don't be discouraged if you can't make good friends in the workplace, because everyone is the same, not just you.

Second, it is normal for colleagues not to contact after leaving their jobs;

After leaving your job, everyone has their own life and circle, so it is normal for many colleagues who used to contact each other every day. Maybe they will not contact you as soon as you leave your job.

Third, the establishment of civil servants is so fragrant;

Without the beating of society, you wouldn't know that the companies affiliated with the country are the real iron rice bowls, and few private enterprises can work until retirement.

Fourth, finding an object is more difficult than school;

Because your job is more about two points and one line, if you are in the women's department, it will be more difficult to find someone unless you are good at communication and familiar with the whole company.

Fifth, it is very troublesome for married girls to find jobs;

Although men and women are equal, there are still too many inequalities. For example, married girls will be rejected when looking for a job, fearing that you will take maternity leave directly when you come. If you get married and have children, you are afraid of having a second child. I'm afraid you put your family first and have no idea about your work.

Sixth, talk less and do more outside;

Whether studying or working, it is very important to learn to use your brain!

The difference between those excellent people and ordinary people is that they will be more willing to think and implement immediately than we are;

Seven, neither humble nor humble;

Think of yourself as an equal with others, especially those who just entered the workplace. You can work hard and take the initiative, but don't think you are new here. You are a subordinate of Nuo Nuo. You should sincerely make yourself equal to others.

Eight, don't talk about wages outside;

When a colleague or friend asks you about your salary, you can ask him. After he says a number, you just say it's almost enough. Never feel smarter than your colleagues around you, let alone smarter.

Nine, do not make soft persimmons;

Don't always treat others with gentleness or humility, and ask yourself to treat others. If you can't play bad COP and answer blows with blows, some people really think you are a good crop.

Ten, don't be too helpful;

Always think of others, others will be spoiled by you. After all, not many people know how to be grateful. If you send him breakfast every day, it will be strange not to send you.

Eleven, don't be a bird;

When the boss won't let you make suggestions, don't make any good suggestions. But what you usually think should be summarized in time. When the boss asks you, you can say.

Twelve, grasp the initiative;

When interviewing, don't feel that others are picking on you, and don't wait for hr to ask you and leave. Be sure to ask hr- some questions and examine the whole company and salary.

Including everyone's work form and status, overtime and group building, or ask the company what salary to pay.

Thirteen, not paying wages on time is not a good company entry;

Once you can't pay your salary, remember to ask for it quickly and then withdraw it, otherwise it will only drag on more and more, and it is very likely that you will not get it back.

Fourteen Stay away from overconfident leaders.

When you meet a leader who is too opinionated and completely denies other people's ideas, resign as soon as possible, otherwise you will suffer in the future (unless the salary is really high, you don't want to leave at all), otherwise the more painful it will be.

15. Don't overstep your authority.

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This is a no-no in the workplace. If you find any problems, communicate with yourself or find your superiors first. It is strictly forbidden to leapfrog the situation!

I wish my friends a bright future in the workplace!